back to indexNiels Jorgensen: New York Firefighters and the Heroes of 9/11 | Lex Fridman Podcast #220
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The following is a conversation with Niels Jorgensen,
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a New York firefighter for over 21 years
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who was there at Ground Zero on September 11th, 2001.
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He was forced to retire because of the leukemia
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he contracted from cleaning up Ground Zero.
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This podcast tells his story,
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and the story of other great men and women
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who were there that day.
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Some of the stories we talk about
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are part of a new limited podcast series
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that Niels hosts called 20 for 20,
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with 20 episodes for the 20 years since 9 11.
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To support this podcast,
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please check out our sponsors in the description.
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As a side note, please allow me to say a few words
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about the terrorist attacks on September 11th, 2001.
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I was in downtown Chicago on that day,
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lost in the mundane busyness of an early Tuesday morning.
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At that time, I was already fascinated by human nature,
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the best and the worst of it,
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exploring it through the study of history and literature.
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In the years before, as a young boy growing up in Russia,
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I saw chaos, uncertainty, and desperation
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in the Soviet Union of the 1990s,
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wrapping up a century of war and suffering.
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But after coming to America for me,
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there was a sense of hope, like all of it was behind us,
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a bad dream to be forgotten
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as we enter into the new century.
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On 9 11, when I saw the news
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of the second plane hitting the towers,
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my sense of hope had changed.
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I understood that the 21st century,
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like the century before, would too have its tragedies,
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its evildoers, its wars, and its suffering.
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And unlike the history books,
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these stories will involve all of us.
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They will involve me in however small
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and insignificant a role,
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but one that nevertheless carries the responsibility
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I became an American that day, a citizen of the world.
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I felt the common humanity in all of us.
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I felt the unity and the love in the days that followed.
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And I think most of the world shared in this feeling
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that we are all in this together.
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Evil cannot defeat the human spirit.
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There were many heroes sung and unsung on that day
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and in the years after.
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Often politicians fail to rightfully honor the service
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and sacrifice of these heroes.
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There's much I could say about that,
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but I don't want to waste my words
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on the failures of weak leaders.
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Instead, I want to say thank you
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to the men and women who rushed to Ground Zero to help,
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who put on a uniform to serve,
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who make me proud to be an American and a human being,
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and give me hope about the future of our civilization
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here on a small spinning rock
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that despite the long odds
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keeps kindling the fire of human consciousness and love.
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This is the Lex Friedman podcast
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and here is my conversation with Niels Jorgensen.
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Take me through the day of September 11th, 2001
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as you experienced it, as you lived it.
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September 11th, 2001 was a bright, beautiful,
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sunny Tuesday morning.
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It was a late summer.
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There's a lot of folks who go to the beaches in New Jersey
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and call it the short summer.
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Everybody's left there for Labor Day,
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but it's still beautiful enough to enjoy the weather.
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I left my house about 6.30 in the morning
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and my four and a half year old daughter said to me,
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daddy, which truck are you driving today, the fire truck,
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the oil truck, or the boar's head truck?
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Because I had three jobs at the time.
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Most New York City firefighters and police officers, EMS,
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we don't make the most amount of money.
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So in order to live in that city, you have to hustle.
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And my wife stayed at home raising the children.
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So my daughter said, oh, so you should be safe
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because you're on the oil truck.
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I told her I was going on the oil truck that day.
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So she said, you should be safe today, daddy.
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So I left and worked for this great company
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on the North Shore, Staten Island, Quinlan Fuel.
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Very nice people, treated me very well.
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And it was my first day back actually for the winter season.
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Usually get laid off a couple months in the summer
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because things, you know, too hot to need oil.
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So I took the truck, started my route that day
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and plane to New Jersey.
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And plane hit the tower.
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So initially I'm like, oh, it's probably
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some silly Lear jet pilot.
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And he veered off track to get a better picture
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for a client and he hit the building.
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Probably hit a, you know, bad turbulence, gust of wind.
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It's very windy down in that area in Manhattan.
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So that was my first thought.
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Can we pause there for a second?
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So 6.30 a.m. you wake up, you leave,
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and then the plane hits at 8.45 a.m.
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It's just interesting how you phrase it.
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So how did you hear that a plane hit something?
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I'm a big news radio guy, news guy, bit of a buff.
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I've been that way since I was a kid
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and I had the news radio on the local New York radio station.
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And as I was driving the truck,
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I heard, you know, an emergency report.
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This just in, aircraft has just struck
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the World Trade Center.
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And where Quinlan's is located,
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it's on the north rim of Staten Island,
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which is right on New York Harbor.
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And you could see Statue of Liberty,
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you know, a mile or two away in your distance.
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And then past that is the towers.
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So I just literally stopped the truck and looked out
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and I saw the smoke.
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So there was smoke?
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Oh, it was dark, black smoke.
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It was just, yeah, I mean,
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it was burning fully at that point.
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Did you have fear of what the hell happened?
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Or is it? I was initially scared
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for anybody involved.
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I realized, I said, there's gonna be lots of fatalities,
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obviously, depending on the size of the aircraft.
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And, you know, the business day there
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had started probably at 8, 8.30.
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So those buildings should have been packed at that moment.
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So that was a thought that crossed my mind.
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But from our being responder perspective,
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if you're off duty, normally you do not go to a scene
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that they don't want you to
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because of accountability and safety.
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The on duty platoon will handle it.
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And if it's something very horrific,
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then they will have something called a recall,
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which is any police firefighter or EMS personnel
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is obligated to go to their command immediately,
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check in with, you know, their command to get their gear
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and stand by and await orders for deployment
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or to remain in that command for routine duties.
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How often throughout history have there been recalls?
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I believe the one prior to that was like in the 1968 riots,
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possibly, and then maybe in the 70s,
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there was another blackout and riots.
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And I remember my dad talking about it.
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And he actually always said,
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just remember if something bad's going down,
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don't just rush in, you will wait the recall.
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Or at the very least, if there isn't a recall,
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you get to your firehouse.
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And because if you show up somewhere,
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there's a good chance that no one knows you're there.
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And now you, in your well intended movements,
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you get lost or trapped or no one's looking for you.
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So that's the whole thing with, you know, checking in.
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And now you're with a squad or, you know, group of guys
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and everyone knows, you know,
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hey, there's Nels, there's Lex.
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Okay, they're on, you know, this team.
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So I said, all right, they're not gonna need us.
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It's probably gonna be a fifth alarm.
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And you know, there'll be 250 firefighters there.
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They'll handle it.
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It's gonna be a bad day for those guys,
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but you know, our guys take on some heavy stuff
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and they'll be fine.
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A few minutes later, the second plane hit
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and I knew immediately, I'm like, okay, we're under attack.
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So I just flew the truck back in.
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I told my boss, I have to go.
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He understood, he knew something was way wrong
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and I just was flying.
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At the time, I actually had a yellow Volkswagen Beetle,
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kind of a goofy car to be driving, but I loved it.
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So for people who are just listening,
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you're kind of a big guy.
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Well, yeah, I definitely need to lose about 50 pounds.
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No, I don't mean in that way, your frame, big hands.
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As my beloved friend, Bobby Adams would say to me,
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I was driving around in a clown wagon
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and he also says, I have a waving hairdo, waving bye bye.
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But yeah, he's a great friend.
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Yeah, so I took the Volkswagen and I flew in
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and I was heading over to Verrazano Bridge
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and hit the Brooklyn Queens Expressway.
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And my phone rang and my wife normally doesn't curse
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or raise a voice and she was yelling at me.
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And she said, don't go in there, go to your firehouse.
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Well, first she asked, well, she knew I was on the way,
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but she just wanted to know where.
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And I said, I'm on the curve, which is 65th Street
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on the Brooklyn Queens Expressway called Dead Man's Curve.
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We actually used to do a lot of car wrecks up there.
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And I was hitting that curve pretty fast.
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And then right around the curve is the exit to the firehouse.
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And I had to decide, well, am I driving right in
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to the battery tunnel to the city
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or am I going to the firehouse?
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And then I said, but I have no gear.
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I'm gonna be ineffective.
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How do I show up with no gear, no protection, you know?
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So she said, do what your dad would follow the recall,
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go to the firehouse.
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And I hung up the phone, said, I love you, gotta go.
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And I did, I went to the firehouse
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and I'm glad I listened to her.
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I had my father ringing in my ears.
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My dad, beautiful guy, he's 82.
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He did 34 years in the New York City Fire Department.
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He came down on end stage, non
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and he's 38 back in, going on 39, 1978.
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And this guy, he's my hero.
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He was gonna die, they sent him home.
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They said, there's really not much we can do.
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Go get your affairs in order.
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And he says, but doc, I have three young kids.
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And she called him a couple hours later.
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She said, I got in touch with Sloan Kettering
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and they have a new drug.
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So I'll take you to the hospital.
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and do the same exact reverse route
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and he'd get to the cancer center
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and my mom would meet him and he'd get his infusion
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and within two hours he'd be violently ill
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for a few days, really badly ill.
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And I just remember, yeah, I was 10 years old
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and he just had to have the room darkened out
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and he'd be so sick and I'd just go in
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and wipe the vomit on his face,
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just try to give him a little water
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but he couldn't take it down because he'd throw it up.
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And maybe on Saturday he'd start coming around a little bit,
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drink down a little bit of tea
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and on Sunday morning he'd put his robe on
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and he'd go down, mom would make him black coffee and toast
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and he'd sit up, watch the news, watch a game
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and then Monday morning he'd go back to work.
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He did that for four years.
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And he's 82 and he's still here.
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You said that your dad's a man of a few words
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but when he talks, they're profound.
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So what words were ringing in your ear
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when you were driving?
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I just always remember him saying,
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kid, they give the recall, you go to the firehouse,
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you don't go where you think you should,
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you go to the firehouse, you follow your orders.
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So do the smart thing, do your job.
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And every time we'd hang up the phone,
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it's fireman talk, he'd say, I love you, keep low.
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My dad couldn't tell me he loved me
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until I told him when I first got on a fire
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upon when I was 22 and my dad grew up in a tough household.
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My granddad was a good man, but a tormented man.
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He was sent away from home at 12 years old.
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He was from Denmark and I'm named after him, Grandpa Nils.
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And I think his demons took up a large part of his life.
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His anger, whatever it was, his fear.
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We got the sense that maybe when he was a child,
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he was an apprentice baker,
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living with strangers, working for them.
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And we think maybe he was abused
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and that's why he took it out on my dad
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and my grandma and my aunts.
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But they made it up to each other
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at the end of my granddad's life.
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My granddad turned out to be the best grandfather ever.
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I think he tried to heal and heal everyone
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by his change of behavior.
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So he's proof that you can change,
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you can improve if you work on it.
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But I know I'm going off track here, but.
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But you were man enough in your,
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you say in your 20s to tell your dad.
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And my dad, I got on a job.
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He said, how'd it go, kid?
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That was the tour, we called it Tour of Duty.
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I said, oh, dad, it was great, it was great, I love it.
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And he goes, well, just remember, you keep low,
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you always keep low.
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And keep low means you stay down below the flames,
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if a room flashes over and it's burning,
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if you stay up high, you're gonna get burned badly.
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But if you get down on your belly and you crawl,
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So he'd always say that when he'd hang up the phone.
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And I said, well, I love you, pop.
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And he says, well, thanks, kid.
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I said, well, you can say it too.
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Oh, nice, you pressured him.
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And he did, and he said it.
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And now every time we talk, he says it.
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So, you know, they talk about masculinity and whatnot.
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And my dad is one of those tough, tough guys
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And that's how he brought me up, you know,
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to be a protector.
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I was bullied really badly as a kid,
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and I really hated it.
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And now I find myself sometimes throwing myself
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into situations to protect people that are being,
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you know, violated and hurt.
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And I just can't walk away from it.
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But that's my dad.
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My dad was that, you know, just a great guy.
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You still listen to, therefore, see,
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you probably went to rush right to the towers,
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Yeah, so anyway, I got, I did, I listened to him.
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I listened to my wife.
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I went to the firehouse, and it was really strange.
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It was eerie because the computer dispatch system
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was still beeping, which meant it sent a dispatch,
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and the truck received it.
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Ladder 114, my truck company received it,
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and they left, they were gone.
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So it was this beautiful old building built in the 1880s
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with a spiral staircase, just a narrow old brick garage,
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And I just heard the computer chirping.
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And I looked down on a ticket, and it said,
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Ladder 114, respond, the Vessian West World Trade Center
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aircraft into building.
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And I said, oh, God, I just hope they're not on a death ride
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because this now was two towers, and they were burning.
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They were free burning, and I knew
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this was really, really bad.
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And I got on the phone, and I called command right away.
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I called the 40th Battalion, and Chief's aide just said, look,
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Sign them in to the journal.
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There's a journal of daily events.
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Everything that takes place in the firehouse 24 seven
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And I logged myself as coming in, reporting for duty.
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And as the guys came in, I logged them in.
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And then one of our lieutenants took command.
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We grabbed up a bunch of gear, and they basically
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told us, get 12 guys, get a city bus,
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and get down to the battery tunnel they said
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would probably be closed.
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There was threats it was going to be blown up
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to get to the Brooklyn Bridge.
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We got a city bus.
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We flagged it down, and the bus driver said, I'm sorry.
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I can't give you the bus.
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And he took us, and we stopped at Engine 201,
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which is just about a quarter mile down the road from us.
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That's our affiliated engine company,
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and my childhood best friend here, Johnny Schardt,
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he was assigned there, and he was on shift.
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And then they went through the tunnel.
