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Ryan Hall: Martial Arts and the Philosophy of Violence, Power, and Grace | Lex Fridman Podcast #125


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The following is a conversation with Ryan Hall,
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one of the most insightful minds and systems thinkers
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in the martial arts world.
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He's a black belt in jiu jitsu, accomplished competitor,
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an MMA fighter undefeated in the UFC,
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and truly a philosopher who seeks to understand
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the underlying principles of the martial arts.
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Jiu jitsu is such an important part of who I am,
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and I was hoping to share that with folks
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who might know me only as a researcher.
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I think there's no better person to do that with than Ryan,
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who somehow, remarkably, I can say is a friend,
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and also a modern day warrior philosopher
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of the Miyamoto Masashi line of especially dangerous
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and brilliant humans.
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Also, his amazing wife, Jen Hall, was there as well,
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so if you hear a kind of voice of wisdom coming from above,
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you know who it is.
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I hope you'll allow me the chance to really try and do that,
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like Eric Weinstein, who yes,
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we'll do a third conversation with soon.
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I think if I allow myself to expand the range
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of these conversations on occasion,
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when I do return to science and engineering,
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I'll bring a new perspective and also a little bit more fun
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He was an inspiration to me
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especially in a discipline
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where conventional thinking is everywhere.
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that is in many ways, at least philosophically
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And now, here's my conversation with Ryan Hall.
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Who, in your view, is the greatest warrior in history?
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Ancient or modern?
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That's a tough question, and again,
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I'm no historian by any measure,
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so I'll probably do the worst.
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It's like, what are your best bands ever?
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I'm like, Metallica, and you know, so I'll pick the...
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Metallica just came out with a new album,
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by the way, with an entire orchestra.
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That's kind of cool.
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Yeah. That's important.
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Metallica will always be one of the greatest.
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Yeah, that's right.
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So I agree with you.
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They were a bad example.
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They were a well known, yet awesome band.
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Let me say it's like Nickelback or something like that.
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I mean, that feels cheap
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because everyone makes fun of Nickelback.
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Yeah.
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I guess it depends on how you want to define warrior.
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Something that I think about
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when it comes to trying to evaluate
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various people or situations
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or things that I've read about or heard about
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are the circumstances that they were involved in
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because I think a lot of times
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it's easy to look at the outcomes,
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and obviously we live in an outcome driven world
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and outcomes do matter,
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but at the same time, you look at,
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let's say what Cuba's been able to pull off
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from a combat sports perspective, it's staggering.
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The amount of successful Olympic level competitors
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they have in wrestling, boxing, judo.
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I mean, they're a tiny little island
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with no money and no people.
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That's shocking.
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You know, when you think about the Olympics
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and the United States doing well,
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of course we should do well.
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I mean, Russia should do well.
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China should do well.
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India should do better than they do, honestly.
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Obviously it means like they're not into it as much
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or at least certain sports
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because they have the resources people wise.
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So talent's not going to be an issue.
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So there's something to like
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where the starting point is.
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Like that's the argument with like,
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why people say Maradona,
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I don't know if you're into soccer, okay.
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They say Maradona is better than Messi
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because he basically carried the team
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and won the World Cup with a team
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that wouldn't otherwise win the World Cup.
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And then Messi was only successful in Barcelona
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because he has like superstars,
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he's playing with other superstars.
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Right.
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Yeah, that's fair to say.
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I mean, like you're not,
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there's a lot of factors that go into,
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let's say winning a soccer game.
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And obviously Barcelona,
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particularly for various points in time
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had a ridiculous all star squad of world class players.
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But let's say for instance,
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maybe they didn't have the creative players in Argentina.
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They needed to get the ball up to Messi.
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They didn't have like the NES
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and again the backing there in the midfield.
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But because obviously Argentina's always had
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ridiculous attacking players,
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like even alongside Messi,
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but they're like the three killers up front
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and then a little less behind.
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So it's interesting you say that
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depends how you define warrior
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because you can probably take like
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some of the civil rights leaders,
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you can go into that direction,
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like leaders in general.
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But if we just look at like
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the greatest martial artists in history in that direction,
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do you have somebody in mind?
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I would say at least three that pop into my head
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and would be Hannibal, Alexander the Great,
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and then maybe Miyamoto Musashi,
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the two commanders and then one guy.
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But so it's interesting.
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And then again, you mentioned warriors
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being able to make a lot out of a little.
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Musashi's famous for winning duels
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that were oftentimes one on one.
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The Alexander and Hannibal were military commanders
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and one of them faced Rome.
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And that was an interesting thing.
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Oftentimes coming up with novel tactics,
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different strategies, sometimes under resourced,
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having to do novel and crazy things,
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there's skin in the game.
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That's an interesting thing too.
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I think a lot of times it's,
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if you're playing a video game,
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I don't think you can be a warrior
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because there's no skin in the game.
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You get hurt, you lose, that's a bummer.
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It stings a little bit,
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maybe it makes you feel slightly disappointed,
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but Musashi loses, he loses.
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Hannibal loses, he loses.
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Alexander loses, he loses.
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And they lose, I guess the people around them lose.
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So that's almost like you could use,
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even from a combat sports perspective, Muhammad Ali,
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I mean, you consider also their quality of opposition.
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Musashi was fighting high quality opposition.
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Obviously Hannibal and Alexander, particularly Hannibal,
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were fighting unbelievable opposition.
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Muhammad Ali fought phenomenal opposition,
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but he had skin in the game both in the ring and out.
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And that actually meshes with, as you mentioned,
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like a civil rights type of situation
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where you are under resourced,
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you're pushing the stone uphill.
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And that was a neat thing I think about Muhammad Ali
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was how much personal conviction the man had to have
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in order to pull off what he was able to pull off
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both in and outside of the ring.
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And that reminds me of, again,
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some of the other great leaders
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or great fighters throughout history.
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So what do you make of the kind of very difficult idea
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that some of these conquerors like Alexander the Great
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and somebody that, if you listen to Hardcore History,
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oh, Dan Carlin, who apparently Elon Musk
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is also a big fan of, is the Genghis Khan episode.
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A large percent of the world can call Genghis Khan
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an ancestor.
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So the difficult truth is about some of these conquerors
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is that there's a lot of murder and rape and pillage
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and stealing of resources and all that kind of stuff.
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And yet they're often remembered as quite honorable.
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I mean, in the case of Genghis Khan,
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there's a lot of people who argue,
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if you look at historically the way it's described
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in full context, is he was ultimately,
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given the time, he was a liberator.
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He was a progressive, I should say.
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In terms of the violence and the atrocities he committed,
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he, at least in the stories, has always provided the option
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of not to do that.
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It's only if you resist, do,
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so you basically have the option,
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do you wanna join us or do you want to die?
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And die horribly.
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That's the progressive sort of,
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that's the Bernie Sanders of the era.
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Nice.
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So what do you make of that?
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That there's so much of these great conquerors,
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there's so much murder that to us now would just seem insane.
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It's funny you mention it.
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I think that maybe it's a human nature thing
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that we want to, or maybe a misunderstanding thing
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that we want to cast all of our characters and ourselves
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maybe as entirely good or as entirely negative
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when I guess the phrase or the saying,
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one man's freedom fighter is another person's terrorist,
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is accurate.
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And a lot of times I think you can understand
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as long as you're able to look
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from various people's perspective.
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Like if you look at the TV show, The Wire,
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which was obviously widely, everybody loves The Wire.
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I thought that there were everyone,
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I'm not saying anything that's not been said before,
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compelling characters from all angles,
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whether you like the character, dislike the character,
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you were able to understand the motivations of people
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doing various things.
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Even if they did wrongly, they did rightly.
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We want to cast all of the demons throughout history
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as completely inhuman when I think that makes it difficult
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for us to understand them.
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And we want to look back at the people
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that we think of as great and entirely great.
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And I think that we're experiencing the problems with this
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even right now, socially and politically
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as we're trying to look back and decide
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the people we thought were good or not good
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or people we thought were bad are now good
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rather than going, hey, there's good and bad to all things.
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And there are, as you mentioned, the Genghis Khan thing,
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you don't have to fight back.
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You do, I respect you for it,
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but then we're gonna have a conflict
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and then we'll see what happens.
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And if you lose, you're gonna be sorry that you did
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because I have to make it that way.
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If I want to continue utilizing this kind of MO
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because I need to discourage the next guy
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from doing what you're doing right now.
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And ultimately though, I guess that's an interesting thing.
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Imagine you put every single person
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on planet earth in a cage, crime drops, all sorts.
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There are certain positives to that.
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And it's just, things are as they are, it's difficult,
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but that is ultimately more the law of the jungle.
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And I think that we're able to supersede some of that now
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in modern times and I think we're fortunate.
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But as you mentioned, we look back and say,
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oh, this is horrible.
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Say, no, that just is what it is.
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That's how life is at a base level.
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And again, if you're a lion and I'm a gazelle,
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I don't really like it very much,
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but we don't call the lion the bad guy.
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We don't sanctify the gazelle or the other way around.
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So it's just, it's interesting when you pull back
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some of the controls that we put on our behavior
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and in modern life,
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which I think are generally speaking positive,
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we get down to how things often are.
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And at the same time, we could,
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modern life was built by people like Genghis Khan.
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So then you get down to the ends justifying the means.
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It's a tough question.
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These aren't things with easy answers,
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or at least if they are, I certainly don't have the smarts
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to figure out the answers to them, but it's difficult.
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I would just say people in the world are complicated
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and layered and depending upon which side of the line
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you're standing on at various times,
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you may like or dislike someone,
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but I can't remember whose idea it was,
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this is killing me, but it's the veil of ignorance,
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I guess, the philosophical idea of the veil of ignorance
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where I go, is sticking everyone in the cage
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the right thing to do?
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Or everyone but me, and I say, well, no, why?
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Well, it would make my life easier
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if I just went over and took all of your stuff
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as long as you couldn't stop me.
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I mean, of course that's a great idea.
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That's what everyone does in every video game.
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But in Skyrim, you steal stuff when people aren't around.
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But ultimately you go, well,
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this isn't the right thing to do
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because if I were on the other side of it,
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I would not appreciate it.
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It's inherently not a good thing to do.
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I'm only doing it because I think I'm gonna win.
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And that's a fine way to be,
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but you don't have the white hat on, I guess I would say.
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So I think without those philosophical underpinnings
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to rein us in, I guess, morally speaking,
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it's very difficult to say what's right or wrong.
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And you'd say certain actions have a reaction,
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almost like a physics sense.
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If you kill everyone in your way
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for as long as you're able to, your life will be easier.
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I mean, you're setting the table for someone
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doing the same to you when you're no longer the tough guy,
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but it is what it is.
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Yeah, if you look at like the Instagram channel,
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nature is metal, it hurts my heart to watch,
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to remind me, a comfortable descendant of ape,
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how vicious nature is, just unapologetically, just,
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I mean, there's a process to it where the bad guy always wins.
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The violence is the solution to most problems,
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or the flip side of that running away from violence
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is the solution depending on your skillset.
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And it's funny to think of us humans
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with our extra little piece of brain
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that we're somehow trying to figure out,
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like you said, in a philosophical way,
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how to supersede that, how to like move past the viciousness,
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the cruelty, just the cold exchange of nature.
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But perhaps it's not so, maybe that is nature,
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maybe that's the way of life, maybe we're trying too hard to,
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we're being too egotistical and thinking we're somehow
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separate from nature, we're somehow distant
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from that very thing.
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I couldn't agree with you more.
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In fact, I think actually Orson Scott Card,
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who's the writer of a great book called Ender's Game,
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this was a statement that the main character,
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Ender, made in the book.
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His brother was brilliant.
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His brother was like kind of sociopathic brilliant kid
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that ended up kicked out of the school
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that they were all into for Battle Commander.
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Dealing with his brother taught him that ultimately strength,
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courage, the ability to do violence
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for all the good and the bad of that
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is one of the fundamental most important things
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to be able to do in life,
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because if you can't cause destruction,
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if you can't cause pain,
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you will be forever subject to those who can.
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And I think that you mentioned egotism.
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I think that that's a disease
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that could obviously strike any of us,
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but it's something that we're looking at now.
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We're, I think we should be unbelievably thankful
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as people that live in the world that we do
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that we can walk down the street
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without having to worry that I'm like,
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well, don't worry that that's six foot six,
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270 pound person over there is just gonna leave me alone.
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And I have a Rolex on, but whatever, I'll be fine.
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Because that person is deciding to leave me alone
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because we've all agreed to live in this relatively sane
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and or constrained society because it benefits all of us.
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And we're doing it because of a philosophical underpinning,
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not because nature dictates it be that way,
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because nature dictates it go in a very,
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very different direction.
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And the only person,
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the only thing stopping that person
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from doing something to me is either me, that person,
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or someone else that will stand in between us.
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And if I can't do it,
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and there's no one there to stand in between us,
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then the only thing stopping that person is that person.
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And I have to hope that they're either disinterested
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or disinclined to do that sort of thing.
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And I think that it's keeping in mind
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that that is the fundamental nature of the world,
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whether we like it or not is important.
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And I think the quest to fundamentally alter human nature
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is gonna be ultimately fruitless.
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And then also it's, it is a little bit egotistical.
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A lion does what a lion does.
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We can try to box it in and we can try to guide
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this direction, that direction.
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But nature is as it is and as it always will be
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unless we wanna start to constrain it significantly.
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But now I'm starting to get into individual rights
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who put me in charge,
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who says that I should be the one
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to make the choices constraining
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because many of the most awful things
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that have happened throughout history,
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one group or one person has decided to constrain others.
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And we don't like Genghis Khan doing that.
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Well, I'll do that on a little level.
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Are there gonna be benefits and beneficiaries?
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Absolutely, but there'll be losers in that too.
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So I guess it's a dangerous game.
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It's almost like putting on the one ring.
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You remember when Frodo offered the one ring to Gandalf
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and Gandalf said, no, no, I would take it away.
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I would put it on.
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I would use it out of the desire to do good.
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But through me, it would wield a power so terrible
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you can't imagine.
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I think that's the big question for anyone that decides
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that's able to have reach and able to have power.
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I mean, obviously I can't speak to that,
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but imagine you did have national level,
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global level power.
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How would you use it?
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Would you try to change the world?
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Would you be glad that you did down the line?
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I don't know.
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Yeah, that's the thing we're struggling now as a society.
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Maybe it'd be nice to get your quick comment on that,
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which is the people who have traditionally been powerless
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are now seeking a fairer society, a more equal society.
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And in attaining more power justly,
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there's also a realization, at least from my perspective,
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that power corrupts everyone.
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Even if the flag you wave is that of justice, right?
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And so, not to overuse the term, but it'd be nice
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if you have thoughts about the whole idea of cancel culture
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and the internet and Twitter and so on,
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where there's nuanced, difficult discussions of race,
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of gender, of fairness, equality, justice,
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all of these kinds of things.
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There's a shouting down oftentimes of nuanced discussion
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of kind of trying to reason through these very difficult issues,
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through our history, through what our future looks like.
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Do you have thoughts about the internet discourse
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that's going on now?
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Is there something positive?
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Yeah, I mean, it's an interesting thing to see.
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I guess, as you mentioned,
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anytime you're wielding power, whomever you are,
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doing so carefully is important.
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And it's very, very easy to look at the people that have power
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and that are using it poorly or have used it poorly
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and go, hey, you're the bad guy.
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And then go, well, of course, if I had power,
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I'll use it properly and I may intend to use it properly
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and maybe I will.
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But at the same time, we see a lot of times
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people are people are people.
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I think that a lot of the...
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I think if you believe that human beings are all one,
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which I do, no matter whether you're here or there,
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you got two arms, two legs, a heart, a brain,
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we all live a similar experience.
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And obviously, with variations on a theme,
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but you're no less a human being.
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If you're a person I've never met from China,
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than some person in Virginia, we're all people.
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And I guess, ultimately, if I believe that human beings
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are corruptible and that power corrupts
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and that we're all fallible and we say and do things
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that either intentionally or unintentionally
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that we wish we'd not, I think that I have to allow
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for a space, I guess the word, it's almost a religious term,
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but I guess I would just say grace.
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And that's something that I see disappearing from discourse
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in the public, or maybe it wasn't there, I'm not sure,
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but it's interesting watching this occur on the internet
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because also now no longer are you and I just having a talk
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sitting on a bus stop, it's now in writing.
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Everything's in writing.
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The old saying, don't put that in writing.
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You're like, don't put anything in writing.
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That's how you get in trouble.
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And basically, with the degree to which everything
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is recorded, but recorded in tiny little bites,
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it's very, very easy for me to wave every last little foolish,
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ignorant, incorrect, or correct thing that someone
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has ever said or done in their face to support whatever
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argument that I'm trying to make about them or a situation.
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And I think that you mentioned cancel culture,
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as it seems to exist.
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Obviously, this is poisonous on its face.
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This is poisonous.
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It's the sort of thing that doesn't incentivize
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proper behavior.
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I mean, you look at, let's say one of the great monsters
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of history, Adolf Hitler, obviously, who's done awful,
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awful things, but also for anyone that's even a minor
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student of history, did some positive things as well.
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I don't have to embroider this person's crimes.
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I don't have to act as if there was nothing good a monster has
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ever done and nothing bad that a great person throughout history
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has ever done.
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But imagine the ghost of Adolf Hitler were to pop up and go,
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oh, my gosh, guys, I'm so sorry.
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I know what I've done, but I'd like to apologize and start
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to make it right.
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Well, I mean, you'd hope that if he popped up over here,
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you'd go, well, I don't really like what you've done.
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And I don't like you.
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But at the same time, I'm glad to hear that you're attempting
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to make this right and push in a positive direction, even if
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you can't make it right.
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Because otherwise, what am I doing?
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I'm disincentivizing change for the better.
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I'm looking to wield whatever power I have in a punitive
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fashion, which does not encourage people to do anything
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other than double down on the wrongs that they've made,
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knowing that at least they're going to have some support from
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the people that support that.
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And I guess I want to, you would hopefully look at the use
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of the internet as a tool that can educate, and I guess I
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don't like the word empower, but empower people to do various
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things, extend their reach, but educate and learn rather than
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to further solidify little tribal things that exist, which
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I think everyone in humanity and human history is vulnerable
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to.
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I mean, look at the course of human history.
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It's deeply tribal.
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And the tribes or the groups that have been on top at various
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points in time have done a lot of times bad things to the
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ones that have not.
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And you'd hope that we could learn lessons from the past
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and rather than committing the crimes that were committed
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against us, recommitting them when we slide into the top
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position, say, I could do this now, but I'll not.
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I understand the urge to seek vengeance is strong.
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Anyone that says differently, I wouldn't trust.
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But at the same time, we have enough experience in history,
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enough experience in life, enough hopefully wisdom time in
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to go, this isn't the right answer.
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This is only going to replay the things.
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The worst parts of our history, not the best.
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And I want to encourage positive behavior.
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And if I just, again, further lash out at people, although
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understandably, done understandably, I'm simply just
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going to just perpetuate the cycle that's gone on to this
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point.
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So you hope that even though we're seeing a lot of turmoil
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societally at the moment and globally at the moment, that I
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guess our better angels can prevail at a certain point.
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But it's going to take a great deal of leadership.
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And I think that we're sorely missing like a Martin Luther
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King style character at the moment or a great leader.
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And I'm hoping that one will show up.
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For sure.
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And by the way, a word I don't hear often, and I think it's
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a beautiful one, which is grace.
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That's a really interesting word.
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I'm going to have to think about that.
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There is a religious component to it, but it's exactly right.
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You have to somehow walk the line between, you know, you
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mentioned Hitler.
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I've been reading The Rise and Fall of the Third Reich.
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I'm really thinking about the 1930s and what it's like to
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have economic.
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My concern is the economic pain that people are feeling now
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quietly is really a suffering that's not being heard.
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And there's echoes of that in the 20s and the 30s with the
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Great Depression.
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And there's a hunger for a charismatic leader.
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Like you said, there's a leader that could walk with grace,
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could inspire, could bring people together with sort of dreams
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of a better future that's positive.
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But Hitler did exactly everything that I just said, except
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for the word positive, which is he did give a dream to the
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German people who were great people, who are great people
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of a better future.
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It's just that a certain point that quickly turned into the
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better future requires literally expansion of more land.
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It started with, well, if we want to build a great Germany,
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we need a little bit more land.
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And so we need to kind of get Austria, then we need to kind
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of get France, mostly because France doesn't understand that
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more land is really useful.
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So we need to get rid of them.
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And look what they did to us in Versailles anyway.
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But so the Jewish, the Holocaust is a separate thing.
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I don't know.
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Well, I don't know.
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I don't know what to think of it because so me being Jewish
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and having a lot of the echoes of the suffering is in my
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family or the people that are lost.
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I don't know because Hitler wrote all about it in Mein Kampf.
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So I don't know if the evil he committed was there all along.
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I mean, and that's where the question of forgiveness, I mean,
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Hitler is such a difficult person to talk about, but it's
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the question of cancer culture, who is deserving of forgiveness
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and who is not like the Holocaust survivors that I've read
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about that I've heard the interviews with.
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They've often spoken about the fact that the way for them
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to let go, to overcome the atrocities that they've experienced
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is to forgive.
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Like forgiveness is the way out for them.
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It's interesting to think about.
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I don't know if we're even as a society ready to even
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contemplate an idea of forgiveness for Hitler.
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It's an interesting idea though.
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It's a good thought exercise at the very least to think about
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like all these people that are being canceled for doing bad
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things of different degrees.
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Think of like Louis CK or somebody like that for being
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not a good person, but like, what is the path for forgiveness?
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And also what's a good person?
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What is a good person?
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If that's a sliding scale that we could all find ourselves
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looking at the uncomfortable end of a gun on, you know,
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particularly down the line.
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I mean, you hope for the best, but these definitions, I guess,
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like you said, are important and who's doing the canceling,
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who's being canceled.
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I'm not necessarily, as you said, saying that that's entirely
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unjustified or certainly not, it's certainly understandable.
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And particularly you mentioned like a monster, like an Adolf
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Hitler, but it's also interesting.
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I couldn't help but notice, like you mentioned as a society,
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us being able to apply forgiveness to someone who's
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done so much horror, but people who are personal, I mean,
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of course, many of us, so many people in person affected,
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but directly personally affected someone, a survivor of the
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Holocaust being able to let go on that.
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I'm nowhere near big enough a person for that sort of thing.
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But I guess that's an interesting thing, you know, being
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the person who was physically there, potentially able to
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let go, I don't know, that's unbelievably powerful.
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It's interesting.
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I guess you have to wonder sometimes, and this isn't
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obviously in regards to the Holocaust, but why I'm holding
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on to various things, have I, what is it doing for me and
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what is it doing to me?
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Is it facilitative, is it not?
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And I guess that's something else that I really want to
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talk about, something else that I really enjoy.
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When I was on Ultimate Fighter, they don't let you have any
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music or any books.
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I didn't have religious texts, so I brought a Bible and I
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brought a Quran and I started to read them side by side.
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And it was really interesting reading.
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The Bible's a little drier, the Quran's more interesting,
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at least written.
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But I think something that was consistently brought up was
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the way, most merciful.
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People want, I don't think any of us want justice.
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We think we want justice, but I don't think we want justice.
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This is a dangerous, dangerous, dangerous game, because maybe
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this person's wronged me deeply and I want justice.
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I want to balance it out, because what is justice if not
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a balancing of the scales?
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And sometimes you can understand it on a societal
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level, I think it's fine.
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I mean, there's crime and punishment and we can go for
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the benefits and the drawbacks of that.
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But I think what any of us want is mercy within reason, grace,
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as you mentioned, because justice is a very, very, very
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dangerous thing and it's a valuable and important thing.
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But who gets to decide what's just, what justice is actually
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meted out?
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Maybe I get to meet out justice, but it's not, I don't get
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my comeuppance.
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Well, that sounds great, but what happens when it's pointed
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back at me?
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And I guess that comes back to the veil of ignorance, the
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idea that one day I will have to live in the world in which
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I've envisioned and the world in which I've created.
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I think that a lot of times people love the idea of they're
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a judge for your crimes and a lawyer for theirs.
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And I heard that the other day.
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I thought that was great.
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And I think that's a dangerous thing and hopefully it gives
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us all pause before rightly or wrongly, but always understandably
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wielding serious power.
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Yeah.
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Justice is a kind of drug.
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So if you look at history, I've also been reading a lot
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about Stalin.
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I mean, all those folks really, I don't know what was inside
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Hitler's head actually that he's a tricky one because I think
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he was legitimately insane.
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Stalin was not.
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And Stalin was like, he literally thought he's doing a good
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thing.
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He literally thought for the entirety of the time that communism
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is going to bring, like that's the utopia and he's going to
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create a happy world.
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And in his, in his mind were ideas of justice, of fairness,
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of happiness, of, of yeah, human flourishing.
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And that's, that's a drug and it's somehow sadly pollutes the
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mind when you start thinking like that, what's good for
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society and believing that you have a good sense of what's
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good for society.
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That's intoxicating, especially when others around you are
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feeling the same way.
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And then you start like building up this movement and you
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forget that you are just like, you're, you're like barely
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recently evolved from an ape.
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Like you don't know what the hell you're doing.
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And then you start like killing witches or whatever.
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Like you start, you start doing.
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They did math.
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Let's be honest though.
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I mean, sometimes you got a witch has to go.
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Yeah.
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We can all agree that a witch, a witch has to go if, if it
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floats or sinks, which one, I forget which one.
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Whichever one we need at the time, honestly.
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Is it floating?
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It should have sunk.
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Yeah, but yeah, we can definitely agree that witches
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have to go because you brought it up.
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I tweeted recently, but also just, I'm one of the things
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I'm really ashamed of in my life is I haven't really read
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almost any of the sci fi classics.
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Really?
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Yeah.
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So like I, my whole journey through reading was through
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like the literary philosophers that would say like Camus,
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Hase, Dostoevsky, Kafka, like that place, like that's a kind
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of sci fi world in itself, but it's, it just, it creates a
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world in which the, the deepest questions about human nature
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can be explored.
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I didn't realize this, but the sci fi world is the same.
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It just puts it in a, it like removes it from any kind of
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historical context where you can explore those same ideas
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in like space somewhere elsewhere in a different time,
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a different place.
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It allows you almost like more freedom to like construct
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these artificial things where you can just do crazy, crazy
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kind of human experiments.
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So I'm now working through it.
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The books on my list are the foundation series by
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Isaac Asimov, Dune, Snow Crash by Neal Stephenson and
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Ender's Game, like you mentioned.
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That's just kind of, and then, so I posted that.
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And then of course, like Elon Musk, John Carmack, I don't
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know if you know him, creator of Doom and Quake.
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Oh, cool.
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See, they all pitched in these nerds, these ultra nerds
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just started like going like these, you need to read this,
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that and the other.
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So I've like started working out.
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Okay.
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But it seems like the list I've mentioned holds up somewhat.
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Is there a book?
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Is there sci fi books or series or authors that you find
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are just amazing?
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Maybe another way to ask that is like, what's the greatest
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sci fi book of all time?
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Well, I'd like to start by sharing something that I'm
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embarrassed about is that I haven't read anything other
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than, you know, Orson Scott Card, J.R. Tolkien,
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Frank Herbert Tolkien.
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Yeah, I'm aware through Wikipedia and through surface
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reading of things that like a book called the Republic
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was written once.
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There were some other...
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Do you read Wikipedia?
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You're a prolific reader of Wikipedia articles.
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Well, or occasional.
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Occasional reader.
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Exactly.
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In between whatever else it is that I waste my time on.
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But yeah, so I also, I should say, I posted on Reddit
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questions for Ryan Hall and there's like a million
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questions, but like half of them have to do with Dune.
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No, not really.
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But like people bring up Dune.
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I don't understand why.
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Did you mention Dune before?
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Well, actually, we actually have a showy role actually
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made us a Gi, a Dune themed Gi one time, which I thought
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was kind of cool.
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I'll send you.
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I'll give you one.
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We got extra stuff.
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But actually, to your point, actually, this is Orson Scott
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Card quote, actually the writer of Ender's Game.
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Fiction, because it's not about somebody who actually
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lived in the real world always has the possibility of being
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about oneself.
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And I think that's a neat thing because I have heard other
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people whom I respect and very sharp people actually every
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now and then dig their heels and going, I don't like fiction.
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I only like nonfiction.
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It's more instructive.
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And I would go, I completely disagree with that.
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I think we have a hard enough time figuring out what happened
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at 711 three hours ago that, let me tell you what happened
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600 years BC.
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I'm like, hey, I'm interested.
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But don't tell me this isn't a story too.
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Yeah.
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There's factual components, I have no doubt.
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But we struggle sometimes to like, I guess what I like
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about fiction is that you can tell me a story.
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It's all about people.
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I mean, every now there's more and less believable things.
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And I think Dune would be an unbelievably well written,
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in my opinion, for to run, what do I know?
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But I really liked doing, I'll say that well written example
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of human beings interacting with one another, the political
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component to that, the emotional, the intellectual, the
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relationship components, all of that.
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And I think that Dune is neat because it's a sci fi, not
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a sci fi novel, but only in the only in the loosest sense.
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It's really a story about religion, about group dynamics,
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about human potential, about belief, learning, politics,
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governance, ecology.
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It's the best stories remind me of history the same way
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history hopefully is not just a list of facts that I try to be
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able to recall or factoids that I try to recall, but a story
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that I can understand and see how the threads of time kind
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of came together and created certain things.
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And a lot of times, like we say, I'm like, how the heck is
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what's going on right now or 100 years from now or 100 years
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in the past happened.
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And you can look back far enough.
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If we had accurate knowledge, if we had that hypothetical
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perfect pool shot at the beginning of time, we would see
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an unbroken chain of events that led us to where we are and
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where we are will potentially lead us to where we're going,
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which is, again, why hindsight is helpful.
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But I think it's neat.
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Like, I guess I really enjoy, for instance, a book like
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Dune, and they're actually making a movie out of it, which
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I'm skeptical of, to be honest, because it's going to be
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difficult to bring that to the screen for a variety of
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reasons, but there's at least a hundred questions.
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Ask Ryan, what do you think about the new Dune movie?
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I am not enough of an authority to have any sort of decent
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opinion, but I guess what I would say is so much of it
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goes on in the character's mind.
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Like how much of any of our days is any lived experience,
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as it were, is internal, but the majority, how many times
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are people walking around and, you know, they're like, hey,
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what do you see right now?
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I'm like, oh, well, I see this picture.
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I see a wall.
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Hey, there's Lex.
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But really what I was paying attention to was what was
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going on inside of my head for a moment, and almost the rest
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of the world tuned out and kind of dimmed.