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And we picked up those guys, the off duty guys from 201,
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and then we kept going down Fourth Avenue,
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and we picked up 239's crew.
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And then we hightailed it down the bridge,
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and there was a lot of traffic.
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There was a lot of people fleeing,
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coming over the bridge in waves, so it affected the inbound.
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What was the mood like among the crew?
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It was somber, because just prior to getting on the bus,
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the first tower went down.
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So we figured that I heard 114, my lieutenant, Dennis Oberg,
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heard him on the radio.
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And he said, 114, Manhattan, we're on your frequency.
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What do you need us?
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And they said, Tally Ho, which is our nickname.
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Tally Ho, respond to the Vessian West to the command post
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and receive your orders.
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And I heard Dennis say, Tally Ho, 10 4.
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And Dennis, a little while after that,
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they were proceeding to go into, I believe it was,
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I get this mixed up, and I'm sorry.
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I should know this by the back of my hand,
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but sometimes it's just such a haze.
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But the second tower hit was the first one to go down.
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And they were heading over to go in it.
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And all of a sudden, he looked up,
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and he saw what he thought to be disintegration.
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And he turned the guys around.
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They sprinted as fast as they could.
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And they dove under a fire truck.
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And the guys that were sprinting behind him 40 feet away
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were underneath a pile that was 10 stories deep.
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And just further into that pile was his rookie son, Dennis's
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rookie son, who was working in Ladder 105, which
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was my first command under the department.
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I worked for it, proudly served for three years.
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And just aside them was my childhood best friend,
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John Chard, and his crew from 201.
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And they were all killed.
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And a strange irony to that is that Dennis's son, Dennis Jr.,
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was working underneath, under the wing of a senior man,
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A senior man is a guy with a lot of experience.
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And he'll watch over you, make sure you don't veer off,
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like I veer off a lot in talking.
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And you don't veer off, and you get yourself hurt.
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In the morning of 1993 bombing, Henry Miller was my senior man.
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And I was the young guy under his wing.
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And he protected me.
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And toward the end of the day, he looked around.
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He said, kid, it's a bad day.
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He said, they didn't do it right.
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They blew it up in the middle.
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If they did it in a corner, they would
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have dropped this building half a mile down at Canal Street.
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But don't kid yourself.
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They'll be back, and they'll do it.
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And they'll do it right next time.
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And it's so strange and so prophetic,
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because he was there with them.
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He died with Dennis.
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And like 1994, we had a training manual
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with a picture of the towers with a target.
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And this is not a matter of if, but a matter
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of when, be prepared.
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And it's haunting.
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It was like people knew, right?
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And we didn't stop it.
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And so we got off the bus, but just prior to that,
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coming over the bridge of the second tower, it's gone now.
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And we're just destroyed, because we're like,
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our guys are there.
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They're all in there.
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Now we're feeling like cowards, because we got there late.
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And initially, we're thinking there's
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500 guys that are gone, because there was a tent alarm
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assignment, which means 50, 60 fire trucks, five to six guys
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per, you know, you're looking at.
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At least there was even more tent alarm,
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plus multiple alarms on top of it.
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There was a dispatch, basically equivalent of five
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to 600 firefighters.
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We figured, oh, they're all in there, all gone.
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All the police officers, Port Authority police,
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NYPD police, court officers just up the street
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from the courts, transit cops from the train tunnels.
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Like, just, you know, we knew everybody was going there,
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and now they're gone.
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So what you saw, what were we looking at?
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What did it look like?
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So you saw rubble, and then you knew that many, that 105
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and 201, many of those guys are in the, they're dead.
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Yeah, and we thought 114 was in there, too.
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We didn't realize at that point.
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We didn't even realize that they had gotten under that truck.
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We thought they were all gone.
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But yeah, it looked like, it looked like a movie scene
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with just end of the earth destruction.
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It's just massive piles of intertwined steel,
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what was left of the steel.
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And you know, there was no cement.
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It was all just dust.
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And it was just a burning pile of dust and concrete
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And it was just, everything was just pulverized.
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And it was truly hard to mentally compute that.
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Like, it was like, what?
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And then there was just fighter jets, a couple of fighter jets
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And you just heard them flying by over your head.
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I mean, you'd literally see the guy banking
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a turn around a Brooklyn bridge and just coming back.
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And I'm like, holy shoot, we're under attack?
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And we couldn't really get concrete intel
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as to what exactly we knew planes.
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But then we kept hearing there was multiple devices.
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There was devices in a battery tunnel.
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And there was devices on a George Washington bridge
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and in the subways.
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And it was just chaos.
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It was, I mean, we kept it together, obviously,
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because that's kind of, we try.
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That's what we do.
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But the just constant barrage of different reports,
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it was like, holy shoot.
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And then as we were being deployed,
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it was a little frustrating.
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But they were trying to take command and send us
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in groups now because they realized
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we have to start searching this.
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You could hear the alarms on the Scott Air Mask, the packs
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we wear to go into the building.
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It has a motion alarm.
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And if you stop moving for 30 seconds,
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it just sounds like this whining, just screaming bell.
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And it just keeps going and going.
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And you could hear multiple units of those going off.
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And you're like, wait a minute.
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There's guys with those.
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And it's emanating from underneath the pile.
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And it was just surreal and truly like a war zone.
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I mean, I was a soldier in the reserves.
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And I never saw combat.
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And I would never claim that I did.
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We trained for a lot of situations.
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And we trained in real life atmospheres and whatnot.
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And this was just beyond that by leaps and bounds.
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Did you see the towers collapse?
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As we were coming over the bridge,
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the first one, as we were deploying from the firehouse,
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we had a television on.
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And I saw it go down.
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And we were so involved in getting gear together
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and getting teams set up and, OK, you're
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going to be with these two guys.
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And I just yelled, there's the guys.
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And they're looking at me.
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I dropped to my knees.
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And I started praying.
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They're like, what the hell's wrong?
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I said, I couldn't even say.
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I was like, 114, they're in there.
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And they're like, what?
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I said, the tower's gone.
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And all you saw on the TV was just this pile of dust.
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And I guess because they didn't see it going down,
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they probably thought I truly lost it.
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And then the realization came.
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It was like, wow, the tower's down.
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So now it was like, wow, this is really on.
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So we just took off and got that boss.
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And so if you thought many of the guys on 114 were dead,
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if you thought that, did you think you were going to die?
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I mean, if you're rushing towards the rubble?
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As crazy as it sounds, I never thought that the other tower
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I said, OK, maybe some freak chance that one went down.
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But no, the other one's not going to go.
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They're built so strong.
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I was in those towers so many times.
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I mean, I ate dinner up in the top floor restaurant windows
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And I'm saying, nah, there's no way.
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Like, how the hell did this one happen?
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But I was having a hard time mentally processing
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that the building was gone.
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And believe me, if you don't have fear in this industry
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and police, fire, military, then you're kidding yourself
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or you're a danger to everyone.
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I don't care who it is, as tough as they are, this and that.
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Everybody has a certain level of fear
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And I don't care how long you do it,
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there's always that chance of something going bad.
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And everyone who does it has that certain amount of fear.
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But at that point, it was such a feeling of disbelief
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that fear wasn't even kicking in.
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It was just like, what the hell just happened?
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And I honestly think it was almost like a shock.
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And it just stayed that whole day.
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So the building is, before it collapses, is burning.
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It's just burning.
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I mean, upper floors, up in the 78th, up to the 80s.
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And then the way that the cut was from the plane,
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it wasn't just straight across.
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It was from the 78th, then on up to maybe the 86th.
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And then the jet fuel had come down and was burning down.
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And there was people on the ground
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who were doused with jet fuel that was already burning.
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And they were lit on fire on the ground.
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It was just insane how vast the destruction path was.
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As a firefighter, what are you supposed
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to do with that scale of fire?
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I think the first bosses in, the first chiefs,
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were just going to do their best to get,
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as we get hose lines, what our whole theory is,
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or our tactics is, to get water at the fire,
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at the base of the fire, and get the truck company,
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which is the ladder company.
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They're the guys who break the doors down, put ladders up,
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this and that, to get them to where the life is most
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expected and get them out of there.
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So I think the chiefs tactics at that point
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was, let me get multiple engine companies.
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Let me get four, five, six hose lines
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fighting this fire, this massive fire.
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And let me get 15, 20 truck companies up there just
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yoking people out of there.
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Yeah, but you got to go up the stair.
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Everything's not working.
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Yeah, guys had to walk up 80, 80, 90, 100 flights of stairs.
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And there's audio of officers and firefighters
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speaking to each other on the radio channels.
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And unfortunately, at that point in time,
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we had very, very bad communication system.
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We'd been fighting for years to get radios
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that work properly.
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We couldn't because it was a lot of money.
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We fought for years to get the full bunker firefighting
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suits, which is the pants and the coat.
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We used to have just coats and these roll up rubber boots
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and guys were burning to death and we had to fight.
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And unfortunately we lost three guys
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in one vicious, vicious fire in 1994.
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And then they finally said, enough's enough.
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Give these guys the gear.
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So it's a strange phenomenon in the first responder world
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and in the military world.
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It's really one of the most important things
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that takes place in society.
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The most pertinent organizations.
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And we can't get the funding we need.
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They'll throw money at every nonsensical thing.
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But when it comes to gear, equipment,
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protective equipment, trucks, this couldn't get it.
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Just all the ways you could take care of people.
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I saw since 9 11, the wars in the Middle East
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have cost America over six trillion dollars.
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And the amount of that money that was spent
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on the soldiers, in this case the first responders,
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Compared to it, yeah.
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They, Lex, they closed down.
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I believe it's either seven or eight.
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In May of 2002, they closed down nine firehouses
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in New York City for budget reasons.
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We hadn't even finished cleaning up
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the World Trade Center site and they slashed the budget.
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And still to this day, have not reopened those firehouses.
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There's a million more people now living in New York City
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than there were in 2001.
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And the fire protection is way less than it was.
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It's really a sin.
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Can I ask you a difficult question?
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So there's this famous photograph of a falling man.
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So many people had to decide when they're above the fire,
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in the fire, whether to jump out of the building
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or to burn to death.
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What do you make of that decision?
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What do you make of that situation?
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Those people who jumped,
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those were acts of sheer desperation.
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I've been in fires and just minor burns,
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but minor in situation.
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But I've been trapped, caught somewhat.
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Ended up in a burn center for nothing serious at all.
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But for those brief seconds, half a minute was,
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thank God, if I didn't have my fire gear on,
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I would have been burned to a very, very horrible level.
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Those people were burning alive.
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And they had the choice of either to stay there
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and burn alive or to launch themselves.
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And some of them, I don't fault them,
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but they had a few folks, they won't show it anymore
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because they say, I don't know why it offends some people,
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but they had a couple folks that took umbrellas
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and they took garbage bags
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because they thought that it would slow down
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their acceleration rate to the ground
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and maybe, just maybe they wouldn't be killed.
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And that's, to me, a true sense of desperation for humanity
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to say, I'm going to die either way,
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but let me take my chance.
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And I don't know the exact number of those folks
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who did that, but our first member of the fire department
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killed firefighter Daniel Serf, aged 216,
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was struck by a jumper.
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And one of my dear friends was ordered to help take him
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and they knew he was passed away
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because he was hit by a flying missile.
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I mean, 120 miles an hour, a body lands on you.
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Those two bodies are now crushed.
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And they were ordered to take that firefighter
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and bring him across the street to Engine 10, Ladder 10.
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It was literally a firehouse, less than 100 yards
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from the facade of the Trade Center,
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from the Trade Center complex.
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They were literally right there.
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And there was plane parts that went into that firehouse,
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landed into the front doors onto the roof,
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but the building itself was not destroyed.
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So it was used as a mini command center for quite a while.
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So my friend was ordered to take Daniel's body
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in respect and bring it over to this firehouse
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and give it some semblance of dignity
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and lay it out on one of the bunk rooms,
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the bunks we have in the bunkhouse,
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and just cover it with a sheet and put a sign,
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please firefighter killed, do not disturb,
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and then we'll get to him later
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because obviously this operation is gonna go on for days.
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And my friend, who's such a great, wonderful guy,
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is so still to this day, filled with guilt
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because if they weren't taking his body out
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with the respect and dignity that they did,
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it took a while because it's a tough situation.
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His ladder company was coming over the bridge.
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There's a famous picture of Ladder 118.
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You see this tractor trailer fire truck.
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It's the one when the guy in the back also drives.
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And it's a zoomed out shot, and you see the Brooklyn Bridge,
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and you see only the fire truck in the middle,
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and you see the two burning towers in the distance.
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Well, his engine company was just ahead of them
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on the bridge, and the only reason that engine company lived
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is their initial duty assignment
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was to take that firefighter and bring his body over.
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It's like the military.
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We don't leave anyone behind.
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These are our guys.
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As some guys say, it's all about the guy right next to you,
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and nothing else really matters.
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When that guy right next to you goes down, it stops.
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You get that guy to safety,
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or if he's dead, you get him out.
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So in that time frame, that saved his life.
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But that's a heavy burden to carry now
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for the rest of your life,
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because you say, if I wasn't helping my dead friend,
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What did it look like at Ground Zero?
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What did it feel like?
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What did it smell like?
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What, you said there was a sense
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that it was almost like a war zone,
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but can you paint a picture of how much dust is in the air?
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How many people are there?
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And again, how did it feel like?
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It was just, it was a scene of controlled chaos,
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controlled because there was a semblance of command,
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and we were just trying to do our jobs.