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And I guess I think that's going to be a struggle to any
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time you want to bring that type of a written story to a
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visual medium.
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I think it's going to be more difficult, but it'll be
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interesting.
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It's definitely one of my favorite stories, and it's
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honestly helped me become better at life, in my opinion,
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better at martial arts.
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And I think the writer, I think Frank Herbert was absolutely
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brilliant, whether those were all his ideas, which are not
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reality.
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None of us or all of our good ideas aren't ours.
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We're a combination.
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Maybe it came up with something you're a curator of other
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good ideas and some things you borrowed from somewhere
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without even realizing it.
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But I think the way the messages and the themes and the
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ideas that were conveyed, particularly in the original
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novel, are just absolutely brilliant.
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Is that to you one of the greats and the flip side of
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that, or another way to ask that is if somebody is new to
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sci fi, is that something you would recommend that is an
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entry point?
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I'm not well read enough in the sci fi world.
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I haven't read a lot of Isaac Asimov or anything like that,
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but I'll recommend Dune.
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I'll be an obnoxious evangelist for Dune to anyone who'll
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listen.
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So yeah, I would strongly recommend it.
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So the other thing you mentioned, now I should
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probably be talking to you about much more important
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things, but the other thing is Skyrim.
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Do you play video games?
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What's your favorite game?
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What's what would you say is the greatest video game of
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all time?
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Because I'm a huge fan of Elder Scrolls.
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Oh, yeah.
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I mean, I play a little bit at this point.
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You know, a little less finally moves into a new house.
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So you're like an adult.
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No, no, no, no.
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I'm like a better funded 12 year old.
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Yeah, that's yeah, that's entirely that's entirely
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accurate.
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Better funded 12 year old.
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But somewhat better funded 12 year old.
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Not as well funded as I wish.
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But historically, did you play video games?
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Oh, yeah, I played as a kid.
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I was, you know, again, I've always liked playing sports
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and liked reading and I always enjoyed video games.
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But my favorite video game I think I've ever played was
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Knights of the Old Republic.
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It was a Star Wars game.
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A huge Star Wars fan until it become less so recently.
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Disney.
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You don't like the, I haven't watched it yet.
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Oh, Mandalorian.
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Oh, don't go there.
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Oh, actually, I like Mandalorian.
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That was actually pretty cool.
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Yeah, waving this off.
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Yeah, yeah, I will.
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If I could cancel one thing, I would cancel Disney Star Wars.
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I'm going to edit that part out.
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Okay, let's go to the next.
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But this is where if people are wondering if you're watching
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this on YouTube and like the dislike amount is like 80%
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it's because of that comment.
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So good job.
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Good job for making the internet hate you.
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I regret nothing.
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Now, what about Baby Yoda?
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Yeah, I guess he's like little.
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He's got ears and he uses the force sometimes and he passes
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out again.
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No qualms with Baby Yoda.
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Yeah, you don't have a heart.
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Okay, let's go to Jiu Jitsu if it's okay.
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So the audience of this podcast may not know much about Jiu Jitsu
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or they do because it's really part of the culture now,
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but they don't really know much.
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They see that so many people have fallen in love with it,
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have been transformed through it, but they don't know much
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about like, what is this thing?
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Is there a way you could sort of try to explain what is
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Jiu Jitsu, what is the essence of this martial art that's
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captured the minds and hearts of so many people in the world?
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I think that Jiu Jitsu is a philosophy that's expressed
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physically and that it's the kind of development of the
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mental capacity and physical capacity working in unison to
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move efficiently and almost flowingly, unresistingly with
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a given situation, with a physically resisting opponent.
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Learning how to generate force on your own and how to steal
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force from the floor, how to steal force from the other
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person and move in concert with it as opposed to clash
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against, which if you watch two untrained people fight,
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it's almost entirely a clash.
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It's a runaway and clash, a runaway and clash.
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If you watch Jiu Jitsu done well, it looks like water
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moving around a solid structure.
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And I think that that is expressed physically.
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And I think that all of the things that anyone has really
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been able to do very, very well in Jiu Jitsu end up kind
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of exemplifying that.
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But I think that's true of martial arts in general.
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I think that a lot of times like the clashing that we see
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going on and working well is just the fact that it's
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you know, you get very, very physically powerful people
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every now and then they're able to get away with this.
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But I don't think that that's, and that's fantastic
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because ultimately it's a results driven thing.
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But I think that the essence of the martial arts is learning
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how to make more out of less and how to move with
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and be yielding, almost like real life Aikido.
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And so you think of martial arts, Jiu Jitsu as like water
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or flowing, so Aikido, so moving around a solid structure
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so Aikido, so moving around the force as opposed to sort of
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maybe the wrestling mindset is finding a leverage
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where you can apply an exceptional amount of force.
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So like, so like maximizing the application of force.
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I guess maybe that's a better way to, I'd like to marry
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the two ideas, you know, because I think you flow
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until the point at which you are the greater force
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at which point in time you can apply.
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But if you look at the best wrestlers and then when I say
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best, I don't necessarily mean most successful
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although of course most successful are always very
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very good throughout the course of history in boxing
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in wrestling, in Judo, they're magical.
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They disappear and reappear.
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It's like fighting a ghost that is like incorporeal
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when you want to find it.
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But then when you don't want it to find it
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when you don't want to find it, it finds you.
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And I think that we see that in the like the Bufais
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or societies of wrestling.
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And you know, I guess you could look at a Floyd Mayweather
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or Willie Pep or you know, Prunell Whitaker in boxing
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as brilliant examples of disappearing and reappearing.
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And when you're strong, it's almost like guerrilla warfare.
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When you're strong, I'm nowhere to be found.
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When you're weak, you can't get rid of me.
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And I think that's what we're looking for.
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Yes, the TF brothers are incredible at that.
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They just, they look like skinny Starbucks baristas
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and they just manhandle everybody like effortlessly.
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They look like they just kind of woke up,
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rolled out of bed, fighting for like the gold medal
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at the Olympics and just effortlessly throw,
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like there's a match against, I guess, Yul Romero.
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Yeah, so like, you know, if you look at like
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who is the guy who's like intimidating in this case
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and terrifying looking, it's Yul Romero,
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just like a physical specimen
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and obviously like a super accomplished wrestler.
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I think this is for the gold medal, yeah.
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In 2000.
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In 2000?
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Yeah, Sydney.
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And then there, this is the year you all took silver.
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And what you, like, just to show you like
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there's a inside trip, effortless.
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Uchi, and he does it again.
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Yep, you know, it's a really creative kind of wrestling
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where it's organic.
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Yeah, you throw in all of these kinds of things.
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This is a mix of judo, a mix of like weird kind of moves.
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It's not like as funky as Ben Askren.
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It's just like legitimate, basic.
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Well, it's not funky for funky sake.
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And I'm not poking at Ben Askren to imply
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that that's what he's doing, but it's like, it's funny.
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It's like, a lot of times it's almost like Musashi
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talked a lot about that.
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You know, that the only goal of combat is to win
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is the outcome is it's outcome driven
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versus like flourishing, you know, cool looking movements.
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It's like, unless that had a utilitarian purpose,
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like what are you wasting your time with that?
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Both in the fight and also, you know, in practice.
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But as you mentioned, it's almost like it looks like judo.
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It looks like wrestling, it looks like jujitsu.
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It's almost like, I guess the reminds me
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all of the martial arts is again, deeply tribal as well.
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I wanna learn Lex Fridman, martial arts.
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And then I wanna learn another, you know,
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I guess, transcendent person's martial arts.
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And it just happened to be the set of movements
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that you tended to do most of the time,
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thanks to your body type and your opposition and whatnot.
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But then I try to codify that and force those to work
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as opposed to going, I wanna understand how the body works
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in concert and in Congress with something else
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and other forces and move appropriately.
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And that's why it's like, it always struck me
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that the Saiki brothers are great examples
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of just moving like water, but they,
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to use Bruce Lee, which is a little trite,
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but again, he's brilliant.
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It's like water can flow or water can crash.
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And they would crash when they needed to crash
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and they would flow when they needed to flow,
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but they would flow for the purpose of dissipating
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and then crash when they would win.
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And at the right moment, then go back to flowing
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the second that the other person found them.
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And it's just, it's beautiful to watch, it's artistic.
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And I think that that great expression of anything physical
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is ultimately studied as a science,
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but expressed as an art.
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And I think that that's something that gets lost
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in jujitsu a lot of times when it gets a little bit,
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a little nerdy, like do this hand here, hand here.
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Like it's like the more details I have,
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the better when in reality, that's just not,
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not in my experience, how it's done.
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Might be fun exercise of saying like,
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what are the main positions and submissions
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in the art of jujitsu?
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You don't have to be complete, that's a ridiculously,
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I apologize for putting you on a spot like this,
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but it might be a nice exercise to think through it.
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Sure, I mean, I would just say that there,
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you have your arms bend in various ways.
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You have key lock Americana, straight arm locks,
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Kimura, omoplata, omoplata is a Kimura,
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Kimura is an omoplata, it's just executed.
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Submissions.
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Submissions, yes.
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Breaking off your arm in all kinds of ways.
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But ultimately, the question is,
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let's say you were a Terminator,
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like a robot that I, which of course you are.
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Go on.
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Go on.
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It's like, all right, so we're being completely literal.
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But, and I couldn't harm you with any of these things.
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Would I still use these positions?
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The answer is yes.
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They create leverage, they create control,
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they create shapes that I can affect
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and that can affect me and they can be affected
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through other forces and other objects or structures
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like the ground or the wall.
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I really enjoy mixed martial arts
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because there's another component
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rather than just me and you and the floor,
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there's me, you, the floor, and the wall.
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And it's another player in the game
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that doesn't exist in a grappling context
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with a non enclosed, I guess, area of combat.
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But you can strangle me or choke me,
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what do you call it, without my arms being involved,
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or you can use one of my shoulders
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to pin one side of my, one carotid artery off
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and you can enclose the other.
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You can turn my knee in the exact same ways
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that you can turn my arm straight this way and that way.
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You can add a rotation to that
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or it can be directly linear against the joint.
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So I guess what I would say is the more
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that I've been able to understand jiu jitsu,
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the more that I've been, it's given me a look
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into how we learn language where rather
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than learning five bazillion adjectives,
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I go, I understand what an adjective is.
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And of course we are all read
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into some degree of vocabulary.
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I understand what an adverb does
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and I understand what an adverb is.
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I know what a noun is.
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I know what the component parts of a sentence are.
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I know what, you know, I guess a clause,
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a contraction, any of these things.
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And it allows you to be interesting and artistic
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with your language to the extent that you can.
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But I can't, like I can speak a degree of Spanish,
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but I'm not even slightly artistic in Spanish.
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I would be something, I speak like a child
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with a head injury.
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And anyway, the I.
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Your basic understanding of the English language
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allows you to then be a student of Spanish.
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100%, but I'm limited by my experience.
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I'm limited by my understanding of techniques.
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I'm limited by my understanding, almost like,
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let's say techniques are like these are like vocabulary.
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So even if I kind of sort of grasp the sentence structure
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and the thought process and the thought patterns
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of Spanish, which it's interesting
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because just even though the orientation
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and the organization of a language,
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and I've thought about this a great deal,
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you know, the way that I perceive the world
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is affected deeply by the language that I learned.
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The, you know, the, again, if I learned,
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I have no idea how the Chinese language structures,
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but I can only imagine that it would be,
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that it would affect, it's like a different lens.
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We're all looking at the same thing,
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but I have a different set of sunglasses on than you do.
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And that's very, very interesting.
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I'll use the Quran as an example.
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You know, apparently it's unbelievably poetic
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and in Arabic, still neat
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and was interesting reading in English,
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but I'm told by people that I trust
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that it just one doesn't bear a resemblance to the other.
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And I think that's a very interesting thing
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that you may be able to say the same thing,
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but in a more, I guess, in a different way,
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in a more artistic way that may not translate
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on a one for one kind of fidelity.
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But the more that we're able to understand
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about how the body works,
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the more examples of the body working this way,
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the body working that way, the body working that way,
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the more that I'm able to eventually become an artist,
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but it has to be studied as a science first.
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And it does start with technique collection,
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vocabulary collection, the same way we learn in school.
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You remember how to say quickly 17 different ways.
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And let's say I speak Spanish, I'm only, I only know three.
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So you might use quickly, you might use an adjective
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like quickly in Spanish, but use one of the many,
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many options to describe that, that I don't understand.
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And now I sit there and go like, wait, what?
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I can't be artistic.
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I can't be as organic with the language as I'd like.
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So I believe that jujitsu a lot of times starts
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with the acquisition of a lot of, hey, do this, this,
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this drill, this technique.
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Here's an Americana, Americana to an armlock,
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armlock to a triangle.
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But the problem with that is oftentimes
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we get stuck in that phase.
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And people eventually become move collectors
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or sequence collectors.
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And I noticed this when I'm trying to do DVDs
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or I guess like an instructional series now,
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or even teaching in class,
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I don't believe in that form of learning anymore.
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Not that it's not valuable, but I don't believe,
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I don't understand jujitsu on that level anymore.
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So what I'm trying to do is get across the basic ideas
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to people and say, hey, you need to fill in the gaps
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with going to class all the time.
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You need to go, hey, learn this move, learn that technique,
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learn that technique.
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Because otherwise I'm basically just throwing at you
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like 75 different words that you could use,
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but that hasn't really taught you how to speak a language.
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Whereas if you give me a language structure,
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you can fill in these pieces on your own
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and then eventually speak organically in Lex form,
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which will be ultimately unique to you
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because otherwise you just end up being like a weird facsimile
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of whatever it is that I'm doing
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for mostly the worst I'd say, but.
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Yeah, that's what people, I mean, people comment like,
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is this, especially people who haven't listened to me before,
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is this guy drunk or high?
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Does he, does MIT really allow slow people to be,
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like what's. Quotas.
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Quotas, yeah.
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Like what's wrong with him?
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Is he getting sleep?
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Are you okay?
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Does he need help?
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So that's similar with my jiu jitsu.
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It's like, is this guy, is this guy really,
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whatever rank I was throughout,
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I remember just like, is this guy really this rank?
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I just have a very kind of certain way of sitting
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and being slow and lazy looking
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that there was ultimately the language
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that I had to discover.
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And it was, it was, yeah,
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it was a very liberating moment.
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I think of probably a few years of getting my ass kicked,
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especially with Open Guard and butterfly
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to where you really allow yourself
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to take in the entirety of the language
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and realize that, that I'm not, I'm different.
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I'm a unique, I'm unique.
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And like, I have a very, I have a language,
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I have a set of techniques,
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a way I move my body that needs,
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that I'm the one to discover.
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Like it's, you can only,
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you can learn specific techniques and so on,
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but you really have to understand your own body.
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And that's the beautiful thing about jiu jitsu,
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like you said, is like the connection about your philosophy,
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your view of the world with the physical
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and like connecting those two things,
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how you perceive the world,
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how you interpret ideas of the world about exhaustion,
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about force, about effortlessness,
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like what it really means to relax,
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all these kinds of loose concepts,
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and then actually teach your body to like do those things
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and like, you know, and be able to apply force and spurts,
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be able to relax and spurts
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and like figure all that stuff out for my,
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for my individual body.
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But it's, as you mentioned,
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I couldn't agree with you more, it's a discovery process
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and no one can cheat that process,
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which is at the same time,
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it's almost like imagine I wanna start writing books
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in second grade, unless maybe I'm like staggeringly brilliant,
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which I can only conceptualize someone being able to do that,
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but maybe a Mozart of the English language
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where you're out there doing it.
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But for most of us, we don't have enough knowledge,
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enough information, enough experience
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to be able to be, to express ourselves.
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So we have to basically input, repeat, which is important,
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but it's the process, as you say,
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of going through that, of getting your ass kicked,
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of just like, well, that didn't work,
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well, that didn't work, that felt right,
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but I don't know, nobody else does that,
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I guess I don't believe in that,
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versus eventually going, I don't know,
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I'll just try going my own way and see what happens
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and now I'll get yelled at and people won't like me
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and if it works, they'll say I got lucky
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and if it doesn't work, they'll say I was dumb,
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but which one, maybe all is right.
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But basically, you know,
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going through that iterative process
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that allows you to eventually find your self expression
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and find your voice so that you fight
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the same way that you speak, the same way that you write,
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the same way that you think in a way that is uniquely you,
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that will also ultimately allow you
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to understand other people being uniquely them
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because even if you can only conceptualize,
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and I think about this a lot for society stuff,
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where I go, well, this is how I feel about this,
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but am I objectively right?
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Maybe about a couple things, but that's a small box
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that I have to be very, very careful about
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what I think is objective versus what's not
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and I have to be open to the possibility
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of all the things that I think are objectively correct
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may or may not be.
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And that should allow me to have some degree
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of compassion or consideration for other people,
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both in their martial arts journey
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and in their journey as people, as human beings,
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because I understand that they're on a,
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it's a, we're all on a path where it's all,
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again, an iterative process of eventual self expression,
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but I think that's one of the things
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that we see having trouble when we see tribalism,
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which, I mean, racism, expression of that,
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political affiliation, expression of that,
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all of these things that can go
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in really uncomfortable directions.
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People are looking for,
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hey, where do I plant my feet over here?
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Where's the thing that I know is right?
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And we can all agree on the following.
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And I think that we see that in martial arts.
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We're like, oh, I do this style, I do that style,
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I do that style.
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It's like, hey, man, we're all just pushing forward
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in a certain direction here, trying to do our best.
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And I understand why you feel the way you do.
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I may have felt like that at one point too,
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but I'm just trying to learn and understand
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versus I've already acquired enough knowledge,
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let me cross my arms and start to look
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who's fucking up around here.
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And I think that that's an, it's an interesting trap
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that I think is very human trap to fall into,
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but it definitely happens early on.
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It's, I mean, it's a joke in the jiu jitsu world, right?
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Like, oh, the blue belt that knows everything.
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Well, initially it's like, what, I know nothing
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and I at least think I know nothing.
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Then I'd learn a little bit and I think it's a lot bit.
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And then, you know, the more you learn,
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the more you go like, I don't even know what I'm doing.
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Yeah, that's exactly right.
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We kind of talked about it a little bit,
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but once again, a lot of people that listen to this
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have never been on the mat, have never tried jiu jitsu,
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but are really curious about it.
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Everybody at all positions, like I think, you know,
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most kids are not doing jiu jitsu.
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Andrew Yang is like, they're all, you know,
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the world is curious.
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It's a, it's a nice, it seems to be a nice methodology
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by which to humble your ego,
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which to grow intellectually and physically.
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So people are curious about it.
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So the natural question is if they're curious about it,
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how would you recommend they get started?
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Maybe like, what do you recommend the first day,
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week, month, year, first couple of years look like?
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Like, how do you ease into it
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and make sure that it's a positive experience
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and you progress in the most optimal and positive way?
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The first thing you can do is simply ask yourself why,
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why you want to be involved.
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You know, I remember the first day that I walked into
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Ronin Athletics in New York City
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to train under Godfather of my son now,
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Christian Montes, and I didn't know
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what I was getting myself into.
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I played baseball through high school
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and I wanted, I was at Manhattan College in the Bronx
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and I wanted to go and learn martial arts
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because it was always something that was interesting to me,
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but it was never something that I knew was accessible
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and it definitely wasn't really around
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in Northern Virginia where I grew up,
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whereas then you stick yourself in Manhattan
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and there's stuff everywhere.
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So anyway, I guess I didn't know what to expect.
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I didn't know if I was going to get beat up,
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if people were going to be nice,
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if people were not going to be nice,
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but what I began with was, I think, expectation management.
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And I think that that's something that I would,
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that'd be the first thing that I would start
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is almost imagining what is it that I'm getting myself into
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because I love the martial arts.
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The martial arts has given me everything in life
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and I'm so thankful I wouldn't be sitting here
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without that experience, that journey.
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The people that I've met, the places that I've gone,
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I could never, ever have ever imagined.
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And I'm just unbelievably thankful for that.
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But I think that the thing that helped me most of all
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was starting with going,
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my mom said something to me one time and she said,
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there's two types of people in various situations.
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There's why and there's why not.
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And it's understandable to have questions, concerns,
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things like that.
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But maybe sometimes it's a little bit easier
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when you're younger to just trust people
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or just say, I don't know, you know.
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But we go, hey, you wanna climb that rock?
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I'm like, yeah, why not?
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Let's go.
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Hey, you wanna jump in that river?
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Yeah, why not?
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Sure.
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Versus if I have to reason my way into everything,
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if I have to be talked into everything,
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a lot of times I'll talk myself out of it.
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And I think that a lot of times
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this is the thinker's disease.
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You wanna figure out what's gonna happen
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and what you should expect to have happen
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01:04:03.660
before you get involved versus going,
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using the old Bruce Lee saying again,
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it's like no amount of thinking or training
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on the side of the river will teach you how to swim.
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You have to jump in.
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And there are risks associated with that.
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And I guess psychological are usually the biggest ones.
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That's the biggest hurdle.
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And physical.
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But the biggest thing that I guess I would suggest
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to anyone to say, well, why do you wanna do this?
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You're like, well, I wanna challenge myself.
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I wanna learn, I would like to learn to fight.
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I wanted to learn to fight so that I could protect myself.
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And if anything else, other people,
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if only within arms reach.
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I perceived that if I had some small degree of power,
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I generally wouldn't use it.
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Which is why I was like, yeah, I'll give it a try.
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I'll try to be reasonable.
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And hopefully if I make a mistake,
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I'll apologize to people.
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But basically I said, yeah, I'd like to have that.
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And I wanna, I know this is gonna be challenging
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and we'll see what happens.
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And that means that getting beat up
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and I didn't get like hurt, but getting roughed up,
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getting my arm bent this way or that way, getting choked.
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I was like, well, this is all supposed to happen.
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That's no big deal.
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It would be like going and joining the army
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during peacetime and then going,
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oh, I'm just doing this for college education.
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You know, like, okay, that's cool, man.
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And then all of a sudden war breaks out
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and they wanna send me somewhere.
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And I'm like, whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa.
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I didn't sign up for that.
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Actually you did, whether you realize it or not.
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You may not have thought that you did, but you did.
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So getting your mind right and just going,
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what are my expectations for this activity?
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What is it that I'm looking to do?
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And of course, you know, you're going into a gym,
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you're going into a place that you don't know people,
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you probably don't know people
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and you don't know the coach.
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And even if you do wanna, hey, how you doing?
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Shake your hand, type of level.
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You know, 95% of my students don't know me.
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Not really, you know, I'll try to be polite
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and not annoy them too much,
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but they don't know me and I don't know them.
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I understand if they don't trust me,
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I wouldn't trust, trust me either if I were them.
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But at the same time, someone has to take that leap.
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And one of the things that I've noticed
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as a martial arts instructor,
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that's the biggest struggle with dealing with adults,
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which is why a lot of people like to teach kids
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is because kids don't ask, don't argue.
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Now that also means there's all sorts of pitfalls
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or that sort of thing, and that can be an issue.
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But you know, I guess a lot of times people get to a point
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in their life, you know, in their 20s, early 30s,
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where now I'm a manager now, I know what I'm doing.
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No one talks to me like that.
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First it's like, hey man, you go join bootcamp,
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I don't care if you are Elon Musk,
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they're gonna tell you to shut up and do pushups.
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And that's what's great about it.
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So you are taking a leap of faith into a world
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that you're gonna be a tiny fish.
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And you gotta hope that the people who are guiding you
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in that journey are gonna have,
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I can't even say your best interests at heart
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because they don't even know you,
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but they'll try to do no harm.
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And they'll try to help you
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in the way that they would understand.
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And I guess that's, for instance,
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that's what I would try to do with anyone
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that comes into my gym.
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I would try to help them in the way
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that I understand they need as best I can
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and as safe and reasonable a way as possible,
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but sometimes in a way that's gonna make them uncomfortable,
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particularly if physical combat,
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and it's not something they've done before.
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If a lot of people go in without even having played,
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you know, contact sports, and so that can be a big jump.
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And you have to understand,
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if that's where you're starting from, no worries,
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but you're gonna have to kind of work your way to it,
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and it's gonna be uncomfortable, and that's okay.
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It's part of the process,
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and you're gonna have some bumps and bruises,
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and you're not gonna wanna roll with that guy in the corner
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because that person's rough, and they beat you up,
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and they're like, okay, but is this a big hurt
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or is it a little hurt?
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If it's a big hurt, okay.
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If it's a little hurt,
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need you to center up a little bit.
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It's such an interesting balance because to find,
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I think one of the most important things
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as in anything, I think, in life
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is the selection of the people that you put around you.
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I mean, that's true with like getting married.
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That's true with like if you go to,
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if people ask me, like graduate students,
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like your PhD advisor can be the difference.
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It's everything.
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It's like you spend five years with somebody,
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they're going to basically define more impact on you
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than anybody you marry, anybody you hang out with.
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It's a huge impact.
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And the same with the coach selection,
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which is like the school selection,
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is it's going to be really important about
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in terms of like who you select will define how happy,
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like the trajectory of your growth
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and how happy you are with the entirety of the experience.
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And yet, like the flip side of that is,
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especially if you have an ego,
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especially if you are the manager
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that needs to let go of some stuff,
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you're going to feel like shit
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with the best kind of coach.
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That's what you need.
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But there's a weird balance there to find.
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Like, I mean, like, and everybody needs a different thing.
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Like I'm much more, I enjoy being sort of like,
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it sounds weird, but like I'm, you know,
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from the wrestling background,
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I enjoy feeling like crap in the sense like the coach,
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like getting beat up.
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I don't actually enjoy it.
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It's not like some masochistic thing or whatever.
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It's like, it's the growth.
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Like I like the anxiety.
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I like feeling like shit when I go home,
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like emotionally, physically, it's like, it's growth.
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It's a sign of growth, right?
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Like if you're not having to feel those things,
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you're probably in your comfort zone, which is fine,
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but that's not your growth zone, right?
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And everybody has a different threshold for that.
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And I mean, the beautiful thing about jiu jitsu is like,
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it's also has like a yoga feel to it.
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Like you're learning about your body.
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So depending on the gym and depending on, in fact,
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the coaches or the people around you within the gym,
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you can select little groups too, kind of like the people
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with who you roll, like if you're a smaller person,
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it doesn't mean you have to go against big people.
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You can go against the people who like smoke a lot of weed
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and they're chill, or you can go against like that crazy
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red blue belt competitor who's like out to destroy everybody.
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And depending on like what your mindset is,
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you can kind of select that.
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It's such a fascinating journey of like,
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basically self discovery.
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I couldn't agree with you more.
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It's, I mean, what you need may change over time, right?
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Maybe what you needed, what you need today
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could change six months from now or a year from now.
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And that's something that I experienced.
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I'll use my first coach Christian, again,
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as a great example of someone who I really look up to
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and respect and someone who helped me a lot.
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Like at a time when I really needed some guidance
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and I needed to learn martial arts, but get into,
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Hensel Gracie's gym was right down the street
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from where Christian was teaching.
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And Christian was a blue belt at the time.
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It was, he was teaching at a place called Fight House,
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which was this awesome, like, you know, like 90s,
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early 2000s, you know, warehouse area down
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on Fashion Avenue in Manhattan,
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off of like between 7th and 8th.
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And it was like two basketball courts wide,
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but like there was the Sambo guys over here.
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There was the Kali guys over there.
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There was a Wing Chun over there.
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There was Jiu Jitsu in the corner.
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And Hensel's was one of the most famous academies
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in the world at that time, still is.
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And I just didn't know what Hensel Gracie was.
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And I mean, it's a great gym
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and it's a fantastic place for people to train.
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But I think what was right for me at the time was to,
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I stumbled into, you know, like a two person elevator up
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and found a place where six people trained at that time.
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And I had someone that could give me some,
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like in addition to martial arts advice,
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like personal guidance.
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And that made a big difference.
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And then when initially we would have like competitions
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or like intra, you know, gym competitions
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with the Sambo guys, we would compete,
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we would roll with them.
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And like, again, it was great
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because they were just a bunch of like Russian dudes
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from like Brighton Beach.
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And they would come down and then we would all fight.
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And then everyone would train
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and we'd all drink tea and then go home.
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And anyway, what was, it was super tough.
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And they were like, again, just a tough group of people.
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It was great.
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And then I remember when I decided
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after like four or five months,
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I'm like, man, I really want to try to take this seriously.
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And I told Christian about that.
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And he's like, well, hey,
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I think you need to do the following.
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And it was, you know, like, hey, here's,
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there was a guy named Jeff Ruth,
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who was a purple belt at the time,
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which was a much bigger deal than it is now,
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but it was 10 and always an MMA fighter,
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a lot of amateur box spirit, super tough dude.
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And Jeff was the best person at that time
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that I'd ever trained with.
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And I just got squashed.
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Christian used to beat me up too,
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but like Jeff would just absolutely kick the crap out of me.
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And I was like, this is awesome.
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And this was back when I was at home.
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I went home for the summer for that.
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And Chris is like, hey, I think you should stay because I told him that's what I was thinking.
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And this was a coach that, you know, when it's like when initially was exactly what I needed.
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And then he's like, well, hey, that's not what I'm doing here.
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Maybe they're going to be able to help you onto a path that's,
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that's kind of commensurate with what your goals are at the moment.
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And then, you know, that was an, that was an interesting thing.
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And I really got, I feel that I was fortunate to start at a place where my coach was able to transition roles
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and, and, and do so comfortably.
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And I think that that also was probably a factor of the fact that, you know,
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where he'd done some of his training prior, like there've been issues with, with the coach there.
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We're like not supporting, not having the support, you know, feeling like, hey,
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like I'm going to hold onto my students.
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I'm gonna hold onto my best guy or my best girl, even if I can't take them where they need to go.
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So that was an interesting thing.
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And just recognizing also though, that the people like the same way you're an individual going into a gym
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and you don't know what you're getting into your coach is a person too.
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And he or she, you know, they may have been doing this activity longer than you, but they're not,
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they're not some weird little, you know, all knowing God.
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They don't know anything.
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They may say something that pisses you off.
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They may, they may yell at you.
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They may help you.
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They may inadvertently cause you some sort of, you know, some sort of issue.
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And just being able to recognize that even though I say this to people and I've said this to people in my gym,
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I'm like, you know, we're in the service industry, man, but I'm not at your service.
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Like don't get it twisted.
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Like I will absolutely do my best to help people.
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I'm there to do my best as a martial arts coach, but I'm here to do my best as a martial arts coach.
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And I'll do my best and periodically I make mistakes and I own apology or two,
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and I'll try to give them out when I can.