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But it was such a frantic pace
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because we're now digging frantically,
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knowing that there's life underneath this pile.
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And this is throughout the afternoon
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of that day, the evening.
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Yeah, I mean, this was nonstop,
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just nonstop, really, for days.
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But for my particular crew, we literally kept going.
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We initially were dispatched over towards number seven,
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had just gone down,
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and we were searching the post office that was there.
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There was reports of people trapped.
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And we painstakingly searched every single inch
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of that building to make sure no one was left in there.
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And then we were deployed to the pile,
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and the pile is sort of ambiguous
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because it was just such a vast, vast pile.
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I mean, it went for city blocks.
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And we were assisting in the retrieval
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of two Port Authority police officers.
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We're lucky enough to survive, but they were trapped.
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They were deep down into a crevasse,
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and they had to be physically dug out and extricated.
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So there was a couple hundred, few hundred guys involved
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in that process of bringing in equipment,
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jaws of life, airbags to lift steel,
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to cut pieces of steel.
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It was just a huge operation.
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And we were back toward the logistics end of it,
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shuttling in gear and bringing in stretchers,
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bringing in oxygen, whatever was needed.
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And you were trying to climb over
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this jagged pile of debris.
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It wasn't like you just walked 100 feet
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on a street with something.
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You were trying to climb over this I beam
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and then down into this hole and then back up that hole.
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I mean, just to run one piece of equipment
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took a half an hour to get 100 feet, 200 feet.
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You know, mind you, some of these pieces of equipment
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are 100 pounds, you know, generator for hearse tools,
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this massive motor on a frame.
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Unstable ground, just horrible conditions.
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Fires were still burning aside you, beneath you.
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And at one point, I kind of veered off to the side
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and I was with this other fireman
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from my father's old ladder company, 172.
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And it was strange because we were quite a bit down,
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like 70 feet down into this ravine of debris.
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And he says, brother, what do you hear?
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And at the time it was like dust,
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it was like sand just falling down a pile
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and it was hissing from gas pipes and water pipes.
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And I said, I hear the gas lines,
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I hear the sand, I hear the concrete.
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He goes, no, no, what else do you hear?
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And just the side of us was a lady's pocketbook
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and a high heel shoe and someone's sneaker
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with nobody with it.
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And I said, I don't know, I don't hear anything.
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He says, me neither.
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He goes, no one's coming out of here.
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And I said, no, no, no,
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there's gotta be someone coming out of here.
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I mean, there's just thousands of people in here
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and they're coming out.
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He says, brother, we would hear them calling for help,
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And I still at that point thought there was a chance.
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And after about the fourth day,
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they just said, this is a recovery now.
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There's no more life, there's no more chance.
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And then that first night we went full tilt
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till my crew, my specific crew of 12, 15 guys.
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And four in the morning, we just couldn't breathe anymore.
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We couldn't see, we were caked just with,
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it was like if you took flour
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and just kept dousing yourself.
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And the Lieutenant just said, look, guys,
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we're gonna go back, we're gonna get some medical aid
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and then we'll come back in a few hours.
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And we took a city bus back through the battery tunnel
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and unbeknownst to us that morning,
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this off duty firefighter,
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Steven Siller from Squad Company One,
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he raced down there with his pickup
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and he couldn't go any further
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because the traffic was stopped up
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because they had a report of a bomb.
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So everything was held up and he grabbed his fire gear
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and he put it on, stuff weighs about 60 pounds.
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And he ran through the tunnel.
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Two and a half miles, got to the end of the tunnel,
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fire truck was coming in from the other way.
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He hopped on the back, got him up to West Street,
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jumped off, tried to look for his company,
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where they were and he was never seen again.
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He just ran through the tunnel.
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Ran through the tunnel and he got there
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to help his team, right?
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It's all about the team,
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it's all about the guy right next to you.
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And he's the Tunnel to Towers Foundation, Steven.
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His brother Frank decided in his name in perpetuity,
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he's got a fund that now builds a home
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for every Gold Star family,
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for every seriously battle wounded warrior,
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for every seriously wounded first responder
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or killed in a line of duty first responder.
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If they had a home, they'll pay the mortgage.
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If they didn't have a home, they give them a home.
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And especially if it's a severely battle wounded,
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they give them a smart home
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because these poor guys come home with no limbs.
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And so the beauty of Steven and his selfless act
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was that he's now helped thousands and thousands of people.
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I mean, the Tunnel to Towers is incredible.
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That's part of our mission is to bring awareness
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to these great people at Tunnel to Towers, what they do.
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They've raised $250 million to help protect the protectors,
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to rescue the rescuers in a what's become, unfortunately,
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a somewhat ungrateful society.
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But they will not forget these great guys.
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So you tell Steven's story.
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He's one of the 20 people that you talk about
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in the new Iron Labs 20 for 20 podcast series.
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If you can just linger on his story a little longer,
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what does that tell you about the human spirit?
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That this guy, the Tunnel couldn't drive through,
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so he just puts on that heavy pack and runs.
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What do you make of that?
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That shows the depth of a man's soul.
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He didn't have to do that.
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He could have turned around and went home to his family,
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and nobody would have shamed him.
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But he's one of those beautiful, brave people
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that take a job that really doesn't pay a lot of money.
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And you become a cop or a firefighter or a nurse or an EMT
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or a medic or a soldier or a Marine or airman, sailor.
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When you take these jobs, you don't do it for fanfare.
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You definitely don't do it for money.
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I mean, those 13 brave souls we lost a week or two ago
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in Afghanistan, they're brand new soldiers and Marines.
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They make $22,000 an hour,
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but they don't work 40 hours a week.
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They work 80, they work 90 hours a week.
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So they make it about six bucks an hour.
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And you know what?
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And firefighters and cops and medics and EMTs,
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nurses, emergency room doctors,
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they don't really make a lot of money.
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I mean, they're starting salary right now for a New York cop.
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I was a New York cop for two years first.
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I made 12.25 an hour back in 1989 to get shot at
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during the crack wars.
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If you made $11 an hour with a family of four,
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you were entitled to welfare back then.
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So I was just above the welfare level, risking my life.
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And these are the guys that are getting ripped up now.
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And look, I won't get into any politics,
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but like that says something about someone's soul
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that they're willing to take a job like that
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and get now, get zero respect.
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So a guy like Steven, what that shows is the depth
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of that man's soul and courage and determination.
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It's hard to be selfless in this world anymore,
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but I still know a lot of selfless people
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that just put on equipment every day, bulletproof vests,
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fire bunker gear, stethoscopes,
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you know, flak jackets, military helmets,
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and they go in and they do it smiling.
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That young Marine that passed last week,
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she was photographed and quoted as saying,
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I have my dream job,
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but she was holding a little Afghani baby.
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And she was dead a few days later.
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She was so thrilled to be making $7 an hour
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helping people, right?
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Like that to me says,
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that's a true sign of character right there.
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And it's important for our society
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to elevate those people as heroes.
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Let me ask you about firefighting.
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What do you think it means to be a great firefighter
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and a great man, a great human being
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in a situation like you were in in 9 11?
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You know, that's kind of a broad term.
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Like some, you know, you can go to different firehouses
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and they might have a different definition
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of what they consider a great firefighter.
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But I think in the industry as a whole,
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if you're willing to put everyone else before you,
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especially your team, you know,
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as we say, there ain't no I in team, right?
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It's T E A M and there's no I in there.
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It's all about those guys and girls next to you.
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If you can do that, that makes you pretty great.
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You put everything else second and you just run in
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and you run in with that team for strangers.
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You know, I've had the honor of,
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I spent almost 25 years of my adult life serving humanity,
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my country, my former city.
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And the people I worked with were giants.
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And I don't mean that in height,
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I mean, but I mean that in spirit and in soul.
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I saw some of the most heroic, selfless acts.
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And then I saw some of the behind the scenes
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that were so impressive.
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You know, we'd go to the movies,
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so impressive, you know, we'd go to a fire around Christmas
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and the family would lose everything.
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And even when I was a cop, same thing,
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you'd come back either to the police precinct
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or the firehouse or the EMS station.
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And someone would put together a collection and say,
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hey guys, hey Lex, 50 bucks a man,
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you know, the Smith's down the street,
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just lost everything, we're gonna go get some presents
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for the kids and some turkeys.
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And not one of those guys questioned that.
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And they were making 12.25 an hour
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and they still came up with 50 bucks for that family.
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But see, that's the stuff the press won't show you, right?
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They don't wanna show that humanity, that soft edge.
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See, when you're a warrior, you need to have
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this rough shield, this rough exterior.
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Cause if you don't, you die.
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But a true great firefighter or responder or a cop
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or military personnel, they have that rough exterior
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with that soft underbelly, that heart, right?
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And that's, to me, the true great ones.
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Some of them, they just have a hard time doing that.
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There's no shame in showing your soft side.
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Well, you got your dad to say I love you back.
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No, that was huge, man.
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That took me 22 years, Lex.
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So you were a firefighter for 21, I was 22 years.
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Why did you become a firefighter?
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Oh, my dad, I mean, I was five years old
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and I went to his firehouse and there was these,
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at the time, they looked like giants to me with mustaches
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and the trucks smelled like smoke and the gear smelled
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like smoke and the tires and the diesel fuel
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and that one was like, this is what I'm gonna do.
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And then they bring you in the kitchen
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and they stuff you with ice cream and cake and everything.
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And then I go home to my mom, shaking with a sugar cone
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and she's mad at my dad, but yeah, it was just,
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oh, I was like, I gotta do this.
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It was like, they were like a baseball team in a garage
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with a truck and these big tools and big coats and helmets
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and they were just laughing and having fun
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and I'm like, yeah, man, I'm doing this.
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And I knew, I was obsessed with it.
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I mean, I was so pissed that the fireman's test came out
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when I was 14 and I couldn't take it, you had to be 18.
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And it was done, the test was graded and whatever.
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So my dad, now there's a copy circulating
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because it's old now.
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And he goes, yeah, yeah, this is what you're in for.
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And I took it and I did it like it was real
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and I got a 99 and I was so pissed.
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I said, I wanna get hired.
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He goes, you can't, you're 14.
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But I just wanted to do it so bad
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and I just wanted to help people.
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I just wanted to be like my dad,
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he'd come home smiling as tired as he was
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and he fought fires in the 60s and 70s
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when the city was burning and he's still
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as exhausted as he was, he'd still be smiling.
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I wanted to smile at work and I used to,
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I got paid to laugh and joke.
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I got paid to cry sometimes.
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But man, we laughed a lot.
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We really, it was, the chop breaking is just,
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it's just unending and it's great.
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If you don't mind, can you tell me,
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you were really kind enough to give me
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one of these shirts with 114.
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Can you tell me the story of 114 and Tally Ho?
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I wear proudly, I served eight years in that command
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and I didn't finish my career there.
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I passed the lieutenant's test
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and once you do, you have to leave.
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The story behind Tally Ho is back in World War II,
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there was this gentleman named Bad Jack Carroll
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and Jack was an airborne ranger
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and my father in law was also on the department
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And Jack came home, Jack jumped Normandy
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and stormed up through the Battle of the Bulls in Bastogne
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and he came back, greatest generation as they all did
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and they got jobs and they went right to work
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and they were treated better back then, vets, right?
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And he got on the New York City Fire Department
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and he got assigned a ladder 114
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and they first got radios back then
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and when Jack, he would drive the truck,
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you're up there with the officer,
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either the lieutenant or captain,
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so if the boss is off the truck,
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you operate the radio for them as the driver.
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So when they called him and they'd say,
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you know, ladder 114 responding to 52nd Street,
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3rd Avenue, Structure Fire,
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you're supposed to get back and say,
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ladder 114, 10 four, but he refused to do that.
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He'd say, ladder 114, Tally Ho,
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because that's what they'd yell
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when they'd jump out the plane.
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So all these years later, it stuck
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and it's a little bit of a bragging right,
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but out of 350 engine and truck companies
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in the whole New York City Fire Department,
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we're pretty much the only one
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that's called by their nickname on the radio,
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So it tweaked some guys off in other places,
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you know, they may F you, Tally Ho,
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but it's just, yeah, it's a great, great heritage
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and we're really proud and Shamrock was,
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he was Irish and a lot of the guys back then
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were Irish immigrants from the area,
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from the neighborhood,
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and they would actually take the fire truck
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to church on Sunday and park out front
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and one guy would stay in it to hear the radio
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in case they got a call.
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So yeah, that's the proud history.
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And you said that if I wear this around New York,
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am I getting a little bit of?
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You might get a guy from the Bronx,
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go, hey, Tally Ho, screw you, you know?
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But I mean, it's all that good rivalry, you know?
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We like to, you know, we like to kid each other
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back and forth, you know, guys from Manhattan,
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we'll say, yeah, you guys are in Brooklyn,
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yeah, short buildings, tall stories.
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And they're like, yeah, you guys are in Manhattan,
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tall buildings, no stories, you know?
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Like it's just all that jocular ball break
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and it's good stuff, you know?
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Let me ask, I guess, a difficult question.
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If you just step back on the events of 9 11,
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on the side of the people that flew into the towers,
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what do you take away from that day about the nature,
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about human nature, about good and evil?
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How did that change your view of the world?
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I witnessed evil firsthand.
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I remember later on, well into that night
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when we were trying to help get those police officers out,
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I remember looking up at the building, Century 21,
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the store runs along the east side of the towers
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and it was still there and the debris had come down
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right almost to the edge.
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Century 21 is this old storied department store
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in New York City and the sign was there
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and it was still lit up, like some of the neon was broken
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but I think some of it was actually still lit up
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and I just looked around and I was like,
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this is a war zone, like we're at war.
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And we knew we were attacked, we heard the fighter planes
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and back then it wasn't the extensive communication
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network and we had cell phones but they were the old school
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flip phones and there was no news on them
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and so plus we didn't have signal down there anyway.
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I couldn't reach my family for like 12, 13 hours
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and my dad had deployed down to the ferry terminal
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to retrieve bodies.
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He was retired but he still went and they deployed him
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to go be basically the morgue transport guys.
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They expected to be sending hundreds and thousands
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of bodies across on the ferry and they set up
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these tractor trailers as a mobile morgue
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and that never happened because there were no bodies
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to take, they were all buried.
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So I saw evil firsthand, I don't know how someone
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can inflict such revenge or a vengeful act
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in the name of anything, in the name of a religion,
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in the name of a cause, in the name, like what the hell?
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Were you ever able to make sense of that,
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why men are able to commit such acts of terror
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in the days and the years after?
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No, Lex, I haven't.
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My mom's from Ireland and I still have a lot of family there
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and my great uncles, one of them was dragged out and shot.
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He lived but just based on a rumor that he was in the IRA
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and I wasn't happy to see what happened to my mom's people
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because they were victimized and brutalized
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by England at that time.
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But blowing up bombs and killing innocents
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in the name of that, it doesn't make it right.
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I couldn't justify something like that.
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I can see, I was a cop, I was a soldier
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and you never wanna take life and those jobs
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but sometimes you have to.
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But you don't do it with a vengeance,
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you don't do it with a thirst,
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you do it because it's necessary for survival.
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When you do it out of a bloodlust, out of a thirst,
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out of a cause, that's evil, there's something wrong
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with you, I have no, I respect life to the highest level.
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I mean, I'm very, life is sacred to me, it's precious,
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it's beyond, it's not a commodity, it's a gift.
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But to take life just so randomly,
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so there's something way wrong with that person
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and maybe I'm a conflicted soul
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but I would have no problem seeing someone like that
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put to death because they do not deserve life.
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There's many children around me
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and many children around this world
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that are being taught to hate someone
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who's different than them just because the person
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who's allegedly teaching them says so.
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I don't understand it.
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Well, that starts with just having a basic respect
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and appreciation of other human beings
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and that starts with empathy.
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And one of the reasons I love this country,
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while joking that I'm Russian, maybe you could say the same
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as you being Irish, you're actually truly an American
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and that's why I consider myself very much an American.
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And one of the reasons I love this country
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is it serves as a beacon.
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I still believe it serves as a beacon of hope
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and that empathy and love for the rest of the world
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that hate is not gonna get you far,
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that love will get you a lot farther.
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And I still think sometimes it's easy
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to see the press, mainstream media,
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you could see social networks.
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Because you can make so much money on division,
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sometimes because it makes so much money,
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it's easy to think like we're really divided.
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I honestly don't think we are.
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That's just like the very surface level thing
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we see on Twitter and so on.
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It's that you're 100% right.
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There's people out there that are maximizing
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off this whole division, right?
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They want us divided, they want people angry
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A lot of these people that are in charge
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of certain organizations, well, they all seem to have
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nice cars and nice houses and nice vacations
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and they're constantly trying to convince everybody
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that we hate each other.
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To me, I'll use a fireman analogy, right?
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It's like a little campfire.
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And if you just let the embers flutter, they'll go out.
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But if you take a little cup of gasoline with those embers,
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boom, it'll blow right up in your face.
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And that's what a lot of these politicians
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and a lot of these media folks are doing
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because there's something in it for them.
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And I think it's possible to defeat them
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with great leaders, with great spokespeople,
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with great human beings having a voice.
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One of the powerful things with the internet
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is more and more people have a voice.
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And I ultimately believe, certainly in America,
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but in the world, the good people outnumber the assholes.
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And there's days when I think the assholes
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are overrunning us, but you know what?
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I think what the downfall of the world is
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is ego and arrogance and people that think they're better
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than that other guy.
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My parents raised me to be this way.
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My mom is such a sweet, gentle soul.
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She's an immigrant.
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She came here at 16 years old.
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She helps everybody but herself, right?
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She's just one of those people.
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She's got Parkinson's.
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You'd never know it.
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And she's still flying around her condo complex
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helping everybody because that's what she does.
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She loves to help people.
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But she's been in their shoes.
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Her husband was sick.
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She's had all sorts of suffering and loss in her life.
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My granddad died when my mom was 10
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and she was one of 10 children that survived out of 14.
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She knows hard times, but she so appreciates the good times
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and the goodness of this country.
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You know, the fire department
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and the police department, military,
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it taught me a lot about empathy
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and trying to really feel for someone
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and put yourself in their situation.
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I remember years back, I was a much younger fireman.
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I was probably five years on the job.
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And I was sent down to the next firehouse over to fill in.
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You know, we would get sent around randomly
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when they needed an extra guy.
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And someone came banging on the firehouse door
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and in the tenement apartment next door,
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they said there was an older woman that was unconscious.
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So we dispatched ourselves
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and we ran over with a medical kit
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and it was an elderly woman laying there on the bed.
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And she was obviously not breathing.
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She was obviously in cardiac arrest
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and an older gentleman that was holding her hand,
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just inconsolably crying.
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And it turned out it was her husband
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and they were married for 65 years.
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And normally we would just respectfully ask
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the family members to just step aside
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and let us do our work.
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And I realized that he wouldn't leave her side.
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So I kind of gave the crew a wink
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and they were doing CPR on what they had to.
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And I just let him keep holding her hand.
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And I said, sir, if you, you know,
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could you just come over just a little bit so we can work?
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And I held his hand as he held hers.
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And I said, sir, I said, do you have faith?
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And I said, would you like to pray with me for your wife?
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And he said, I would like to.
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So we said the Lord's prayer
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and you know, I just asked God to protect her and bless her.
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And I think he realized that she didn't have a chance,
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but we still gave her that chance.
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And we, you know, got her in the ambulance
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and maybe it was wrong to try to make it look
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like we could save her, but you know,
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you can't really not try.
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But the one beautiful moment was he thanked me
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and he was almost okay with it at that point.
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Like he wasn't as upset.
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He wasn't as distraught because I tried to just humanize
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that situation of what we were trying to do.
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We were trying to do our best,
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but we also tried to be compassionate to his sadness.
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And it just, I walked away just feeling so good,
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even though it was a tragic situation.
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And she did pass that, you know, he came by to, you know,
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thank us days later and just heartbreaking.
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But you know, there's just, it's just happens many,
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many times throughout the country every day.
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People get that opportunity as a responder to be
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that last bridge to the family and the loved one.
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And you only get that opportunity once sometimes
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and you really have to, to me,
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it's like your moment to shine.
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You know, you could just be very,
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very dismissive and very rude,
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or you could be compassionate and just show,
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hey, I have a mom, I have a grandma, I have, you know,
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and just in your mind, pretend that that's
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who you're working on and that's who you're with.
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So that moment of compassion, that moment of empathy,
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even if his brief can be the thing that saves the person
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from suffering, make the difference between suffering
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and overcoming in the face of tragedy.
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Yes, like I felt that even though obviously his loss
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was still huge, it just made it a little more bearable
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and, you know, tried to just take his grief down
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to a lower level and it made me feel,
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just feel really good about doing it.
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That's a powerful way to see the job of a first responder.
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Of course, you have to deal with certain aspects
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of the tragedy, but it's to provide somebody
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with that moment of compassion.
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Yeah, and you know, I made it a little habit
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because sometimes with faith,
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it's a little bit of a tricky subject.
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So every time I had someone who died,
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which unfortunately was many, many times,
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I would just touch their hand
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and just say a little quick prayer and just say,
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look, you know, I hope you're moving on to a better place.
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I hope if you did have faith that it's strong as you depart
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and if you didn't have faith,
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I hope maybe at your last moment that you found some
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and you just found some closure.
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So that was just my little ritual, I think.
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I just, you know, I felt it was important
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that that person, even though they were a stranger,
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just had someone there just sort of hoping
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for the best for them in their last moments.
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You mentioned cancer.
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You had a rare leukemia due to all the work
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that you did at Ground Zero.
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Can you maybe talk to the experience
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of just breathing through those days
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and what that was like, being unable to breathe,
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being overwhelmed by all of the dust in the air?
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Yes, the first day especially, we didn't have equipment.
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We didn't have breathing apparatus
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and then we were handed little 69 cent
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hardware store dust mask, you know,
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it was a little thin paint mask
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that would just get sweated up
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and sticking to your face within 30 seconds.
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So you would just, they were useless.
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And what you wound up feeling like was
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that you swallowed a box of razor blades
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because there was glass and there was cement
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and it was just so caustic.
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And I remember that night, you know,
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when we went back just to get some medical relief
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for the few hours, we were walking up the hill
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to the firehouse because they dropped us off
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like a block away down at Engine 201's quarters
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and one of the older firemen as we're walking up the block,
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we're all struggling, we're all having a hard time breathing
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and just, I mean, I felt like I was dying,
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literally, it was pretty bad.
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And I just remember the one guy going out,
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And I said, no, no, we made it, we made it.
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He goes, no, you don't get it, kid.
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He said, we just breathed in poison after poison for hours
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and then that went into days and then went into months.
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He says, we're all dead, man, this is gonna take us all.
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And I thought he was crazy and then now years later,
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like starting in 03 or 04,
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guys just started coming down with these really rare
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and advanced cancers and then it just stopped
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being a coincidence with the number of guys
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and they were young, one of the first guys, John McNamara,
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he was 33 or 34 and he came down colon cancer
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and it took him quickly in 2000, he was in 2005.
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And I kind of said to friends and family,
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I said, I feel like I'm running through a minefield
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and I wonder when I'm gonna step on my mind
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because everybody's gonna get sick.
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And I wasn't feeling well from 2008 on,
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I couldn't put my finger on it, but I just wasn't right.
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And in 2011, I failed my medical,
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my bloods came back horrifically wrong
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and they pulled me off the truck,
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but they strung me out for a month,
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the doctors in the fire department,
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one of them said my spleen was engorged
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because I was probably drinking myself to death,
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like as he said, most of the guys did after 9 11,
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which was pretty wrong of him and stereotypical,
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just to stereotype and to categorize
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and guy couldn't have cared less,
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he just, he was so crude and nasty.
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And then my one doctor who was my doctor on the outside,
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my blood pressure was 240 over 140,
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my spleen was about to rupture,
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she didn't even show up for my appointment
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and I went down, passed out, the paramedics responded,
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she got into an argument with a paramedic
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because for big ego and basically telling him
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there wasn't really anything wrong
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and he's looking at my paperwork going,
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this guy's got leukemia and he overrode her,
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he raced me out of there down to Brooklyn Methodist
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and the doctor, the charge physician, the ER physician,
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he says, you're not leaving, you're in a bad way.
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And I said, what is it?
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He said, I need a little while to figure it out,
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he goes, but you probably have one of a few different types
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of leukemia, he said, I'll drill into your hip,
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take your marrow and find out.
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And he said, but in the meantime,
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we'll get the swelling on the spleen down,
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I guess some sort of rapid medicines and whatnot
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because my spleen is about to rupture.
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I had no blood platelets left which is your clotter
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so I basically would have bled to death
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and I found out from my team of doctors
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that I had about 48 hours to live
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and that really set me off, I was infuriated
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because I was telling them for a long time that I was sick.
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The doctors failed you,
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the few doctors in the beginning failed you.
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I felt very betrayed and other guys had died
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and I had it out with that one doctor,
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I basically told her she was fired from my case
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and she's pretty politically in charge person
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and I didn't care, I jeopardized my job for it
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because it was my life and I got the sense
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that it didn't really matter to her.
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She didn't have any empathy, as you say.
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It was exact, so why for her, why for a few others,
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was there not a special care, a special compassion
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for, first of all, all humans,
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but human beings in your position,
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especially a firefighter, a first responder?
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You know, Alex, I think what it is in the department,
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their title is just to get us back to duty
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as quickly as possible when we are either injured or sick
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because what happens then is your replacement
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is now in overtime so you're out being paid on medical leave
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but then they need to replace your spot
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and then that costs more money.
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So I think it just behooves them
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to get as many personnel back
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and especially during the summertime,
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they look at it like, oh, maybe you want a few extra days off
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to go to the beach and this one doctor,
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he tipped his hand back as if I was drinking
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an alcohol beverage, he says, hey, busy summer?
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Because I asked him to look at my spleen
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which was sticking out of my abdomen like a football
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and I said, excuse me, sir, I said,
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how dare you assume that I'm abusing alcohol
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because alcohol abuse sometimes will present itself
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as the spleen is engorged and having an issue.
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So he automatically just assumed that that was my situation,
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wouldn't even give me an exam and I was horrified.
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I was so angry, I mean, I wanted to punch this guy out
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and I literally was screaming at him
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and an executive officer came in to diffuse it
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and sent me to another doctor
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and when I showed her my paperwork, she was horrified.
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She was like, what did he say?
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And she said, oh, okay, go to your regular doctor tomorrow
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who was one of the department doctors
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and it was just an indifference.
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It was like, I don't know,
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I was shocked at the lack of compassion
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but you know what, that being said, I'm past it,
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The team of doctors, I ended up with a Methodist
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and my subsequent oncologist, Dr. Peter Menzel,
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world class, just incredible human being.
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My Dr. Pete is just, I love him.