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But we're not McDonald's.
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It's not, oh, you gave me a hundred bucks, so you do whatever you want in here.
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This is my house.
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This is my gym.
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This is my dojo.
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This is, this is a martial arts.
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This is not a basketball team.
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Yeah.
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There's something beautiful about martial arts.
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Like exactly as you said is the coach, like in wrestling and at least collegiate,
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like high level wrestling is like, there's a dictatorship aspect to a coach that is very important to have.
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Like this, this ridiculous sometimes nature of like master and so on and bowing, all these traditions.
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There's something, it seems ridiculous from the outside perhaps,
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but there's something really powerful to that because that process of you said, why not,
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of letting go of the leap of faith requires you to believe that the coach has your best interest in mind
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and just give yourself over to their ideas of how, how you should grow.
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And that's an interesting thing.
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I mean, I've never been able to really see coaches I've had as human.
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They're always, you always, it's like a father figure or like this,
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you always put them in this position of power.
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And I think that's, I think at least for me, it's been a very,
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it's been a very useful way to see the coach because it allows you to not think and let go
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and really allow yourself to grow and emotionally deal with all the beatings.
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Well, they'll push you where past oftentimes where you would have stopped yourself, right?
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Which is great.
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And then hopefully they know they, if they're paying attention and they're,
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they're still a person, they can make mistakes,
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but they'll push you further than you would have gone, but not so far that it's not facilitative.
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Right.
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That's something that I can say, like Faraz Zahabi, the head coach at TriStar,
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my head coach for MMA, Kenny Florian, one of the head coaches for MMA,
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they've both been phenomenal influences.
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Paul Shriner, who's the one of the assistants at Marcelo Garcia's Academy,
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coached me in Jiu Jitsu for a long time, brilliant instructor.
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They've all been able to do that.
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And I think what's interesting about all of those guys is they're very sharp,
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but they're very intuitive as well.
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And I think that Faraz actually, you know, told me about some of the John Wooden said,
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John Wooden, the legendary UCLA basketball coach, just a simple philosophical idea.
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Just, he said, some people's life is a bowl of shit.
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It needs some whipped cream in it.
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Some people's life is a bowl of whipped cream.
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Needs a little bit of shit in it just to balance it out.
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And it's an interesting thing.
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Coaching everyone the same way doesn't work.
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You know, that's, I think the difference between a coach and an instructor.
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And a lot of times people think they want to coach, but they really want an instructor.
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I'm like, hey Lex, tell me what to do, not how to do it.
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And then other times people think they want, you know, an instructor and they really want a coach.
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I'm like, man, this guy's just giving me information.
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A coach is so much more than an instructor.
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And that's a huge leap.
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And that's something that I think that people need to understand when they're going into
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martial arts.
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And I understand, and I can totally grasp why they don't, because how would they know?
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But I think about this a lot, like me giving you $150 for a month, which is not nothing,
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that's for sure.
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That does not, that pays for instructor really.
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Coach is a relationship that gets developed because can you imagine like just the amount
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of emotional investment and time thinking away from like, oh, Lex isn't here anymore.
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What can I do to help him?
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What does he need?
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Like that's serious.
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And that's the difference between, that's oftentimes the difference that getting over
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the hump in various situations.
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So it's an interesting, you know, bargain that's being made like commitment by the instructor
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who becomes a coach, commitment by the student.
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You know, like there's a financial transaction.
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There's a lot of things going on there, but I feel very fortunate to have had not just
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instructors in my time, but coaches.
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And that means sometimes we butted heads and sometimes I look back and I think I was right.
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And other times I look back on my own, no, they were definitely right.
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But there was always the trust with the exception of one time that I feel that trust was greatly
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betrayed that rightly or wrongly, whether mistakes, mistakes will be made, but everyone
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is attempting to do the right thing under no circumstances.
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Is what I intentionally do anything malicious, you know, versus, Hey, I might've done.
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I might've burnt your house down, but you can be darn sure it wasn't on purpose.
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And I think that as long as there's that mutual understanding and mutual belief of goodwill,
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which again, doesn't just magic up out of nowhere.
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I understand.
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I think that that's when then great things can happen.
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And I look at all the athletes that I know, you know, the guys and girls that I've watched
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become fantastic in various places, almost invariably.
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It never happened alone.
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Yeah.
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Yeah.
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I'm really torn about that.
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Like, maybe you can help.
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Have you seen the movie Whiplash?
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So it's, I would say from an outsider's perspective, people should watch it.
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It's, I guess, jazz band.
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It's a movie about a drummer and the instructor.
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And he, it's a basically, I would say from the outsider's perspective, it's a toxic
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relationship, but he's really the coach, whatever we call him, pushes the musician, the drummer
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or to his limits, like to where he just feels like shit emotionally.
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It's a, it looks like a toxic relationship, but it's one that ultimately is very productive
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for the improvement of the musician.
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I have the same, like in my own experience, I had, I got a chance to train at a couple
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of places regularly.
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And so one of my coaches who is a great human being, a lot of people love him.
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But when I was a blue belt, he was pushing me a lot for competition.
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And every time I step on the mat, I was anxious and almost afraid of training because of like
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the places I'm going to have to go.
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And then the, I can't, I don't know what's good or bad because I think I've become a
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better person because of that experience.
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Like I needed that.
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And on the flip side, like the place I got my black belt from, it's Balanced Studios.
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I remember also blue belt, the coach sitting down and I was going to competition and he
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saw something in me where he said, you know, like, good luck, but win or lose, we always
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love you.
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Like, I, I really, I remember that because I really needed that at that time.
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Like I was putting so much pressure on myself.
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Like I'm not an actual professional competitor, you know, I just competed.
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Like I'm a PhD student, like, but like it was clearly having a psychological effect
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on me and that's what a great coach does is like, you know, it's like life is more
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important than Jiu Jitsu since it's bigger.
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So they find, you use Jiu Jitsu when you need it to grow as a person and when it
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overwhelms you, you have to pull that person out, like look at the bigger picture, always
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look at the bigger picture and it's fascinating and I don't know what to make of it.
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I don't think I would have it any other way is both the anxiety and the, and the love
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and the love.
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Yeah.
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I think that I couldn't, that's a really interesting thing that you're describing
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that I guess it kind of brings me back to a lot of the other things we've been
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discussing is just almost like the, the reciprocal nature of everything where no
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pressure, that's great.
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Everyone's happy all the time.
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It's either, I mean, let's, uh, use the example of sci fi movies to see the matrix,
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which of course the first one was amazing and then each subsequent movie made the
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series worse.
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But, um, but basically, yeah, I've heard, we'll see, I was hoping for the best, but,
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um, but basically, uh, you know, let's say, Hey, which we started with our first
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initial world agent Smith says to Neo is like our first world was a utopia where
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everyone was happy and nothing ever went wrong.
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It's like your primitive cerebrum rejected it.
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And I think that there's obviously, I mean, what do I think, but I guess, well,
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I'm here, so I might as well say what I think.
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Um, I guess, uh, you know, great things are fantastic.
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A kind, gentle place is fantastic.
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And this is again, why I love dune is I think dune does such a great job of, of
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expressing Frank Herbert does such a great job of expressing again, the
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reciprocal nature of these ideas.
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You know, look at, uh, look at Sparta for instance, or at least what I understand
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of Sparta from the reading and also watching 300.
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Um, uh, you know, and reading the Wikipedia and reading the Wikipedia
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article about the movie, not the place.
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Um, but, uh, it's, um, that's a hard, brutal place.
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And that was their benefit to that.
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Like, absolutely.
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Was there drawback to that?
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Absolutely.
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Is it sustainable?
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I should probably think probably not.
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Um, I mean, granted it hasn't sustained, but I mean, that type of a, of a thing,
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it, it burns too hot almost.
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And it, uh, it, it destroys the host at a certain point.
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And, you know, I guess that, that type of unforgiving nature, but in
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entirely, entirely permissive has its own issues.
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And I guess coming back into your, what your description of like describing a
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toxic relationship is a very dangerous and tricky thing because it's almost
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like, uh, it's like bird's eye view.
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Me, you know, you see, let's say a husband and a wife arguing, you know,
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like, all right, well, sort of somebody hitting somebody.
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I need to keep myself out of this because I have no idea what I'm seeing
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something, but I don't know what's going on or why specifically.
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And again, short of it going to a place that, that just out of bounds,
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I don't know who's right here.
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I don't know who's wrong.
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And I don't know what phase of this things are in.
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So I guess long term was good for both people.
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Right.
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It's dangerous for it.
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So if I want to put my finger on the scale, I can understand the desire to do
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them like, Hey guys, let's break it up.
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Yeah.
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But, and that may be the right thing at the time, but at the same time, I'm not
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sure.
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So I think back to all of the times that.
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You know, that like you mentioned, your coach pushing you when very, very hard.
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And then other times going like, Hey, let's put it in perspective here.
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I think that's an interesting thing for high performance.
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And I think that we're seeing that again, societally, you know, now, or at least
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maybe that's just pops up on my internet feed periodically but coaches shouldn't
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be allowed to do this or yell at this person to yell at that person.
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Like, well, have you ever been go to a boxing gym?
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It's not a commercial entity.
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Not really a real box, not LA boxing, not a USC gym, like a real place.
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You're going to see what things are like when it's entirely performance based.
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Go to wrestling room at a high level.
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You know, again, there's, there's left and right limits and there are such
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things obviously as abuse, of course, but, and that should never be tolerated.
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Um, but it's not a commercial entity.
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I don't need to be sweet to you if you're, if you're screwing up, if you're
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dropping the ball and in fact, recognizing that I'm not doing you a favor or the
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favor or the team a favor by, by being permissive of that type of behavior.
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I think is important.
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Everything in its context and at its time is important.
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And I guess I can think again at the times that I've been put, put, or had
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put on me, like a great deal of pressure to do X, Y, or Z or to succeed, um, or
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to push for success.
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And I can't look back fondly enough on those times.
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They were tough at the time, but without that, I'm not sitting here without that.
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I don't go from growing up in a, in a very nice family in the suburbs to fighting at
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the highest level in jujitsu, gi, no gi, and now in mixed martial arts, starting a
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career at age 27.
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You know, I don't, it just doesn't happen because people generally speaking from
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that background, don't get pushed hard enough physically to be able to make that
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transition.
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And that has benefits and it has drawbacks.
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You know, when you stare into the abyss, it stares back.
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And I think that that's an important thing to understand.
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You know, you stare long enough, you, you can become something that you don't, that
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you would be sorry that you did.
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You don't look enough and you don't have perspective either.
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You know, and I, I think that that's an interesting thing.
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I can speak to someone who's relative to being someone who's relatively articulate
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and reasonable.
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I try to be reasonable, but you know, I'll say in sparring, if people get crazy with
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me, they get a warning and then I'm a crack them.
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And what did they expect?
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Oh, they hear the guy on a, on an interview, but who did they think they were meeting?
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Cause there's also the guy in the ring and there's layers there too.
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I remember training with you.
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It was kind of funny.
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There's like, there's, well, you didn't know who I was.
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I mean, you still like, I have a really good straight ankle up by the way.
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That.
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So I don't remember what rank I was, but it might've been purple or something like
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that.
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And I did some, like I, you had this look on your face, which I've often seen in
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black belts.
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It's like, here he goes again, like here, here's him trying this thing.
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And then when I kind of annoyed you a little bit with it, now I get that it was a good
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at like, I, you know, I did something somewhat effective, like some, like maybe a little
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bit off balance.
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Yeah.
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There's a, I just peeled off a little layer of Ryan Hall to where I was like, okay, let
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me, let me like, there, there's like layers underneath Mike Tyson somewhere in there.
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Like, so it was like, okay, this like new guy rolls in here.
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He thinks he can do the stupid thing.
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And then, and then you started to beat the hell out of me.
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But the, the, the point is there's layers here from the guy who was being interviewed
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now to like Genghis Khan, but it's, but it's all in the same body.
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Right.
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But it's like, all of us are like that, right.
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In various different directions and recognizing that's okay.
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It's just, there are consequences to all every choice that we make as a consequence.
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Sometimes there's like objectively wrong or objectively right.
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But at least in my mind, that's a pretty small box.
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Everything else is just, there's a consequence to that.
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Do you like that consequence?
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Do you not?
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And who do I want to become?
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What do I want to try to hone myself or anyone else into?
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And also like, but this is something I've screwed up as a coach plenty of times.
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You know, like if someone says, if you're, if like, I come to them like Lex, I really,
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really want to take, you know, research very seriously.
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Like, okay, I believe you.
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Now I haven't shown you that, but I believe you like, okay.
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And now me not showing up to research or to study or not being up until three in the morning
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thinking about this is no longer acceptable.
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There was a time like five seconds before me making that statement that if I went to
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bed without reading the book that I needed to read, no worries.
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But the second that I made that statement, your expectations for me changed.
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And maybe that's something that I've screwed up a whole bunch of times in my, as a teacher.
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Cause it's an interesting thing, obviously, you know, being a, like running a martial
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arts school is as you're principally an athlete is sometimes I don't pay enough attention
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to what people are doing.
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I just go, oh, okay.
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You say X, Y, Z.
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I'm like, Roger that.
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I believe you.
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Cool.
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I will now put you in category X and whether rightly or wrongly, like maybe this person
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didn't understand what they were asking for, or I didn't express this or the other.
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And it just, it caused cross wires.
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And then most times you just, you hash it out.
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You have a discussion, you figure out, get to the bottom of what people are trying to
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do or what they want.
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But if I was paying more attention, I think I could have been a lot more effective.
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Or if I had more experience and sometimes maybe I'm not sharp enough or I don't, I'm
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not perceptive enough to be able to, to see what's going on.
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And maybe with years more down the line, I'll be able to have a sharper perception.
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But I think that's another one of those interesting things that some, that sometimes I would caution
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or not caution, but just inform a prospective martial arts student, depending upon where
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you're going you know, this you, both you and also your coach or other people in the
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room, they wear many hats.
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And sometimes there's a, I had the wrong hat on.
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You were talking to me as Lex the guy.
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I didn't realize you were talking to me.
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I thought you were talking to me as Lex the guy.
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I didn't realize you're talking to me as Lex the martial artist.
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I'm like, Oh crap.
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I was talking to the wrong person.
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So it's almost like if you had a, like I run my gym with my wife, she's a black belt.
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So she's my wife.
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She's my peers as a martial artist, uh, in Jiu Jitsu.
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He's here by the way, in judging.
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So exactly.
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All right.
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Well, all right.
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So, but, but a fellow black belt.
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And I guess like another thing, she doesn't have a microphone, so you can't hear all the
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trash she's talking.
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Exactly.
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But it can be tough.
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And that's something that we've had to work through a lot.
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And it's like looking back and it's like now being where I'm at now.
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And it's easy for me to say that cause she's in the room and I don't want her to stab me,
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just continue to slowly poison me over time, which frankly I understand.
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Um, you know, it's, it's the sort of thing that is now way more effective than anything
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else I could really reasonably expect to have.
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Um, but there were times when, when both of us, you know, were justifiably annoyed at
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the other because of crossed wires.
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And sometimes, you know, you'll just have to scream in any way or misunderstanding anyway.
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But again, like I've, I coached some of my friends, I've coached, I've coached my friend
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who I've known since I was four years old.
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You know, sometimes I don't go, Hey buddy, how are you doing?
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Sometimes it's like, what the fuck are you doing?
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Put your hand over there.
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How many times we talked about this?