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I just, I love him like a friend, like a big brother,
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like a father, like my primary oncology care nurse,
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Mike Nunez, was just an incredible human being
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and he knew I was frightened
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because I had to get two and a half years of chemo
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compressed into seven days or I was dead.
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And these massive bags of chemo that never stopped
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and they burned, the minute they went into your body,
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you felt like you were burning to death
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from the inside out.
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And Mike, when Mike came in to hook me up,
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he said, look, I have to wear a hazmat suit.
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This stuff is so caustic that if it drips,
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it'll burn whenever it touches.
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And I was like, but Mike, you're gonna put that in my body.
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How the hell is it not gonna kill me?
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He says, no, no, this is exactly what it's supposed to do.
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So when he prepped the IV tube to get it flowing,
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it spilled onto the tube
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and the tube started to smoke and burn.
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And I said, no effing way, Mike,
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you're not putting that in me.
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And he goes, listen, let me get another one.
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Let me start it over.
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And here he is wearing a hazmat suit, looking at me
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and I'm going, this is insane.
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And he goes, he looked at me, he took my hand
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and he says, Nels, if you don't take it, you're dead.
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He says, you got those three kids.
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I'm sorry, I have no other option.
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And I said, all right, Mike, okay.
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And he hooked me up.
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And you know what, it was like, you know,
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if you do drink alcohol and you have like a shot
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or want, you know, strong type spirit
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and you start feeling that burn.
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Well, the minute he hit me in the vein,
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it just started going up my arm, burning
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and then up my shoulder, across my neck, into my head,
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across the rest of my body,
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within a minute down to my feet.
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And I was writhing in pain for seven days
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and I was praying to die.
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I was the seventh rescuer in six months
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to come down with the rarest leukemia there is.
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There's only 500 cases in all of North America a year.
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And seven of us came down in six months.
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Two guys died during treatment.
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Seven responders, police, fire.
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Two guys died in the first couple of days of the treatment
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because it's so vicious, your liver, your heart,
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your kidneys, something will fail.
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And I was praying and I was praying, but I wanted to die.
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I was in so much pain.
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And I wouldn't take a painkiller
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because I know people with some issues
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and I just didn't want to go there.
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And finally on the last day I gave in,
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I said, please, I can't do this anymore.
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I was literally like jumping out of my skin
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and they gave me something.
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But it had burned out my mind, it burned out my body.
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I couldn't hear, I could barely see, it was vicious.
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And my nurses especially,
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they just, they were so dedicated and devoted.
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And I was not an easy patient
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because I was in a lot of pain.
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It was bad and it was, drove my friends, my family crazy.
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It was just, it wasn't good.
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But on that first night I had a quick vision
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of all these people that I loved that were dead, that died.
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A lot of them in a trade center and I saw Johnny,
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I saw friends I grew up with.
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The last one was my mother in law
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who had passed six months before and she died of,
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she was in a coma, she had a stroke.
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She had a horrible, horrible last six months of life
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and it wasn't fair because she was so religious.
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She went to church every day, devout Catholic woman.
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And all of a sudden I see her and she's smiling
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and we used to talk a lot, it's the Irish thing,
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like the gab, the gift of gab.
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And she used to call me her boyfriend
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because we'd sit and talk for hours
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and talk about books and about movies and about food.
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I loved her, she was my friend.
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And she'd say, you know, my boyfriend's here.
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And all of a sudden she's smiling
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and she goes, hi, my boyfriend.
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And I says, Nan, Nan, what are you doing?
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She goes, he's not ready, he doesn't want you.
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You gotta go back, you got things to do.
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And I'm like, no, Nan, Nan, it hurts so much.
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Please, please take me and she left.
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She goes, no, no, not yet, I'll see you.
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And she just faded away.
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And one of my doctors on my team,
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she had a problem with religion.
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And that's okay, I understand that.
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I'm not a preacher, I have a faith,
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but I don't preach it, I don't push it.
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I just live and let live.
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So she sent in this shrink to see me.
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And I was messed up from the chemo,
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but I knew what I was seeing, I knew what I was saying.
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And he was a Jewish gentleman.
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He was a rabbi also in a synagogue.
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And I actually had responded in that district
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and he knew 114 would run into Borough Park.
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Oh yeah, I see Tyler, oh, they come down the street.
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And he asked me to tell him the story and I did.
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And he started laughing and he scared me now.
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I says, Doc, am I really crazy?
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He said, I believe you, my friend.
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He said, we share the same God.
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He goes, we work in the same corporation,
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but in different departments.
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And he says, you did see your mother in law.
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He says, your faith is that strong.
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He said, I've had many patients
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express the same sentiments.
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He said, so I want you to listen to her
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and fight and be strong.
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And he said, so what else do you want to talk about?
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I said, well, I don't know, Doc, am I that messed up?
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He goes, they're paying me for an hour.
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It only took 20 minutes.
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So we watched the Yankee game together and that's less.
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But it was just, again, it showed the human condition.
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Here's these two men of two totally different faiths.
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And yet we shared that bond of faith.
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And he had empathy and he had sympathy.
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And he saw me in many other patients.
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So he just didn't assume.
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And he gave me a fair shake
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and I will always be grateful to him for that.
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Through any of this, the pain you had to go through
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with the leukemia, but also the days of 9 11
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and after, did your faith get challenged?
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You know, Lex, it was strange.
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It was times I was so angry.
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You know, there's that range of emotions,
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the anger, the denial, the depression, the this, the that.
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And this is the weirdest thing.
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It was mostly, I knew my career was over
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and they retired me out of the job.
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That, I got sick in August and that October,
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they told me I was out.
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And by the time I was processed and, you know,
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used up my leaves and whatever you want to say it was,
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I was officially retired in January of 02
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and it was less than six months.
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And I'm there walking my dog one day,
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my rescued Greyhound who I miss.
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She was such a soul.
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God, she lived to be almost 13, Katie.
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And we were walking in the snow and I got the call.
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I was retired and I looked at her and I'm like,
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Katie, what am I going to do?
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She just looked up and said, we're going to go
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on a lot more walks, you know?
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And I was so sad and I was so sad and I was so angry
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because I lost my priesthood.
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I loved helping people.
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I really, like I would have done it for free.
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I would never tell Mayor Bloomberg that, right?
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He's all about the buck, right?
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But like, you know, honestly,
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I would have been a New York City fireman.
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I would have paid them to do it, you know?
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And I wasn't allowed anymore.
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You have over 20 years and you have cancer.
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You know, back when my dad got sick,
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they'd let you hang around for 10, 12 years in an office,
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Now it's all about the bottom line.
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But I was more depressed about losing a job
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than almost losing my life.
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Like, as crazy as that sounds, you know?
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It was more than a job.
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I mean, it's a way of life.
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It also is your family, your father,
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your carrying torture, your father's...
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I love my friends.
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I love, we worked 24 hour shifts together.
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You cook, you clean, you break each other's jobs
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I mean, I love those guys so much.
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I mean, I hope that my kids
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and anyone that I know and care about,
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I hope they can experience the bond of that brotherhood
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that I experienced in my life.
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God, I would give anything to have it back.
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Can I ask you about New York?
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So unfortunately, I've never lived in New York.
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I've always wanted to live there for a bit.
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Obviously, it's a very different experience
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to have really lived in New York for many, many years.
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But there's a few friends of mine that are from...
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They got similar accent as yours.
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That are a little bit saddened.
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Perhaps it's temporary, but perhaps not.
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They don't seem to think so of what New York has become,
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especially with COVID.
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It's losing some of the spirit of New York.
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Do you have that sense?
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Do you have a hope for the city
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that has been so defining to what is America?
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My heart's broken.
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I had moved to New Jersey many years ago,
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but I still have a close attachment to New York.
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My parents are still there, many, many family members.
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And I've since now moved to Tennessee.
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I needed to go somewhere quiet.
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I wanted to heal my fractured soul.
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And I'm in the middle of a beautiful farming rural area
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in middle Tennessee.
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And so they probably called me a sellout
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back in New York for leaving,
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but it's not the same city and it's sad.
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I'll refrain from the politics and the finger pointing,
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but it's a mess compared to what it was.
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And I did Broadway theater security for many years,
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and I started to see it slide
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like with stuff that was happening,
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like public urination and defecation
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and just like tourists don't wanna see that, right?
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And I had an unfortunate incident two years ago.
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I was jumped by four teenagers coming off the subway
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and they were pissed off
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because I was wearing an American flag hat.
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And I don't know, I'm not really sure why,
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but it left me, I got out of it, okay.
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But I was taken back.
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They were literally videoing it
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and the kid was just throwing shadow punches at my face
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wanting to beat me up.
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And I finally looked him in the eyes and I was like,
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oh boy, I'm a little too old for this.
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Body's a little broken down for chemo.
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And I finally just said, all right, all right.
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I just had enough, I wanted to go home.
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Just worked a 17 hour shift as a stage hand.
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And I was so taken back, I was so insulted.
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I'm saying, I spent my life protecting this city
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and now I'm getting attacked like for nothing.
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And I just, I gave up
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and maybe I should have given it a little more time,
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but it's, I don't know, it's turned into an angry place.
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It's turned into, I think there's a lot of people
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that aren't getting the resources they need in a sense.
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There's a lot of mental illness.
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There's a lot of homelessness.
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There's a lot of violent people
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just roaming around the streets and it's not good.
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And tourists are not gonna come back.
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Even just leading up to the COVID,
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I had some tourists saying to me, I won't be back.
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And now I can only imagine
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that it's just gotten exponentially worse,
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but I hope there's a chance it'll swing back.
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Cause it is, it's the gateway to the world.
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I mean, my grandfather came from Denmark.
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He landed in Ellis Island in the twenties.
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American success story, 25 bucks in his pocket,
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didn't speak the language,
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had a sponsor family in Bay Ridge, Brooklyn.
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And he made it, you know, he ended up dying
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owning a bakery at one point and then an apartment building.
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And he did pretty well for himself
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for an immigrant who was poor.
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And my mom, my Irish mother landed in the same neighborhood,
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Bay Ridge, Brooklyn, 16 years old.
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Worked as a cashier 50, 60 hours a week in the supermarket
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and finished school at night.
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Married my father, the fireman,
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and, you know, lived the American dream.
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And it was all, it was all from New York.
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And my father's mom was from Irish immigrants
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and they all landed in Ellis Island.
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Well, my mom didn't cause it was closed at that point,
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but it's, there's people breaking down the doors
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to come to this country, right?
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There's no one breaking down the doors to leave.
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And this is, this is a problem I have
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with people that aren't grateful for being here.
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And this, again, it's not political,
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just straight down the middle fastball.
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If you don't like it here, I'll show you the door.
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I'll get you the plane ticket.
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I mean, would you want to live back in Russia
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Would you, you might because of family ties,
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but I mean, if you had no ties to Russia
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or would you want to go to China right now
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and possibly end up in a labor camp or, right?
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There's people busting down the doors to get to this place.
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It's got its flaws, it's got its blemishes, you know,
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but it's a damn great place.
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It's the best country in the world.
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Yeah, and some of it, so first of all,
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I have hope for New York.
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I think that culture is very difficult to kill.
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I think it will persevere.
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And I think ultimately the same story with New York
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as with the rest of the United States,
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it has to do with leaders.
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And I'm always hopeful that great leaders will emerge.
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And the kind of leadership we see now
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and the kind of conversations we have now,
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I think it has to do with the prosperity and comfort.
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And in the face of hardship,
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I think great leaders will emerge.
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And yeah, I just think ultimately
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in the long arc of history.
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Well, leaders shouldn't become rich.
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They shouldn't become rich in the process, right?
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You shouldn't go into political office
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as an alleged lunchbox kind of guy
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and then come out eating at the best steakhouse in the world.
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I mean, that's the problem with politics, right?
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My Irish grandmother, God rest her, used to say,
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oh, those politicians, they're all like dirty diapers.
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They're full of shit and they stink.
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I don't give a crap what party they're in.
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Yeah, greed and power.
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We had to beg these guys,
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beg them for federal legislation
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to cover our medical bills, right?
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There's a gentleman, John Field
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from the Feel Good Foundation.
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This guy is a lion of a man, a general,
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but with a soft, big, great heart.
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And John is a former construction worker
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who came to the 9.11 site the day after.
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He was one of those guys cutting the steel with torches
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and craning it out of the air.
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One of those hard hats that just,
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that never got the credit and the praise
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that we did as responders.
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And I don't mean that as a knock to responders, right?
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I mean, we lost 37 Port Authority police officers,
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about a dozen emergency medical technicians and paramedics,
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three court officers from New York State courts
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and two federal agents,
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and I hope, and 343 New York City firefighters.
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We lost a ton of responders.
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But the recovery workers,
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thankfully weren't killed in that process,
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but there's hundreds of them now who are dead from illnesses
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because they came down to recover our people
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and the civilians and the poor lost souls
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that were killed at work that day.
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And John literally almost lost his foot
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in a construction accident at the site.
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An 8,000 pound I beam tore off half of his foot,
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ended up with massive sepsis, six months in the hospital,
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hundreds of thousand dollars in medical bills,
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and then no one wanted to pay him.
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So here's a guy, he's gonna lose his house,
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lose his life, lose everything.
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And now the never forget, it started quick, right?
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And he went on a mission,
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formed his Feel Good Foundation.
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His last name is Feel, F E A L, Feel Good Foundation.
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And this man literally went to Washington, DC
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with his army, as he called it.
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And I was honored and blessed to be with him
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a couple, only a couple times.
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I wish I had dedicated some more time to it.
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And what it was with John is he set out on a mission
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to get, and initially what he did is he got funding
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to take care of responders who were in that limbo,
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who couldn't get their medical bills paid,
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who couldn't make their mortgages,
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who couldn't make their car payments,
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who couldn't make their childcare payments.
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And John just took it upon his own to get donations
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and take care of you while you were suffering, right?
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I got a call when I got out of hospital.
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You need anything?
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I said, who is this?
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I said, aren't you that constructor?
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Yeah, you need anything?
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I'm pretty good right now.
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I said, I appreciate it.
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Phone ring again a few weeks later.
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Hey, John Feel, you need anything?
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I'm like, this guy's incredible.
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But there's people who needed stuff
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and he was getting it done.
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And he, with his army, had to chase these politicians
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through the halls of Congress
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to get funding to cover the medical bills.
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I was getting sued for $125,000
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for my month stay in the cancer ward.
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And I couldn't believe it.
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I said, well, wait a minute, I have insurance.
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They're like, oh, no, no, this is terrorism related.
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We don't cover that.
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So usually then workers comp will cover
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your on duty injury or illness.
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Oh, no, no, no, leukemia is not covered under that.
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We don't cover that.
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So then the ping pong game starts
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and I'm literally have people showing up,
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taking pictures of my kids in front of the house.
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And I went and grabbed the guy one day by the collar.
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So who the hell are you?
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Sir, I'm a private investigator.
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We're putting a lien on this property
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due to a nonpayment of a bill.
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I said, okay, I understand.
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Let me bring my kids inside.
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Take all the pictures you want.
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Don't step on my front lawn.
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And I went in the house.
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I closed my room, my door, my door, my room, and I cried.
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I said, I can't believe this.
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I spent my entire adult life trying to help people,
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give of myself, and I can't even get my medical bill paid.
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Well, John Field got my medical bill paid.
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He finally got these politicians with his team,
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firefighter Ray Pfeiffer, who has since died,
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fought with terminal cancer for nine years in a wheelchair.
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Literally at the end, came out of hospice
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to go finalize getting us this coverage.
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Detective Luis Alvarez, who testified days before he died
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in front of Congress, and a bunch of other guys
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that were really, really sick,
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and we had to shame these people into signing on.
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And luckily we had John Stewart come on
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and literally just hound these guys
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and shame them and embarrass them.
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And what it all stemmed from was in 2006,
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the first death that was determined to be linked to 9 11,
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but the first one that was officially linked
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was a New York City police detective who initially,
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the city said he died of advanced lung disease.
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His lungs were protruding out of his body.
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And he was on painkillers and it was so bad at the end
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that the doctor said, just grind them up, snort them,
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drink it, whatever you need to do to get instant relief.
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So when they found the talcum
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from the pill lining in his lungs,
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they said, oh no, this is opiate abuse.
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He didn't die of lung disease.
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So they said, and the mayor was quoted as saying,
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Well, shame on you, Mr. Mayor.
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And his father, who was a retired police chief,
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married up with the Feel Good Foundation
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and John Stewart and Ray Pfeiffer, Detective Alvarez.
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And they got us all covered.
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But it took so long.
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Like it was so heartbreaking.
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These people who were lining up three deep politicians,
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three deep to catch a picture with a responder
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so they can tweet, hashtag never forget
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and hashtag look at me and hey, how am I doing?
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All that bull crap.
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They were nowhere to be freaking found.
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I literally witnessed them hiding in cloak rooms,
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running down hallways away from us, those freaking cowards.
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Can I just linger on the John Stewart thing,
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the comedian, actor, John Stewart,
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his testimony before Congress over the benefits
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for 9 11 first responders.
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I mean, there's a lot of important human beings
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in the story, but he has a big voice.
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And he spoke from the heart.
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What do you make of that testimony?
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Oh, it was heartfelt.
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Look, I mean, John was a polarizing guy, right?
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There's certain things like over the years,
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he was cutting edge and I might not have agreed
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with all of his, you know, some stuff, some not, right?
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You know, like we all, but I tell you,
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I found him as funny.
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I enjoyed his humor.
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I would love the two of you to have a conversation.
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No, but again, I love a guy where you can have,
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you can have a difference in opinions.
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That's the beautiful thing about the firehouse kitchen.
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I mean, it could get raucous and now, I don't know,
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it's a little different situation,
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but I mean, back in the day, some funny stuff.
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But yeah, John, John literally just took his talents.
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You would think he was speaking from the heart
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of a fireman or a cop or a soldier or a Marine,
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you know, someone who was there.
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But I think he especially got to know Ray so well
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and Ray had this stack of mask cards from, you know,
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the funeral cards they give out.
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It looks like, you know, a larger business card
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And Ray had a stack of them he would carry around.
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I think it was close to a hundred cards
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and John saw it and he said, what's that?
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He says, these are my cards.
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He said, for what?
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He says, for my brother's funerals.
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He was like, oh my God, you've been to that many funerals?
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He goes, yeah, this is just the ones I made.
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Like, you know, and John, I think was just stunned.
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And John actually had that stack of cards
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after Ray passed and like said, look, look at these.
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There's gonna be more of these cards.
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We have one guy a week or girl,
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one responder or a recovery worker
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or someone who actually resided down there.
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There's more than one a week dying.
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It's one a day dying on average.
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And on average, two people are diagnosed
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with a 9 11 cancer or disease.
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Right now, the worst part is
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there's autoimmune diseases flying off the graph
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and they're not covered under the legislation.
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By the grace of God, my cancer is covered.
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If my cancer comes back, I mean, I'm in remission.
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It's technically incurable, but I've been blessed
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I'm staying ahead of this stuff going on 10 years.
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But if it comes back with a vengeance tomorrow and takes me,
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at least my wife will get my pension
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and be able to live her life without fear.
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But my friends who are suffering
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from these advanced autoimmunes, their wives get nothing.
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Their pension dies with them.
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And we're hoping that John and his army
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can shame these politicians once again
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to have the kindness and decency to cover these autoimmunes.
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You know, they're throwing a lot of money around
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at a lot of things lately.
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And this is one that they won't.
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And these are lives in the balance who really need it.
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And John had this strong line.
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They did their jobs, do yours, talking to the politicians.
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And it's a strong wake up call
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that it's not about the Twitter or the social media
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or all that kind of stuff.
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You have a job to do and you have to,
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it's that compassion implemented in the form of money
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of helping people that were there for you
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when you needed help.
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Well, we had a guy, I mean,
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I might get audited out of this one, I hope not,
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but we had a Congressman from out West,
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I won't say where, but he prided himself on saying
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he was a retired cop, a busy cop, 22 years.
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He said no on the legislation.
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I witnessed a cop who was dying get out of his wheelchair
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and said, hey brother, I got a half a million dollars
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in medical bills and I'm a short timer.
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I got a few months to live.
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Who the F is gonna pay him?
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Do the right thing.
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You say you're a cop, you show me you're a cop
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and you sign that paper.
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And the guy started tearing up the Congressman
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and he signed it, but he had to be freaking shamed.
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And you know what he said?
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Well, this doesn't really confront me.
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This is pork as far as my district is concerned.
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He goes, oh yeah, do you know there's 10 guys
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from your district who came across the country
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to help us that are also dying?
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And that's the sad part about Alex.
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It's a failure in leadership.
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I think some people would vote for Mickey Mouse
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just because if he ran.
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I mean, I have no offense against Mickey Mouse.
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I like him, he's a good guy, right?
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I mean, but like, I mean.
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Allegedly, supposedly.
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But seriously, I look at some of the leaderships sometimes
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and go, we're in trouble.
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And also you lose, I think the way government
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is structured is people who are senators
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or people who are in Congress,
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they start playing a game between each other
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and they lose track of the connection to the people,
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to the basic humanity.
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So you forget, even when you think of yourself as a cop,
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you forget what are like the cops and the other people
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servicing the community actually experiencing
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all the troubles they're going through
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and how they can actually be helped
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because you lose touch to that
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because you're not actually living,
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you're not talking to them, you're not living among them.
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And I mean, that's a natural part of the system,
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but I think that's why character and great leadership
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is important is you say you leave the game of Congress
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and you go back to the people.
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I mean, that's what the country,
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it's like the George Washington ideal
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is you're not playing a game of power.
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You're ultimately see yourself as somebody who's servicing
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this country's service in the community
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and that requires talking to the people
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in their time of hardship.
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Well, you have some people serving
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in congressional districts don't even live in that district.
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I mean, so how are they gonna empathize?
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They're not even driving through there on a daily basis.
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And again, when anything becomes lucrative
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from a financial standpoint, it blurs people's vision.
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You have to take the potential
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of becoming rich out of politics.
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Politics is public service.
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Police and fire and EMS are public service,
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but cops and firemen and medics don't walk out
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of their career with gazillion dollar contracts
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with this company and that company
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on that board of directors and this board of directors.
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They walk out with a pension and that's it.
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And you have to wonder the intentions
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of people getting into politics.
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Are they truly going into to help the human condition
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or are they trying to help their own damn condition
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with their wallet and their pocketbook?
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And I try to lean toward the latter lately
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with what I'm seeing out there.
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Well, some of them are the good ones
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and that's our job as a society is to elevate the good ones.
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That's it and that has to do with the ideals that we elevate.
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There are a number of conspiracy theories
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around the events of 9 11.
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Do any of these hold true to you
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or do they just frustrate you, even anger you?
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I've been asked this by a few different people in my life.
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This is my take on it, right?
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You're a man of science and a man of education.
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Allegedly, but yes, but you're a very, very intelligent man.
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And what I believe took place is this.
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Structural steel will fail
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at a sustained temperature of 1500 degrees Fahrenheit.
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And I don't know exactly how long
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that would have to be sustained, but that's the temp, right?
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Diesel fuel, kerosene fuel, kerosene based jet fuel,
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which was the ignition there burns
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at 2200 degrees Fahrenheit.
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So that continued burning of that diesel, that jet fuel,
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but kerosene based, it's all kind of similar
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exceeded the temperature needed for that steel
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in the structural members of the trade center to fail.
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In my heart of hearts, I would hate to ever think
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that somebody affiliated with our government
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with some sort of agenda would perpetrate that crime
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and that tragic just destruction of humanity and property
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for some other form of gain.
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Those planes rammed into those buildings
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at 450 miles an hour.
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They were loaded with thousands and thousands
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of gallons of jet fuel.
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Number seven trade center had the backup
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for the emergency management system for the city.
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And it was an emergency generator in that complex
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which had a 25,000 gallon tank of diesel fuel
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to continually run for weeks to keep the 911 system,
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the backup system going in the case of a catastrophic event.
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Well, that tank in seven heated up from the fire
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that was already going on from the aircraft debris
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coming into the building.
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So once that diesel became ignited in seven,
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now you had enough temperature to fail that steel
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So I would like to truly believe what I've learned
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from the minimal fire science knowledge I have
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from my career, that it was just a matter of,
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it burned too long, it burned too hot and it failed.
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I mean, if you look at the way it came down,
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it came down as it was designed to
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in the God forbid event that it was to collapse.
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It came down pancaking upon itself.
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If it had failed horizontally
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and just sprayed out side to side,
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those buildings would have dropped for a quarter,
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half a mile up to Canal Street.
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But you know, Lex, I can't.
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The fire and the destruction that could have resulted.
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Yeah, oh my gosh, it could have been so much worse.
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I mean, you would have taken out every building
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from that point all the way up.
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But in my heart, I'd like to just believe
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that it was just a fire that burned too long and too hot.
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These planes cause structural damage upon impact
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in both buildings and it was just a matter of time.
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And then you think about it, you add all the plastics,
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all the carpeting, all of the stuff
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that was burning on those floors.
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You add that to that fire load.
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I think it just had enough to collapse it.
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And you were in building seven for part of that day.
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I was just after it came down as well.
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We were aside it and we weren't in it or next to it
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when it actually did come down.
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But moments after we were there.
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And again, I would like to believe that it just,
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it was just that that fuel was going
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and it just took its physics, took its course and it failed.
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So physics and science aside, it's hard.
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It's both I would like to believe
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and it's hard to imagine that anybody would be so evil
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as to orchestrate parts of this
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from within the United States government.
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That's very difficult for me to imagine.
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You know what though, Lex, there's people
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and I won't elaborate, I won't get into it.
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Any controversial subjects or what have you.
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There's some people that don't have any problem at all
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perpetrating any level of evil.
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People like you and I who have hearts
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and we have depth of soul.
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We couldn't imagine it, but there's other people
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wouldn't even be a second thought.
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I mean, I've seen some horrific incidents in my career
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that I go home shaking my head at night going,
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human beings are just, they're not wired right.
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You know, I mean, I look at animals, I love animals,
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I love dogs especially, right.
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And I see this dog park when I train to fly airplanes now
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and something I wanted to do.
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And there's a dog park across from the airport
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and there's 60 dogs and there's bones flying up in the air
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and chew toys and sticks and they're running around
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having the time of their life, right.
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And they're all getting along
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and they're not hurting each other.
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They're not violating each other.
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They're not canceling each other.
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And I'm going, we really need to learn from these dogs.
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And like, I just, yeah.
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I mean, sometimes it sounds crazy,
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but I think they're a better species than people.
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Unless they're rabid, they don't hurt on purpose.
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They don't, you know, they don't cut you off in traffic
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and throw you the middle finger.
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And you know, they just don't do these acts of humanity
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that sometimes are so vicious.
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Why do you think these conspiracy theories
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of which there's a lot take hold?
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Why do you think so many people believe
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some version of different conspiracy theories around 9 11?
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Well, you know, like many things in life,
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it leaves me a little conflicted.