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And then you walk away and you can see him look at you crooked and you're like, Oh crap.
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Oh yeah.
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He thought I was talking to his friend.
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Yeah.
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Well, all right, let, we need to talk this one out, hashing out and not he's wrong.
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How could he possibly think that way?
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Like, Oh no, I totally understand that.
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But if I was 22, like doesn't need no, I'm a purple belt, some nonsense like that.
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And it's, and it doesn't come from a bad place, but it's just, I guess that comes back to
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society to anything.
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People only had the perspective that they have and the awareness that we have.
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And so again, going back and going, Hey guys, grace, like I don't expect, it's not fair
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for me to go, I fight UFC.
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Why doesn't this guy who came in as an attorney understand how hardcore this needs to be?
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I'm like, how could he?
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Yeah.
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And at the same time though, if, if I'm using the language of someone that is interested
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in at least performance from a martial arts perspective, I understand how that could be
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off putting.
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Let's say for instance, someone that's like all of that would be out of bounds in their
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normal workplace.
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But if they think of the gym as my office, then whether they agree or disagree with what's
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going on, they go, okay, I hear why I see why that might happen.
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Let's talk about this.
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And we can, again, all push forward in a positive direction that benefits, I guess, everyone's
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journey throughout the activity.
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And on top of all that, there's moods.
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Like I, I mean, especially lately, I think two days ago, maybe yesterday, no, two days
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ago, I've never been that cranky in my life.
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I think, I don't know what it was, but I wanted to tell everybody how much they annoyed me.
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It was like, I was just very conscious of this feeling of like, why, why is this happening
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right now?
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So I consciously decided as I usually do in those cases to not say anything to anybody.
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How do you do that?
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Well, I, you know, it's, it's yeah.
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Meditate because it's not, I tend to, I tend to then visualize what's going to happen in
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the next, like, how is this going to make my life better?
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Like if I say something that mean to somebody else, I have just started a conflict that
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will just escalate, will continue, will add more conflict to my life.
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It will make things, I just don't like the feeling you will create.
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And so you live in enough life to know that like, it's just like with like street fighting.
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I would get into a lot of fights when I was younger, just on the street, but then you
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realize like, it's not like a jujitsu match or something like that.
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It's not, it'll escalate.
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It'll, it might come back at you.
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It'll like that person might find you again.
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But more importantly, the anxiety of it, of having created little enemies in this
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world, distorts the way you see the world.
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So I've noticed that like, if I am shitty to people on the internet, which I haven't
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been, I think in a long time is like, it, it somehow brings the shittiness to you
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more and more, it escalates like the more love you put out there, the more like the
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people who put love out, like surround you.
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Well, you mentioned forgiveness as well.
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Like you said, like, I guess back to the original, you know, the Holocaust survivor
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scenario where you're like, oh my God, like you think of the ultimate in, in like, I've
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never experienced one, one billionth of that level of, of pain and horror.
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And it's like, and I can't let this little thing go.
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You know, I guess that's an interesting thing.
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I think you're just making the point in your personal life, I guess the same way.
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Right?
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Yeah.
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Yeah.
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And on the internet, it's hard.
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I've somehow gotten, I mean, you've, you've had a level of celebrity for a while.
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I've recently gotten some level of like celebrity and like these people who are
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just shitty for no reason come out from all, from all places, like calling me a
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fraud or anything else.
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It was Jay and Silent Bob, Strike Back.
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They find out a movie is going to be made about them and people were talking shit
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on the internet and they're like, what's the internet?
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And then someone shows them and they're like, what?
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And they go to a message board and they go to Hollywood to try to stop it from
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being made.
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And they eventually get money for their likeness and they use the money to buy
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plane tickets and fly around and beat the shit out of all the people that talk bad
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about them.
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Yeah.
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It's tough.
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I mean, it's I'm, I'm having trouble with it cause there's people like, yeah,
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there's, you know, there's posts and forums and like heated discussions about
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is like sweeping a fraud.
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I don't know.
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What has he really done?
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And there's like, and then there's people like, well, I think he's an all right
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guy, but I'm not sure.
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Like, like there's like literal discussions and I'm like, like nobody,
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like if you increase the level of celebrity, there's going to be like one
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of the things that hurts my heart a little bit is like some level of toxicity
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around Joe Rogan.
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For example, there's like communities of people that now like talk about him
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selling out, for example, all that kind of stuff.
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And I don't, you know, and Joe I've talked to him about it is amazing that
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he he says, don't read the comments.
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He legitimately doesn't read the comments.
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His heart and his soul doesn't give a damn about the comments.
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All he gives a damn about is his friends.
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Like one of the things that's really inspiring to me and that's I've had a
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conversation with them offline about Spotify and the removed episodes.
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People are curious.
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What's Spotify?
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Um, it's, uh, it's a thing on the internet where, uh, I think you can play
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Taylor Swift songs on, um, but you can also now play Joe Rogan podcasts and
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they gave him a hundred million dollars.
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So that that's, um, you know, that's it's yeah.
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Uh, but the thing I've had a discussion with him and I made a video about it
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that I took down because of the toxicity is like, it's hard to put into words,
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but he will give away the a hundred million in a second.
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If he ever has to compromise who he is, like he doesn't, I mean, he already
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said, as he talked about, he's made quote unquote, fuck you money a long
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time ago, he doesn't need any more money.
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He doesn't care.
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It's nice to have money, whatever, but like, he'll give it away.
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So the it's nice to see when people like him at a level of celebrity level of
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success and financial success, don't change at all.
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They're just the same thing that makes you happy is talking in his case, talking
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shit with his friends in the case of most of us really just, just hanging out
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with friends, doing the things you love in his case, doing the things he loves
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without any, like, you know, the Texas way, the freedom, like without any
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corporate bureaucracy bullshit that rolls in and says, well, maybe you
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shouldn't say fuck, you know, like more than 20 times a podcast or something
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like that, like those kinds of like rules, like people, like he says in a
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suit and tie, they show up and say stuff oddly enough people that could never
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have done what he does.
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Yeah, exactly.
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And it's kind of inspiring to see that.
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And I hope people, I hope people realize how special of a human he is.
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He's inspired like people like me, like I'm just, I'm a scientist, right?
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So he inspired somebody like me from a very different walk of life to be like
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kind to others, to be open minded.
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I don't know that it's a special dude.
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So like people need to support that and treasure that as opposed to
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as opposed to be toxic about it.
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I mean, what people really for a long time have told me that it would be
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awesome if Ryan Hall goes on Joe Rogan.
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I definitely think that would be an awesome thing.
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Have you listened to Joe?
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Has he been a part of your life in some kind of way?
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You know, well, Joe's always, I remember watching Joe on Fear Factor when I
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was a little kid, which is cool.
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So I've actually gotten to like, from a bird's eye view, watch his kind of
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just path through life.
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But one of the things that I always appreciate, and again, I barely know Joe
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other than to shake his hand.
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He interviewed me after the, briefly in the ring after the BJ pan fight.
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But one of the things that I've always admired about Joe is that I think he
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had fucking money from the start.
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I think that zero dollars is fucking money for Joe.
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I think, and that's something I respect about him a great deal because as you
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say, it's interesting to watch, it's like you hope that George St. Pierre is
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like this.
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It's really, I'm not super close to George, but we're teammates at TriStar
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and he's never been anything but a gentleman.
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He's one of those people that if you didn't know George was famous when you
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walk into the gym, you'd have no idea.
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He's not holding court, not doing it.
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He's just, you know, training and he'll help out an amateur doing this.
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If you have a question for him, he'll help me.
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Like I'm nobody, man.
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He would give me advice and train me.
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It was super cool.
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And he didn't kill me, which I really appreciated.
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He's a gentleman.
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But you know, it's like you meet someone and you go, man, it's so cool that
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this is the guy who's the best, that this is the guy who has been successful.
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And then you go, why are they successful?
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Like I said, true to what they're doing.
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They haven't changed.
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They're the same as they've been.
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And I remember I got to TriStar in 2012 and George was already George St.
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Pierre, but I remember watching and talking to people and they're like,
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oh man, George is the same as he's always been.
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And it's neat.
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I see him in the gym training now and again, giving advice now.
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And it seems like Joe has always been consistent.
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And it's neat to watch someone not compromise on their values and not change
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who they are.
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And not, you know, periodically, like, you know, again, we all make mistakes.
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Like you have a bad day or this or that.
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And an apology needs to be issued or even my bad or this or that.
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And you're like, yeah, and they just move on that they're not afraid to be
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themselves and they're not afraid to be wrong.
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They're not afraid to make a mistake.
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As you mentioned, open mind and some like, so what are the correct beliefs to
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have about this that I know going in, everyone's going to be okay with what
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I'm saying, which is usually the beginning of a conversation that's
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going to go nowhere.
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Right.
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And, uh, it's, it's neat to see, um, the things I guess that he's created on
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his own as a result of the authenticity that's there.
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And it reminds me of like Dave Chappelle.
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And, and again, I don't know, I've never met Dave, but it's neat to see
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someone that's clearly again, authentic in their own way, doing their own
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thing.
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And they're because of that, they're above the corporate nonsense.
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But what's funny, I think the message behind all of it is, Hey guys, we
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all are, I can't promise you that I'm going to have money.
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Joe couldn't promise you that he's going to have money.
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Now it ended up working out, but he was above that nonsense from the jump.
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And he just continued to be above it by never giving it any mind and just
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going like, yeah, I'm going to be a reasonable person.
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I'm going to try to learn.
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I'm going to try to grow.
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And, uh, if I say something annoying, you can come and talk to me about it.
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We can get to the bottom of it.
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And I'm like, if I need to say my bad, thanks, appreciate it.
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You know, I will.
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And if I don't need to, I'm like, Hey, I still appreciate the talk.
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Thanks man.
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I'll shake your hand and we'd carry on and we'd go our separate ways and
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hopefully I'll treat you with respect.
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You treat me with respect and that's about it.
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And I guess I think it's a lesson that it can work out no matter what you
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don't have to count out to like these weird powers that be.
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And whether you're at this level or at this level, but you can live your
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life the way that you want.
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And as you mentioned, talk to your friends, hang out, be happy.
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And it just so happens that that resonates with people.
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It actually reminds me of like, uh, speaking to MIT and being in Boston is
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like a good will hunting.
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You know, like, again, that's what did he really want to do?
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He could have gone this way.
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Could have gone that way.
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And it was an interesting story, but it's like this person wants to hang out
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with his buddies and wants to do other things.
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And again, it happens to be brilliant and happens to be able to do all these
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other things, but there was.
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I guess it's like, at least in my mind, a story of authenticity as well.
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And it was both the same thing in the Robin Williams character.
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And I just think that that's a message cause watch watching things occur on
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the internet as they do now.
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Think so many things playing out in the public eye.
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I feel like so many private or otherwise formerly private discussions and
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disputes and, and, you know, interactions now become, they all have a, a, well,
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what is this going to say when it goes public?
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So how can I couch what I'm saying?
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Or how can I word this in a way that's going to get people on my side or use
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the right buzzwords and not use the wrong buzzwords.
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And it's just neat to see people.
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You know, in their own way, flip the bird to the head, because I just think
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that that's, that's just not how a human being is meant to think or interact.
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I'm curious what you think about the thing that recently has, you know, me like
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hosting this podcast, I sometimes think about like, who should I talk to and not
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in terms of like, it's the, the old Hitler question now, Hitler, I would definitely
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talk to because post world war II, because everyone knows he's evil.
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The question, whether you talk to Hitler in 1937, like when people who are really
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students of what's going on, understand that this is a very dangerous human being.
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But a large number of the part of the world are like, well, he's a leader who
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cares for Germany.
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So the question I have, it's interesting to me, it involves a particular person
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named who also lives in Austin, Texas named Alex Jones.
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I don't know if you're familiar with the guy.
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I am familiar with Mr. Jones.
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I've actually recently just listened to Infowars, like one episode of his show,
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I guess that he does every day.
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And it kind of reminds me of a time in college when I drank too much tequila.
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There's no turning back.
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Like, it's like, like the mistakes you make that like, it's, I mean, you don't
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know where you're going to wake up, you don't know who you're going to kill or
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not kill or steal or rob, it's unclear.
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So that, it felt like I was getting pulled into a dark place where pretty
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much everybody is a pedophile that's trying to control the world.
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So Bill Gates definitely is a pedophile.
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Everybody in power, anybody in power, there's a kind of a deep skepticism
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about power and a conspiratorial way to see the world where everything is
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like dark forces in all corners.
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It's like the way you feel when you're a kid, that there's a monster hiding
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in the closet.
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Which is also why you leap over the bed from like four feet away.
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There's a strategy.
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Yes.
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So, but he says that you're just being weak.
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You need to look under the bed.
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Under the bed, there's monsters and we need to be aware of them because
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they're growing, they're multiplying.
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You should be.
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And they're touching children.
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They're touching children.
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Exactly.
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So it all connects.
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But the, the, I, when I listened to him and I thought about like, do I want
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to talk to him on this podcast, for example, when I listened to his
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conversation with Joe Rogan, the two times he talked on there, to me,
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it was somehow entertaining.
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Like it was fun to listen to.
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It's fun to listen to a madman go on for four hours because it's almost
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like theater.
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Like, this is what I talked to Joe about.
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When people try to censor Alex Jones, Joe says that the people who try
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to censor him don't give enough credit to the intelligence of human
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beings to like, understand like that, like what a person says on a
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large platform does not necessarily is not the truth.
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You can be a madman and say crazy things and people are intelligent
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enough to hear certain things being, when they're said like the earth
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is flat, they can, they can be intelligent enough not to all of a
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sudden start believing that the earth is flat.
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Like they, they're intelligent enough to sort of select different
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ideas and be able to enjoy the theater of a particular ridiculous
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over the top conversation without being sort of influenced to where
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they start believing like toxic set of beliefs.
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Now there's a lot of sort of other kinds of people, especially now
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with cancel culture that say, well, you don't want to give platform
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to crazy people that ultimately whose beliefs might lead to dangerous
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consequences.
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Like, and I see it very often now with conspiracy theories that go,
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that go like way too far.
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Like for example, would, I, I'm not, I haven't looked into it, so I'm
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sorry, I will look into it, but it hurts my heart to see that on Bill
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Gates, in my opinion, the person who has saved and improved more lives
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than probably any human history, literally because of the money he's
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invested in helping, like just, just the work he's done on like malaria
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in Africa, the number of people he's helped is huge.
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And yet every interview, anything you see now on Bill Gates, everyone
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is calling him, I believe haven't looked into it, but I believe
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everyone's calling him a pedophile.
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I don't know the full structure of it, but it's, it's just a very, it
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feels like an army of like, it feels like it's hundreds of thousands
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of people.
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That's what it feels like.
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It might be a much smaller percentage, but it feels like a huge number
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of people are calling him a pedophile.
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So that's the, that's the flip side.
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If you allow, if you give platform to conspiracy theories like that,
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then you start to have bigger and bigger percent of the population
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believe in these crazy things.
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I just, I wanted to put it out there.
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Cause I don't know what to think of that.
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If you put yourself in Joe Rogan's shoes, if you put yourself in my
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shoes, if you put yourself just in your own shoes, I mean, I'm even
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I'm in my shoes right now.
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Great.
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If you're staying in your shoes, just stay in your shoes.
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Can I have your, would you talk, would you give platform to people like
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Alex Jones, would, would you talk to somebody like Alex Jones or, or not?
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Uh, I, yes, I would.
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And I feel very strongly about this, honestly.
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Um, well, I think that it's, it's an interesting thing and I, I would
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just say a lot of times, um, I can understand, you know, very, very
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clearly why people would take issue with the idea of, I guess what they
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proceed to be amplifying this man's voice, this man's reach, um, you
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know, as, as a demonstrable negative.
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But I think, um, you know, when you take a step back further, uh, the,
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the cure is more damaging than the disease and significantly.
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So, um, I guess I think that I'm very, very wary of, I think being where
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you mentioned Alex Jones being wary of power and people with it, that's
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a lot of times there's a lot of truth and validity to crazy things that
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people say it's the conspiracy theories that stick are the ones that sound
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credible, at least quasi credible in some aspect.
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And it's almost like it seems to me like an anchor in people's mind.
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And it is also funny to me, obviously the, the Bill Gates, it's so funny
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to tar people with things like pedophile, racist, rapist, like, these
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are things that we're basically trying to pick words that no one can ever
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support someone who does these things.
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And that's, you know, and that changes year by year.
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Like currently pedophile is totally in as a thing to call somebody just,
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just as a, it used to be communist or Marxist Cleveland Browns fan, you
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know, like, come on, you know, actually nobody likes the Browns.
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So I'll agree with you.
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That was, that's why I picked them.
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That's the trick is you find a group of people that nobody likes.
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We're good here.
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All right.
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That's the move, but, uh, yeah, that's a creepy thing though, because
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that is, that is the creepy thing is like, if people are always looking
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for groups of people are always looking for, and I find this really deeply
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disturbing, um, like, Hey, so who's the guy that we can all get away with?
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You know, just treating like dirt, who's the guy that I can be a dick to?
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I can just walk up and punch in the face and no one's going to say anything.
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And it's, even if I, you know, people do that with, whether it's literal
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Nazis or someone that I called a Nazi, you know, I guess what's the bigger issue,
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this person's ridiculous beliefs or what I'm doing.
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And you mentioned Hitler before, and obviously Mein Kampf being a, you know,
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like the outline for some of the things he did later and when the evil was it
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always there, did it, did it take root later on or flourish later on?
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But was, was Adolf Hitler a problem because he had crazy ideas or
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because he did things?
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I think it's because it's not, I think I know it's because he did things.
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Now, if I'm going to start punishing thought crime, I, I'm going to have to
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start punishing thought crime.
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And that's a terrifying concept.
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Even if I'm right about the certain, about the objectively correct about the
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things that I decide to call out of bounds, who put me in charge and made me
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arbiter of good taste and how long until I did it, did it, did it, did it, did it
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long until I decide that something else is, is out of bounds.
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It's, it's always a sliding scale or it's always a sliding standard.
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And I find that, that, you know, to be more of a concern than people doing
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crazy things, because I guess if you mentioned Alex Jones, you know, putting
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out ridiculous, ridiculous ideas, ridiculous theories, I think that most
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people don't look at Alex Jones as a credible person.
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Now I'm not going to pretend to be deeply read into all of his beliefs or the
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things that he's trying to peddle.
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Um, but there's plenty of things that are quasi mainstream that I think on
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with this side or that side that maybe not comparably ridiculous, but are, you
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know, particularly in hindsight or, you know, or we're not, or, or silly.
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And I guess, uh, the idea of, of getting a group of people together to decide
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what we're not going to tolerate is a very, very tricky thing.
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And I think that, you know, it reminds me of law or, you know, even, you
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know, religion when it gets to like, what are the things that we don't like?
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How do we feel about rape?
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It's like, no, under no circumstances.
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Is that an acceptable behavior murder?
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No, that's not acceptable behavior.
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Killing, I don't know, kind of depends on the situation.
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Are you at war?
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Were you justified?
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Were you acting in self defense?
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Okay.
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So it's not now murder is a specific type of killing the same way, you know, other
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things should be a specific type of something else.
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But I guess we, we draw the line of murder.
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We say, if you want to exist in our society, you can't do this.
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This cannot be done.
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And then we go theft.
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If someone said, Hey, I murdered that guy.
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Can you understand where I'm coming from?
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I might say, yeah, I'll hear you out.
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It doesn't mean that I think you're right, but I'm like, have you ever been wronged
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so deeply that you could imagine that you could kill someone?
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I'm like, no, I haven't, but I could conceptualize someone doing that.
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And I'm like, yeah, okay.
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And you still need to go, you still need to face, you know, criminal justice as we
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have it in our system, or at least that's how we've decided.
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Yeah, there's, it's interesting.
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You have to be able to like, there's, if you look at the history of discourse in
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this country, I think it's still true, but I'm not sure it's changed since 9 11 is,
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uh, it used to be impossible to criticize, um, a soldier.
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It was easier to criticize war.
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It was harder to criticize soldiers for allowing themselves to be the tools of war.
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I tend to be, maybe it's the Russian upbringing.
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It's the, it's the combat thing.
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I tend to romanticize war and soldiers.
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I see soldiers as heroes, but I've also heard people that not only say that soldiers
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are, uh, war is bad.
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They say soldiers are bad.
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What's their argument?
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It's, it's the kind of a libertarian view that they're basically slaves to evil, right?
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War is evil and they're, they're given, they are suspending their moral and ethical, like,
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as like duties as a human being to become the tools of evil.
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That's the sort of the argument.
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If you see war as evil, I mean, I think it's useful to hear that, but there's for a long
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part in history that was completely unacceptable.
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Same with abortion.
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If you see abortion as murder, I mean, if I classify it in that, if I put it in that,
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in that basket, it starts, we're living in the midst of like a genocide.
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Looked at from that perspective, could you feel how people could be deeply upset by abortion?
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You go, of course.
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Looked at from a different perspective, you say, I don't believe it to be murder.
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That's not how I see it.
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Then you go, oh, well, if that's the genesis of your, your thought process, then you're
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like, yeah, okay.
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Now, now I see how we can come to a different thing, but I guess we go, well, abortion is
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murder period.
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Therefore, if you support it, you support murder.
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That's a convenient way for me to tar you.
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Right.
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But I guess that's kind of coming back to the Alec Jones.
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I'm, I'm just a nuance.
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It's a, you have to have the nuance in these kinds of conversations and I have to be willing
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to have the conversation and I have to be willing to sit down.
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If I can't sit down across from like the most violently racist, angry, hypothetical internet,
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you know, conceived person that none of us have ever actually met in real life, but are
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hopefully not, you know, and go like, well, of course I believe that this person's wrong,
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but allow me to change, do my best.
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I'll hear them out and I'll go, no, I can go point by point and explain where this guy
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or this girl is wrong and hopefully bring them over to a more reasonable position where
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they will have better beliefs and they will like objectively better beliefs and beliefs
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that will, will, and they'll treat other people better.
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Why would I want to marginalize this person?
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I might not want to talk.
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I might not want to invite them to my barbecue if they're acting like a jerk all the time,
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but how could I, would it not make the world a better place if I'd hear them out and they
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go, look, if you're going to sit down and talk with me, we're going to have to have
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a discussion.
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I'll hear what you have to say.
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And if I can't, if I can't explain to someone why their ridiculous belief is wrong, then
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I might, I must not be so confident in my position.
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And I guess that's where I come back to the Alex Jones thing.
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As you mentioned, you know, with, with Bill Gates and, and you're much more familiar with,
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with the specifics of all the good that he's done, but you know, again, he's been an unbelievable
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force for good, you know, in this world.
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You can list A, B, C, D things that the man has, has done, that his foundation has done
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and, you know, positive things.
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And then the other people could speculate about ridiculous, crazy levels of, of evil,
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but you can't produce any evidence for that sort of thing.
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Because if you could, the man will find himself in some trouble, you know?
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And anyway, I guess what I would, would say is that why you can't force me to accept the
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truth the same way you could write down two plus two equals four on a piece of paper and
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show me how it works.
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And I could say, no, but that doesn't make it not true.
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And you've still given yourself an opportunity to present your case.
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You've presented it to me.
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And you've also, for anyone listening and watching, you know, you've been able to critically
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assess what's gone on, you know, or critically address back and forth, you know, kind of
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the, the discourse.
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And I think that you almost, you're making your case for the public.
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So I guess like, you know, when it comes to just never not engaging with these people,
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that seems to me to be cowardly.
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And I think that that's a, something that we're seeing in society right now, I think
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we're seeing a crisis of courage in society all over the place.
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And I think that's where we're seeing poor leadership.
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I think we're seeing understandable things happening everywhere, but we need stronger
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voices and stronger, stronger beliefs that have a conviction and are willing to engage
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with others, not just turning into a shouting contest and not, I didn't win because there's
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more of me.
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Oh, I voted, I outvoted you.
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That's nice too.
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But that's a stand in for bullets.
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That's saying I won because there's more of me.
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That doesn't mean that I'm right because plenty of horrible and unpopular now things have
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been very, very deeply popular in the past and would have won a popular vote.
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Does that make them right?
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I'd say clearly not.
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So I guess you'd hope that we engage with these people and that you can do your best
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to bring them over to a more reasonable position if you believe that you have one.
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And if you can't, well, at least you made the effort.
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And I think that that's something where martial arts shows the value.
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It's like, do you know if you're going to go win your next fight?
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I'm like, I have no idea.
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I will proceed forward with full effort and I will fight with dignity.
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I'll fight with honor and I'll fight with courage and I'll use everything that I have
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and I will play within the bounds of the game and that's that.
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And the result will be what it'll be.
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But I'll walk into and out of that ring with my head held high because I will know that
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I did my part.
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I did my job.
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The outcome, the specific outcome is not in my control.
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It's just strongly in my influence.
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And I think that that's something that helped me, that martial arts has taught me because
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other times, even when I was successful or unsuccessful, I would focus on if I won, I
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won, therefore I'm good.
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I lost, therefore I'm bad.
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This other guy won or lost, therefore, as opposed to evaluating their method.
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And I think it's so easy when we're taking a bird's eye view of things to not evaluate
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how someone's doing things.
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You're not evaluating my process.
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You're simply evaluating my outcome.
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And I could have stumbled into something very, very good or very, very bad.
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And we can look back and I think that's the value of history.
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I mean, I don't mean to get on my dang high horse, but it's like this value of history
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is we can see the unbroken chain or the chain of events that led us somewhere.
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And then only with the eyes of history can we truly evaluate things unless we're in
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the room watching it happen.
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And I guess that's, again, where we start to go most of the big, bad, scary things that
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have happened in history that are done particularly on an industrial scale, which implies governmental
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power and things like that or the equivalent, involve groups of people getting together
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and going, hey, we're not going to deal with that guy, giant groups of people.
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So maybe we're right this time, but maybe we're wrong next time.
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And I guess I would be back to the Gandalf putting on the one ring.
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I would be very, very hesitant, even if we thought we were in the right to simply try
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to try to marginalize just on general principle.
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Even people like Alex Jones, whom on their face are pretty ridiculous.
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Like you said, you should sit down with Adolf Hitler and talk to the man.
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I agree with you to play a little devil's advocate is Alex Jones might be a bad example.
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But if we look at, because he has a face, he is a human, he's a real person.
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There's also trolls on the internet for Chan.
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The worry I have with those folks is that, and there might be parallels to martial arts
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is they practice guerrilla warfare, meaning they don't necessarily want to arrive at the truth.
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They just always want to cut at the ankles of the powerful.
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Like they want to always break down the powerful.
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And even if they, I mean, it's, they turn everything into a game.
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So they let's see if we can make the world.
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Let's see if we can make a trend that Bill Gates is a pedophile, right?
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They make it into a game.
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They get excited about this game.
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They see the powerful.
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Let's see if we can convince that, like, who is the most positive person we can think of.
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Let's see if we can turn them into evil.
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And they've tried that with like everybody and it seems to stick and they're good at it.
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And some would argue, whatever you think about our current president, that he has some elements
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of that, which is he's figured out whatever this music of social discourse that's going on,
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he's figured out how to always troll the mainstream flow of consciousness.
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That's the media.
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He always kind of says stuff that annoys a very large number of people.
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And he enjoys that because it's like taking the powerful, taking the way things were before.
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And he like shakes it up by saying the most inappropriate thing, almost on purpose or
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instinctually and so on.
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The problem I have with that is that doesn't, the powerful thing there is it brings those
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in power down a notch.
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That's a great thing.
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The negative thing is it doesn't push us closer to a nuanced, careful, rigorous discourse
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towards truth.
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It's like showing up to a party and just like starting to yell.
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It doesn't create a good conversation.
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It just makes everything into a game where truth doesn't even seem like a thing we can
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even hope to achieve.
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That makes sense.
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And I guess, as you mentioned, we'll come back to another movie because I don't do books
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and do movies.
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Some people just want to watch the world burn, right?
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And I guess there's, that's a creepy, creepy kind of urge that some people have.
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And then also is some people you're like, hey, would you like to throw a brick through
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that glass window?
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You're like, yeah, sure.
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Like, no, I'm not going to do that because I think about what's going to occur.
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Like something's going to be hurt, someone's property not going to do it versus, hey, you
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want to see what will happen?
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Like, yeah, sure.
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Kids are always like, I have my son, he grabs Spider Man and drops him on the table.
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Spider Man fell.
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Spider Man didn't fall, Sean.
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Like, he dropped him, you knocked him off the table and he'll grin.
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And basically, it's an interesting thing, like you said, that these people are appealing
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to and also almost like the little dog factor of like people do want to watch the powerful
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get taken down a notch for all the good and the not good of that.
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Just plenty of people, it seems to me, that have found their way to incredibly high positions.
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Some have just found themselves there and many, many, many, many, many people, men and
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women of all backgrounds are brilliant and have worked hard.
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And yeah, of course, there's luck and there's luck into everything.
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LeBron James, in spite of being the best basketball player on God's green earth, is fortunate
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that he didn't get hit by a car.
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It's fortunate he didn't tear his knee, but thankfully, we get to see all these things.
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But I guess if people don't have any skin in the game, you never know what they're going
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to do.
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And I think that's the problem with the internet.
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You know, that people get to be nameless, be faceless.
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That's why guerrilla fighters are outside of the bounds of war.
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Like you don't have a uniform on.
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Like, I don't know who you're from.
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You don't get the same treatment that a soldier gets for MP.
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Well, that's crazy.
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Actually, there's reasons for this, because otherwise people are able to assail things
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and there's no one responsible.
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There's no way to go and say, hey, where did this come from?
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What's the root of this?
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How can I address this?
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And I think that's the problem of the internet, the problem of Twitter.
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There's a problem in places like 4chan.
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I wouldn't mind seeing that type of stuff go away, if I'm frank.
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But that's not the same thing as people with a face, people who are willing to stand there
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and say, hi, my name is so and so.
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Even if I have ridiculous beliefs, hopefully people will hear me out.
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And then if I'm wrong, educate me.
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But I guess you hope that the real, I guess, in my mind, antidote to all of this silliness
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is education.
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And I think that that's something that we're critical thinking is not necessarily.
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I went to school in America, and I feel very fortunate.
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But critical thinking is not something that's focused on.
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I mean, it's tough.
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It's almost like talking about jujitsu.
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It's tough to teach critical thinking when I don't know any words.
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You have to teach me techniques.
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You can't teach me to be an artist.
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But recognize that the techniques are the beginning, not the end.
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Ultimately, it's the artistry that we are searching for, not just the science or the
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biro memorization.