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I have to say this, I am at the point now,
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I don't know who to believe anymore.
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So I could see that lending a hand to someone
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who's already a doubter going, oh yeah, look,
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exactly, that's what they're doing, right.
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I mean, you know, look at this whole virus.
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Like, who do you believe?
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Like, where'd it come from?
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You know, like, and you know, if you plant that seed,
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it's like that little campfire
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we were talking about earlier, right?
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You just toss a little gas into those embers.
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You got a fire now.
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I also think there's a lot of people
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with a hell of a lot of extra time on their hands, right?
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And they're really bored.
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And the two are combined.
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Alex, yeah, man, you know, like, look,
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I was a three job Charlie, right?
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You know, one guy used to say to me, anything but home.
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I go, no, I got deadlines, responsibilities.
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You know, like, that's what it comes down to is like,
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I mean, look, we all have our hobbies and things we like
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and, you know, little nuances.
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And that's what makes us special.
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Every person is a unique being.
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But I also think some people just,
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they want to cling to something.
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Like, we all want to feel accepted and belong to something.
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So all of a sudden you group up with these people
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and you all believe this fervently.
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Like, yeah, yeah, yeah, you know, they did it.
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They took it down.
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They took it down.
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And now you start going, yeah.
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And I think what happens is when you're in company of people
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and you start telling each other the same thing often,
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you freaking believe it.
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I mean, if you keep telling me I got a gray head of hair,
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I'm going to go, you know what?
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I got that waving bye bye do.
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But like, but you know,
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I think when you start hearing something often,
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you start believing it.
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But I'm not going to,
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I'm not going to doubt their intelligence.
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I'm not going to doubt their intentions,
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but I just don't see it as being plausible.
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I just, I, it would be too,
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too big of an operation to successfully happen.
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I, you know, I mean, look, there's other things that,
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you know, I won't say it on the interview there,
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but like I have my doubts with certain things,
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you know, that, that.
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I mean, conspiracy theories take hold for a reason.
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Cause some of them are true.
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The hard thing is just to know which ones is the problem.
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When you don't have facts, right?
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Or you don't know who to trust.
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Sometimes when you don't have facts,
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when you don't have figures and you don't have science,
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it's hard to take someone's word on it.
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You know, I had a conversation
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with someone a while back, right?
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And the guy's like, just, just dedicated atheist.
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And he thinks I'm an idiot for believing in God.
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And he's like, yo, you're one of those jerks
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who believes in creation.
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And I said, well, I do.
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Well, what about the big bang theory?
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He's going on his diatribe about the science
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and the gases and the chemistry.
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And I'm going, dude,
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I barely got through high school chemistry, slow down.
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And he went on a tangent and all of a sudden I stopped.
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I went, who, who created the gas and the molecules
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and the stuff you're talking about and the collisions?
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And he was furious and stoned off.
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And again, I had no facts.
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He didn't either, but I stumped him.
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But sometimes when you can't show something,
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people need to see something tangible.
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They need to see it in their hand to believe it.
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And that's the real hard thing about faith.
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I see it in action.
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People restore my faith.
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And then I say to myself, well,
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there can't be that many dummies in this world
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if there's so many billions of us believing
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in this higher power, this higher, right?
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I mean, and you said, you said earlier,
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like you believe most people are good and I do too.
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The bad outshine the good because the bad get the press.
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If it bleeds, it leads.
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That's just, you know, like, think about it.
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How many more damn zombie apocalypse movies can we make?
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I didn't even know there was that many zombies.
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And it just seems like every other show
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is just guys like, you know,
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bashing each other's heads in with bats with nails in it.
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And it's like, after a while, it's like,
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all right, gosh, you gotta get a new boogeyman here.
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Like, but seriously, like.
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But meanwhile, human civilization
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is getting better and better.
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We're just like making Hollywood movies.
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No, we're getting better and better,
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but we're treating each other worse and worse.
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You would think with all this technology
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and all the knowledge and all the,
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it's like, what the hell is going on sometimes?
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Like, I really want to see the good.
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And I think maybe, maybe the level of bad
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that we're seeing was always existent.
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It's just now everything is instantaneous news
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and flashes and tweets and this and this.
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Like, like, you know.
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Well, with the technology we have,
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it's also come to the light.
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So you get to see all these fights.
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It almost, I think that's step one
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of dealing with the problem is revealing it
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in its full beautiful light.
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How much of a bickering species we are.
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50 years ago, a guy like me who loves to talk,
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how the hell would I have gotten an opportunity
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to have someone listen to me and have, right?
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But like, but you didn't have that arena.
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You didn't have all these things.
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My grandfather, Nels, God rest him, he died in 1979.
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I mean, that dude didn't even want to have
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a checking account.
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He would walk to each store, each, the phone company,
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the gas company, this company, and pay the bill in person.
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He didn't trust the bank.
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And it was like, now, ATMs, this, that,
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he would be overwhelmed.
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He'd be just like, I mean, I love my dad,
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but to watch him on his iPad is comical, right?
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He calls my niece's boyfriend, who's a tech guy,
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Matt, Matt, if you listen, he's the greatest.
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He'll have this poor guy on the phone for like hours.
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Like the second you'll walk in to see my father, my kids,
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hey, do me a favor, you fucking straighten out this pad.
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And it's comical because I'm looking at my dad
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and I'm going, he was born when Hitler started World War II.
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And I'm going, he's seen all of that.
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Oh, my wife's grandmother was born in 1900 in Czechoslovakia
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and she died in 1998.
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I'm going, holy, the stuff she saw in the span of her life,
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just, it's just incredible.
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But what troubles me sometimes is with all of these advances
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and all these devices, this is what I say to my kids,
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look up from the phone and look up, right?
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Because we don't talk anymore.
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I saw a girl literally, and I shouldn't say girl, guy,
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whatever, I saw a person literally just about walking
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to an open manhole cover texting.
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And I'm going, that's scary
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because your awareness is gone.
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And it's, I've been at restaurants, groups of people
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and they're texting, they're texting each other
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just sitting on the other side of the table.
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I'm like, put the freaking thing down
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and have a conversation.
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And that's the thing, we've lost the art of conversation.
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You know, like, my wife runs, she has this running joke.
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She goes, there's a lot going on up there.
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And I'm like, yeah, because I really, I'm inquisitive.
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I'm excited about life.
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I love to meet people.
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I love, and the only way you can do that
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is to have a conversation.
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The hilarious thing about this,
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so you're obviously very charismatic.
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You got great stories.
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You're a great human being.
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And you're talking to a guy who spent most of his life
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behind a computer hiding from people.
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No, no, and I don't.
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But we're like trying to bridge this.
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Right, but I don't mean that as a rip,
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but you, I would never know that.
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I would never know that because you're very engaging.
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You're very, like, I would not know,
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like you don't have any impediments
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to your social skills, your personal, and that's,
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and again, I don't mean it as a knock to you
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and these young people.
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Well, no, but this is me trying to look up
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from a smartphone is having these conversations,
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talking to people.
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I think it's important.
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I mean, some of it could be, it's always hard to know.
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Some of it could be just you and I being old school,
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because you grew up before the internet.
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Maybe there is joy and deep human connection
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to be discovered inside the smartphone.
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We don't, it doesn't seem that way,
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because the smartphone's so new,
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maybe we just haven't figured out those things,
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because there's a globalizing aspect.
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There's a opportunity for you to connect with people
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from across the world in ways that.
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I have cousins in Ireland and England.
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I get a FaceTime or a WhatsApp and it's like, holy crap,
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they're, you know, three, 4,000 miles away
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and I'm having a conversation now.
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I used to send my grandma in Ireland a letter.
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She passed when I was 10.
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And, no, I'm sorry, I was 11.
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And I sent her a letter, airmailed,
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and I'd wait and I'd wait, and about two weeks later,
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this airmail letter would come back
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and she'd call me Master Nils William Jorgensen.
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I would be so excited, open that bad letter.
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Handwritten, just like. Yeah, and like,
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and then I'd write her another one
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and I just couldn't wait for letters from granny.
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And now it's like, you know, that's kind of faded away.
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Yeah, I still write letters, by the way, handwritten.
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The way this all came about was I wrote a letter
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to someone to say thank you for cancer research.
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I'm blessed to be alive.
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That's a good starting point for any story.
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I'm blessed to be alive.
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And my cancer was one that if I got it 15 years prior
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to 19, excuse me, 2011, I was a dead man, right?
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15, 20 years before there was no drug to treat.
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I was gone, going home to see him.
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So there's this wonderful gentleman
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that donated hundreds of millions of dollars
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to cancer research, Mr. David Koch.
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He's since, God rest his soul, passed away.
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And he's a controversial guy, big time business titan.
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And, you know, there was,
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the press was just brutalizing him one day
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over something to do with his politics.
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Now, I'm a union guy, proudly served in unions,
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still in a union, you know?
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And he was not, you know,
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most business guys don't like unions, right?
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But, you know, most guys like me don't like working
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for $3 an hour, so we like our unions, right?
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And I reached out across the table, so to speak,
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and I sent him a handwritten letter to thank him,
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to say, we may not agree on everything,
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but I can't thank you enough.
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There's just this regular dude out there
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who is now living his life, watching his kids grow.
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Thanks to generous people like you
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who believe enough in cancer research, you've saved my life.
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Maybe, I can't say his exact dollars, but people like him.
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And he reached back out and his secretary said,
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oh, he'd like to talk to you on the phone.
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I go, well, he's kind of a busy guy,
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he wants to talk to me, he's a billionaire.
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And he got on the phone,
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he was like the greatest guy in the world.
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Invited me up to Sloan Kettering
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to dedicate a new cancer wing.
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It was like I was hanging out with my dad.
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And the sweetest man, just so kind, so empathy,
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because he was a cancer survivor.
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But now he's got the means to help people
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who've suffered his fate to a better place.
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And he was so real and it was so beautiful
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just to get to know, say, hey, you know what?
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This guy is a big time guy,
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but yeah, he's just a regular human like you and I.
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I'm a guy who went to night college and I went to the army
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and I'm a blue collar kind of dude.
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And here's this guy who went to MIT, like you,
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and he's a wildly successful billionaire, a genius.
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But yet he can sit down and mix it up with me
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and know that I was truly grateful.
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And that to me was just like one of the coolest
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little relationships I've ever had.
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It wasn't like we were hanging out,
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having barbecues together, but like, you know,
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it was just, I was so touched by his decency.
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Well, the basics of the, like cancer reveals, you know,
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it's like fundamental to the human experience.
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It's trauma, it's tragedy.
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It's like money, who gives a shit about money?
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Education, all of that is like weird new inventions.
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You know, life is short.
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You suffer with the various diseases.
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And that is a reminder that life is short
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and a reminder of the basic human connection.
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And that's why you can bridge that gap.
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All sparked by a handwritten letter,
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which just makes for a hell of a story.
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And you know what, Lex?
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This is the commonality between us.
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A guy with three jobs to a billionaire.
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We both had that sense of a sledgehammer to the chest.
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Boom, you have cancer and you can't breathe
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for like 30 seconds.
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And then when your heart's just about to kick off
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and you take a breath and you go, I'm sorry,
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what'd you say, doc?
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And it don't matter what kind.
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One of my best buddies, Bobby's going through right now,
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a prostate, and I got way too many of my buddies
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with cancer, right?
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My buddy, Hugh, who became a vet since his first cancer,
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he was a fireman, he's now a veterinarian, right?
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He diagnosed me actually over the phone, by the way.
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When they couldn't figure out what was wrong with me.
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Well, Dr. Hugh, he nailed it to the T.
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And the same thing that the dozen of my close friends
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that have cancer, the same thing we say is the fear.
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So Mr. Koch and I, we shared that same sledgehammer
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to the chest and that same fear.
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And it didn't matter how much money he had
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and how much I didn't.
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And you know, it's just like the morning of the trade center.
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There was big time brokers who went to their demise, right?
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Working in these firms, God rest them.
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And there was dishwashers, excuse me,
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dishwashers up on the windows on the world restaurant
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on the 107th floor, making five bucks an hour.
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And they died together, it didn't matter.
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It didn't matter if you had an armored car
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loaded with bills, you were done that day.
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And that's, I think where people need
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to humanize each other.
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Just because you drive around in a nice car
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and you got your own jet and you got this and you got that,
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don't mean nothing.
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When you're going, when you're in that vulnerable spot,
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you could have more money than the US reserves.
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Federal reserve, or you could have a welfare check.
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I learned that in a cancer ward.
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I had people in my ward that died on me.
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I was going around as a little bit of an ambassador
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because I was trying to, I was putting on a fake,
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I was putting on a fake like I got this, I got this.
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But when I got past that seven days of torture
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and the days leading up to it,
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I'd go around and try to comfort the other cancer patients.
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I had this one older African American gentleman,
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he couldn't talk because he had
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such advanced throat cancer.
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He was my roommate for a little while,
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but then he got worse so they had to put him by himself.
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And you couldn't understand what he was saying
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because his throat was just so radiated from the radiation.
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But if you put your ear down to him,
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you could make out what he was saying.
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And I'm not faulting the nurses
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for maybe not wanting to do that, right?
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They're busy, they got a ton going on,
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they can't spend, you know.
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So if he was in need, I'd put my ear down
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and I'd find out and I'd go get it for him.
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So when they moved me down the hall,
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they asked me to come down with my IV tower.
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And I knew it was bad because he just, his look was gone.
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And I said, sir, what do you need?
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And he whispered, call my sister, I'm going.
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He had only one survivor in his whole life.