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And I guess you'd hope that people's ability to think critically and recognize that majority
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rule or whoever's loudest does not mean that they're right by any stretch of the imagination.
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And we don't appeal to that.
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And we don't bow to that.
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We'll help them to help inoculate them against the ridiculous things that come out of these
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places, these dark places that are objectively not great.
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But I guess all circling back, even if we swatted these bad things out of existence
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right now, we've got to be very, very careful doing that because it's who's doing the swatting.
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This political group that's in power right now, the people that support our current president
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would maybe feel a certain way.
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The people that support another option would feel differently as to what exactly defines
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toxic.
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And I guess that's what gives me pause.
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Yeah.
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But also the grace thing.
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I tend to believe that the technology, you said education, but the platforms we use like
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Twitter and Reddit and all these platforms have a role to play to teach us grace.
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Meaning they should help us incentivize the kind of behavior that is incentivized in real
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life.
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Like being a dick in real life is not incentivized.
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Like one on one interaction.
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Like there's cases where it is, but usually being kind to each other is incentivized.
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On the internet, it's not.
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Like you get likes for mocking people in a funny, in a humorous way.
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And it can be dark kind of mocking, depending on the community.
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You can go to the appearance.
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If somebody is a little fat or a little too skinny, you can comment on their appearance,
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the hair, the way the hair looks, like the appearance stuff.
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It could be on the people comment all the time on the level of eloquence of my speech.
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Go fuck yourself.
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I like it.
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It's creepy though watching previously, like this used to be low brow though.
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Like people doing this type of stuff, it's creepy watching like our political figures
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get into this type of game.
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Yes.
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But again, it's a little bit refreshing, right?
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It's the, my hope with Donald Trump was, is that he would shake up the people who wear
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suits.
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Usually the, like if you're from DC, I remember like showing up, I actually didn't wear what
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I usually wear in DC cause I was like, everybody's wearing a suit and tie when I was like giving
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talks and stuff.
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Except for Mudge, who wears jeans and a t shirt.
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Mudge doesn't give a damn.
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Mudge is a forever renegade.
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But I don't even remember what, oh yeah.
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So my hope with Trump was that he would shake up that system to say like, to inject new
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ideas, to inject new energy.
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Of course, the way it turned out is different, but like there's, it turns out that you might
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want to have somebody who's like an Andrew Yang type character who is full of ideas that
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are very different and inject the energy, new energy into the system through youthful
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new ideas versus through the troll that like, that's very good at sort of mocking and like
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playing outside the rules of the game.
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But Trump did reveal powerfully, I don't know what to think of it, that it's just a game
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and you don't have to play by the rules.
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That's both inspiring and dark.
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Deeply depressing, right?
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Yeah, and I don't know what to do with it.
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I don't, I mean the same, I'm not drawing parallels, not drawing parallels between our
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president and Adolf Hitler, but it's certainly, and there's a lot of, in history, a lot of
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positive and a lot of negative things happen when charismatic leaders realize they don't
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have to play by the rules.
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You can just flip the table.
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It's that Kevin Spacey show.
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House of Cards.
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House of Cards, where you just flip the table or whatever.
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You don't have to play by the rules of the chess game.
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You can flip the table.
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One wonders if that's always been done in private, you know?
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I guess, because that's, I mean, even look, obviously, the United States is a republic,
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but we had Bush, then we had Clinton, then we had more Bush, then we had President Obama,
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then we were about to have another Clinton.
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That's fairly creepy.
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Yeah.
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Even on its own.
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But now we added another, I mean, I'm sure we'll have a generation of Trumps now.
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Gee.
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I'm Russian, so I think we humans like kings still and queens.
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There's something, we're attracted to the thing we talked about, coaches.
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There's something in us that longs towards that authoritarian control.
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One of the beautiful things about America, the Second Amendment, is we also like individual
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freedom.
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That's one of the unique aspects at the founding of this country and still, and for me, is
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the beacon of hope that somehow there's the fire of freedom burns in like that Texas feel.
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That gives me hope.
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The FU energy that revolts against the power, which as we discussed, power corrupts and
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ultimately leads to degradation of whoever's ruling the people.
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It's interesting though.
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It seems to me, maybe I'm just, I don't know if I'm reading this properly when I see it,
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but it seems to me that, like you said, that flip the bird, I'm going to do me within reason.
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As long as I'm not hurting you, is idea that very much, at least in my mind, defines the
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American ideal or at least part of the consciousness of the United States is under attack to a
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certain extent.
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If only I can think to maybe a generation behind us, it's becoming more collectivist
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for all the good and also the not good of that.
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And it's not in terms of policy at this point, but just in terms of consciousness.
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And I wonder if that's an internet thing.
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People are more in touch with one another than they've, as far as I can tell, have ever
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been, or at least more than in my lifetime.
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And the rest of the world seems much closer than it did.
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Living in Virginia, California seems very far away.
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Being on the internet, it's just right there.
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I can hear about it.
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I can see it.
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I can interact with people from there.
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I remember being in Tennessee at one time and reading about events taking place in the
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Middle East.
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And that just seemed like a mile away.
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It seemed like an unbelievably far distance.
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And then another time when you're in DC, you just feel like, oh, you read about something
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happening in Paris.
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And it just feels like it's just right around the corner because DC is a seat of power where
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things are just occurring all the time.
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And I guess you wonder about that's where I come back to the group decisions to not
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listen to this person or to cancel this.
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We all, the moral majority, shall do the following as opposed to as long as you're not hurting
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me and as long as you're not hurting anyone else, I have to let you do, I have to let
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you be on general principle.
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Even if I don't like you, I'm very free to not like you.
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I'm free to speak out against you, but I'm not, it is not within my right or, and not
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with it.
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And it's not, I would not be right to attempt to attack you.
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And that is an interesting thing though, when we see words being redefined or words being
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defined, whether it's toxicity, whether it's violence, if I think that what you're saying
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is your speech is by itself a violence or a precursor to violence, I'm justified in
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doing all sorts of things.
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And that creeps me out significantly because again, even if it ends up being pointed in
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a good direction initially, it's only a matter of time.
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And actually that brings me to another, yeah, I got all day.
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How much are they paying you?
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But we about say the Frank Herbert estate, not enough frankly, let's see.
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And how many books are there in Dune?
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That's a Jen question.
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You're also a fan of Dune?
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I read the whole series, but not a couple of the, I read all the prequels as well with
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the exception of a couple.
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Is there a book one for Dune?
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Dune would be book one.
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And even the prequels, it's still all better if you start, like I read Dune and then read
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the original, what is it?
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Six.
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And then I went back and started to read some of the books.
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Just like watching Star Wars, you want to start episode four or whatever?
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Yeah, I think so.
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That's the move and then stop at six, call it a day, watch The Mandalorian.
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Well, I thought you're not walking back here.
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No, I like The Mandalorian.
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No, it's not The Mandalorian.
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That is what I said.
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I was told that I was heartless for not liking Baby Yoda, who I...
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We don't talk about a couple of the movies, not including The Mandalorian.
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The Mandalorian is fine.
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It's the more recent movies that we don't like to talk about.
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Oh, the...
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What's his name?
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The goofy guy.
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Ryan.
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No, no.
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No, the creature, the goofy creature with the...
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Jar Jar?
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Yeah, Jar Jar.
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Do you ever see the Jar Jar Binks is actually like the Dark Lord of the Sith theory?
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That fixed the whole initial trilogy where he's goofing around and making it all the
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way through battles.
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And when you're like, wait a minute, he oops his way, walks over to a pool, does a triple
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backflip, falls in, you're like, it's just bizarre that you...
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This is the Alex Jones theory of Star Wars.
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He's actually running everything.
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He was the one that actually was like, hey, we should vote in Chancellor Palpatine, or
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Senator Palpatine, right before they put Jar Jar in charge.
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First off, what did they think was gonna happen?
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And second off, I just think that'd be great.
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You're like, oops, oh man, I guess he's the emperor now.
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That would have been great.
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But actually, to the cancel and all the other stuff, again, you'd hope that it gives pause.
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And I think about this for fighting, because a lot of times...
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I'll use this as an example, people fight fans in UFC, they love people that run out
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and try to murder each other.
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And it's entertaining, and it's super entertaining.
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But Floyd Mayweather doesn't resonate with people as much.
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It's like people start...
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I remember the time when Floyd was not as popular.
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Now people think people love Floyd because he's 50 and oh Floyd.
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And oh man, and finally he had so much success that we all can't help but recognize the man's
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genius and greatness.
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But prior to that, oh, he's boring, he's this, he's that.
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He fights with his circumspect, he's cautious, he's pressing.
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He's intelligent, deeply intelligent.
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And when you watch people go out and try to murder each other, you can flip a coin 100
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times and you could be lucky enough to get 100 heads, but it's still a coin flip.
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And I think that that's what's going on all the time is people are getting an outcome
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that they want, but it wasn't a well thought out situation.
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That's why you'll win by five in a row by knockout and then lose three in a row.
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And then people will go, well, what happened to that guy?
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He used to be so great.
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And you're like, no, he's doing what he's always been doing.
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It's just, it was getting great outcomes on a coin flip prior, and it's getting negative
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outcomes on a coin flip now.
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But I guess what I would say is it watches, it's interesting watching, I guess, societal
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beliefs become such a thing that we're almost adopting on a religious level if we're not
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careful.
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If when I say religious level, I mean like pan life, like this is guiding all of my
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choices for all the good and the bad of that.
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And this is a Dune quote is, when religion and politics travel in the same cart, the
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writers believe that nothing can stand in their way.
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Their movements become headlong faster and faster and faster.
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They put aside all thoughts of obstacles and forget that the precipice does not show itself
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to the man in the blind rush until it's too late.
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And I think that that's, again, the pause.
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We go, oh man, thank goodness we have this guy that wants to rebuild Germany.
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He'll put us back where we need to be.
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And you stop questioning your own judgment, your own, you stop thinking essentially.
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Right.
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I'm not allowed to question this.
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Of course this is correct.
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Of course, of course I'm right.
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I intended to do right.
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So of course my actions are correct.
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I mean, how many times have any of us intended to do something helpful and ended up doing
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something less?
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And plenty of people who intend to do harm could by accident do something decent.
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And I guess it's, I'm not saying anything terribly, terribly insightful, but it's just
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one of those where it's hard to say in the moment.
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And that's where you hopefully caution, you would counsel some degree of caution.
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And that's what worries me with people deciding that we're all so right about this or we're
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all so right about that and attempting to rather than win the argument, silence the
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counter argument, no matter how crazy it may seem.
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Because I just think that that idea, even when it's pointed in a good direction initially,
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it's only a matter of time.
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You're amongst many things, a Jiu Jitsu black belt.
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One of the things that people are really curious about white belts and blue belts in Jiu Jitsu,
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but also people haven't tried the art is what does it take to be a Jiu Jitsu black belt?
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I think that, you know, everyone's journey is a little bit different, but the one thing
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that the, it was a Calvin Coolidge quote, you know, determination, persistence is the
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only thing that will win in the end.
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It will always win in the end.
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Not brilliance, not toughness, not education, it's persistence.
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And I think that having the belief that no matter what happens to me, I will proceed
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forward and I will figure out how to make this happen, hell or high water, I think is
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the one thing that ties together all of the people that I've ever met that made it through
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whatever it was that they were going through.
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Because, you know, sometimes you can get lucky and you can have an easy time or and that
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luck could be you had a good situation.
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It could be, I mean, like in the obvious sense of like where you're living, where you're
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training, what's going on, you had a good situation, you're unbelievably athletic.
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Oh, you're going to be an astronaut, you're brilliant and an Olympic athlete, you know,
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like, well, that's a fantastic situation.
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You know, you won the genetic lottery and I'm sure you worked hard as well, but you
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also won the genetic lottery.
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It's a determination is the one thing, though, because that person could have a very easy
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go of it initially and then tear their knee.
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And then they're no longer the superhuman physical specimen that they were.
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The only thing that will keep them going is persistence.
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And I think that that I would just say that persistence to say I'll just put one foot
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in front of the other.
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And sometimes I can see the path ahead and sometimes it's beyond my vision, but I will
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not stop.
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I may even slow down, but I won't stop.
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And that's the only thing that I can say that I've seen tie everyone together because there's
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so many ways to the top of any mountain and there's so many different personalities and
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skills and backgrounds involved.
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But everyone, everyone carries on.
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So at the core, the foundational advice is just don't quit.
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Just keep going.
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That's the lesson of martial arts.
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I think, you know, we think it's like how to be strong or how to be how to win.
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But in reality, it's like how to persist, how to endure, because it's all of us have
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been beaten so many times and gotten beaten up so many times and thought about quitting.
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Have I ever thought about quitting?
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Absolutely.
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Have I ever quit?
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Never.
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I will never, ever quit ever.
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I can say that you might not me out.
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I won't be damned if I quit.
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What's the darkest moment?
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Is it injury related?
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Like, is it, uh, so like, to me, like two possibilities, I've fortunately never been
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seriously injured, but I think that's a dark place to be like having to be out for many
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months, uh, for, um, as Jen was saying, like with a head injury, especially like the uncertainty
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that's one.
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And then the other side is if you have big ambitions as a competitor, realizing that
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you're not as good, like those, those doubts were like, I kind of suck.
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How am I supposed to be a world?
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The greatest fighter of all time.
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If I, if, if like several people in the gym are kicking my ass, those are the two things
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that paralyze you.
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I think that everyone's darkest moment is maybe different looking from the outside for
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Ryan.
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I wouldn't say that he's had injuries and he's had bad ones.
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I wouldn't say that was his darkest moment.
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I think for me, I would say some of my head injury was my darkest moment.
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Absolutely.
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And I've torn my ACL twice.
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I've torn my shoulders four times.
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I've had lots of surgeries.
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For me, the orthopedic injuries were not the most difficult.
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It was the brain injury for others that might be the case for them.
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Maybe they've never experienced an injury and maybe for them, that's their darkest moment
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from the outside, obviously Ryan can speak to this more, but for Ryan, I think it was
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the inability to, to perform at certain points to the upper, the missing of opportunities
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that for him, from my perspective, watching him go through and having seen various points
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of his growth from, from early purple belt on, I think the hardest time for him looking
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in obviously was when he would hit moments where he wasn't able to perform for various
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reasons.
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He couldn't get fights.
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He, he was having difficulties there.
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I think that that was the hardest point for him.
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Did you, did you think like with the head injury that you might not, never be able to
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jujitsu again?
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Yeah.
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I mean, I, I, mine was very, was really bad and it was just the one hit, but I had a looping
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memories for seven months.
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Didn't know it because when your brain's messed up, you're not even aware that you're
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looping.
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And so I saw two different neurologists.
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I finally, like it took a very long time.
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I didn't know if I was going to be able to have like linear thoughts or read a book.
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I didn't know at certain points if I could listen to music again, you know, without it
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making my head hurt.
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And so it was almost two years before I woke up in the morning without a headache.
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Just waking up before I even start my day.
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And so that's even bigger than jujitsu.
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That's just life.
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That's just, that's just hard.
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And I think that you can experience so many things.
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I've had all these injuries.
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We lost a baby when I was 15, 15 weeks.
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And we've had all these experiences and what the hardest point for me, not saying all those
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things weren't hard, but it's kind of like, well, did you go through these?
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You just realize like life goes on and you have to keep working at it and you have to
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keep going.
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And you asked me earlier offline, did I feel depressed and not for my head injury.
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I don't think that at least in the moment I had a, any recognition of that.
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