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And she was in North Carolina and he wanted her to know
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she couldn't get up, she was elderly.
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And I got the nurse and I got on the phone
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and I called his sister and I said, ma'm,
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I explained who I was.
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And I said, he can't really talk.
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He can't really verbalize too well right now,
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but he wants to say he loves you.
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And I put the phone down and he told her he loved her
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and he said, I'm going home.
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And I hung the phone up and I said, ma'm, I'm so sorry.
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I said, you know, they'll notify you.
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And I stayed with him for a while holding his hand
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and then, you know, they wanted him to rest.
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And then I left and then I got the tap an hour later
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and they said, I'm sorry, he's gone.
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And then there was another girl and she was a young girl
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from one of the areas I work, young African American girl
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where I used to respond and I didn't know her,
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but I knew her neighborhood.
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And she had what I had, but they weren't sure which one.
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You know, leukemias, they're an elusive beast.
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There's 49 of them, right?
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And each one of them is like,
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they got their own little nuances,
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own specific treatments.
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So if they don't know what you have,
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they don't know what to do for you.
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And she refused to let him drill into her hip
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to take the marrow because it's vicious.
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It's like someone born into your hip with a wood drill
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And they asked me to try to convince her
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to let them do that or she was gonna die.
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Cause if they couldn't figure it out, it was advancing quickly.
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She was, so I talked to her and she said,
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I can't, I can't, I'm too scared.
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I said, but are you more scared to die?
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And she said, I am.
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I said, okay, I'll stay with you.
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I'll hold your hand.
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You squeeze it as hard as you want.
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I said, if you want, they'll give you like a towel
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or something to bite on, whatever.
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I said, but you get that pain out,
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but you need to do this so you can get saved.
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And she said, okay.
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And they came in and they, this huge thick needle,
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they just bore it into you.
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And she's screaming for her life
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and she's squeezing my fingers so hard and so hard.
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And I said, that's okay, hon.
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You keep going, you keep going.
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It's just 10 more seconds, 10 more seconds.
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They figured out her treatment
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and they got her onto her road to recovery.
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And then I spent a long time asking God, why do I have cancer?
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Then I stopped and I went, wait a minute.
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I didn't die that day with my friends.
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Shame on me for asking them why I have cancer.
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I had 10 years after 9 11 with such great ears.
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And I got to watch my little girl being born
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when John never got to see his son.
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So it was all gravy after that.
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And I said, but now I know why I have my cancer
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because I can empathize with people who have it.
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And I can try to be their voice when they can't talk,
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be their shield to try to take that pain
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because I can understand, I can walk their walk.
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And now I thank God for my cancer
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because it's made me a better human being.
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It's made me, I'm not gonna lie,
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it brought a lot of anger for a while
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and my family suffered it,
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but I really tried to go past that and heal
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and part of living out in the country.
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It's very, very healing for the mind and the soul.
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But I now thank God for the cancer
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because it humbled me.
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I didn't really need humbling.
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I wasn't an arrogant puffed up type of person at all,
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but maybe I was running away at myself a little bit
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and working on a TV show, I'm fine, man.
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30 at the time, well, I was 42, I got sick.
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Life was cruising, man, it was great.
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And then all of a sudden it was like a blow out
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on the highway in the middle of the night
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and you were just veering off towards the guardrail.
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Yeah, you remembered, you're reminded that you're mortal
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and that's ultimately a connection to all the rest of us.
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Oh yeah, it's a good thing though,
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because that's the problem, I think.
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There's a lot of people running around
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and thinking they're immortal, right?
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You know, when you look at it, Lex, right?
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You look at the heartache in a lot of segments of people
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and anytime like someone that's got fame and wealth
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and success and they die tragically,
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a lot of times it's from a substance abuse
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or just some horrible death.
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And I used to say to myself,
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how the hell would someone with that much money
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and that much fame and this freaking mansion
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and I love cars, my son and I are just big car heads,
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you know, I'm like, you know, this guy's got a collection
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of cars and he overdosed because he was sad.
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And I'm going, how the frig are you sad?
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But then I stop and I go, okay,
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because maybe he doesn't have any idea who loves him.
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He's got a lot of people clinging onto him
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because of his success.
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And he just, he can't fill that void, you know?
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And then they fill the void with something destructive.
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And I'm not bashing people that have substance abuse
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problems or alcohol problems, I don't mean it that way.
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But what I mean is it's just sad that their level
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of despair is so high, on the surface,
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they look like they just got everything going on.
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It's all great, right?
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They're still human, still got to deal with the same.
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Yeah, exactly, because they want love, right?
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They want love and they can't really find it.
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Well, first of all, that's true for all of us.
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I think we're deeply lonely and looking for love
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and when we find it, that's what friendship is.
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And then that's true for whether you're super rich
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or super poor, it's all the same journey.
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My dad said all the time, kid, you're gonna end up
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working with hundreds of guys and you'll love a lot of them
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but he says when it's all said and done
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and you're all like me and if you've still got
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two or three of them that you talk to and you'll love.
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And I tell you what, I mean, I have thanked the Lord
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more than two or three of them and I have my six,
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I call it my six, it's the six guys that are gonna
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carry my coffin when I'm gone, right?
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Because I know this cancer's gonna come back, I know it.
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Like we get multiples, right?
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My friend Yvette just got his second.
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My friend Mike's had five of them.
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My other Mike has two of them, yeah.
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But I wasn't ready to accept it in 2011.
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There was so much more to do and it was so much,
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I was so scared, I'm like wow, who's gonna take care
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of my kids and who, you know, they were little.
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Nine, 11 and 14, right?
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It's like what the hell, I have two girls and a boy
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in between and they're beautiful kids.
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They're such good, good children, adults now.
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I mean, but you know, my wife's a drill sergeant,
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she's tough, she don't mess, you know, she's this big.
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So you're the softy in the family, I'm just kidding.
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Well, you know, it's funny because my son said to me,
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my son's 21 now, he's a good kid, you know.
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And he says to me, back when he was like 12,
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he goes, dad, I don't want you to be offended
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but I'm really scared of mom,
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I'm not really that scared of you.
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And you know, like I cracked up because it's true,
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she's gotta stand on like a milk crate to reach him
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because you know, she's tiny and he's tall,
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but it's true, but you know, but she was hard but fair,
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but loved, that's, see, this is the thing,
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you take any child anywhere from any background,
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if you love them, you nurture them,
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you teach them and you guide them,
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you have a successful adult.
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And see, that's the problem in our society,
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it's not judgmental, I'm not judging anyone,
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but we need to try harder as parents
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as siblings, as friends,
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but especially when we're blessed with a child,
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it's like, you gotta put that child first,
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it's like being a military personal responder,
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it's not about you anymore, now it's the team.
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So that little child is now the team
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and you know, your wife or your significant other,
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you know, like it's not about you anymore.
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And see, that's the problem is people have a hard time
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not making it about them, you know,
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like now it's really weird, my kids are 19, 21 and 24
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and they hardly wanna hang with me
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because they're busy in their life, we love each other,
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they're probably tired of hearing me go on
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and you know, preach and whatever,
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but like, but they're adults,
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we did pretty much the crux of what we had to do
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to put them into adulthood.
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And I look back and I go, wow,
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I wish I didn't work so much and I wish,
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but then I say, no, but it was okay,
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my wife stayed home, good lessons, good, you know,
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But ultimately, like you said, it's love.
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It is, it's the common,
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love is the most important ingredient on this earth
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and that's the problem what's going on right now,
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like take politics out of it, right?
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Take polarizing each other against each other,
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take all that crap out of it
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and just airdrop a bunch of love, right?
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Like when I worked on Rescuing Me, right?
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I love those people so much, they were such great,
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we had such a great crew and they worked so hard.
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You're a celebrity.
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No, no, no, not at all.
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If I was, it didn't really work out so good.
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I went on to be in the stagehand,
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no, I'm not pretty, but they don't want old guys
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waving bye bye hairdos, but it was funny,
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the crew, we became really tight,
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we had like, shoot, like 80, 90 people on a set, right?
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And you know, the first few episodes,
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everybody's trying to feel each other out
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because you know, you work with different crews,
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different people and this is going back,
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starting in 2004, so it was a different time
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and I love to hug people
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because to me, a hug is a true expression
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of love and caring.
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You may not know a person a long time,
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but you say, I care about you with a hug.
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Can I add just a tiny tangent?
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This was in the midst of COVID when I was in Boston
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and it was, you know, masks, like triple masks, nobody.
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And when I went to see Joe here
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when he was trying to convince me to move to Austin,
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Joe Rogan, and then the first time I see him,
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he's like, ah, you motherfucking big ass hug.
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And it felt so good.
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But people probably looked horrified.
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Oh, okay, I know what I'm saying,
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but if you do it in public now,
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it's like you committed.
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But that expression, because I was so,
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you forget how powerful that is.
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Oh, I got some of my buddies.
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I give them a huge hug and a big sloppy kiss on their cheek
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and I, cause I love them.
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They, these are my brothers, you know?
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But on this set, I swear to God, it got to the point
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and I'm not trying to whatever,
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but there was people that would come up to me
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for the daily hug.
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And I said, what are you doing?
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And they said, come on, bring it in.
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And I give them the hug and they said, you don't understand.
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It just makes me feel so good.
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It makes me feel like you give a crap about me.
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I said, I really do.
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I said, but it touched my heart
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that people were seeking me out
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to get that hug to start the day.
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And I remember there was a guy in Manhattan,
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he was selling hugs for like 50 cents
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and I think he got arrested, right?
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It was just before COVID.
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But like, I wouldn't sell them if, but now.
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You've given them away for free.
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Well, now I got leukemia.
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I'd be kind of concerned to get into COVID.
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I mean, but like, I really think we need that.
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We need hugging booths, like in each city or each town.
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Like, because there's so many people
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that just want to know someone gives a shit about them.
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And that's the problem.
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It's like, like, you know,
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that's what I love about small little towns
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like where I am now in Tennessee.
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And I'm not knocking New York.
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I'm not knocking big towns,
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but I guess it's easier to do in a smaller area
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because it's just not this mass of humanity.
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But they'll stop and check on you.
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Like you're out in the road and you know,
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like I'm cutting and cleaning or whatever.
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Occasionally I'll roll a lawnmower or a tractor
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into a ditch cause I'm not a farmer, too good.
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But it's easier to drive a fire truck in New York.
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But they literally, oh, I was worried.
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I haven't seen you.
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And I'm like, no, no, I'm okay.
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But they literally like check on you.
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They're worried about you.
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And I'm going, these people hardly know me,
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but yet they're so caring.
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And that's the problem.
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Like this is what I love about my life.
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I spent a lot of time as, especially as a young boy
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and a lot of time in Ireland at my grandma's farm.
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And my mom comes from this tiny, tiny little village.
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She's out in the middle of nowhere.
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And the childhood home she grew up in still,
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my aunt and uncle live in it still.
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I just love it there so much.
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Cause everyone waves.
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Tennessee's similar.
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They wave, driving by and you're like,
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who the hell's that?
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I just wave, you know.
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But my cousin will point it out.
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Actually third cousin, second removed by, you know, Johnny.
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Like, holy shoot, I'm related to everyone here, right?
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But like everyone stops to say hello and how are you?
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And I have a problem doing that because my wife goes,
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people think you're crazy.
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Why are you talking to everybody?
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I said, like, I'll literally stop someone and say,
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how's your day going?
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Like, I mean, I'll randomly on the sidewalk.
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Then it looks a little nuts.
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But like, if I'm buying a cup of coffee.
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Oh, that happens here in Austin all the time.
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That's why I love it here on the sidewalk randomly.
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Yeah, no, it's just so nice.
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They'll say hi to me.
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I thought they recognized me or something.
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I don't give a shit who you are.
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They're just being nice.
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I was on the road coming back,
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driving from my family up north down to Tennessee last week.
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I stopped in a bathroom and it was closed.
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The girl was cleaning it, whatever.
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She's working so hard, whatever.
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And she goes, sir, she goes,
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if you go down the hall, there's a family restroom.
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Feel free to use it.
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You know, she didn't have to do that.
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And I went down and I'm old.
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You need a bathroom, you need a bathroom, right?
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And I walked back out and I said, ma'm,
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I said, I want to thank you for being here today.
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I says, the bathroom was immaculate.
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It was, it was like my army bathroom in the barracks.
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It was spotless, right?
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And I gave her $10.
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I said, I'd really like you to buy lunch with me today.
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I said, you really didn't have to do me that favor.
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And she goes, no, sir.
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And it was like I gave her a million bucks.
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And I say to my wife now,
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I've been praying to be a billionaire.
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She goes, that's a sin.
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I said, no, no, you don't understand, right?
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She goes, oh, you're Mr., you know, Mr. God.
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I said, no, no, no.
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I said, you're getting it wrong.
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I said, I'm praying to be like a multi gazillionaire
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because I want to give it all away.
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We used to have a sign in ladder 114
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until some other rival truck company stole it, right?
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Cause that's what we do.
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You know, they get sent to cover your district
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when you're at a fire and now your stuff's missing.
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And the old timers had a sign that says, I am content.
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Because if you got to ladder 114,
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that was considered such a great place,
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such a great assignment, such great guys.
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You had to be vetted to get there.
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You couldn't just randomly go.
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And it was a little exclusionary, but they wanted good guys.
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And I said to myself, that's who I am in life right now.
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I am content, but I'm restless
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because I want to really do a lot more good.
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It's like this podcast.
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I want to make sure that it's not forgotten.
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And I want to make sure that these charities
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that are really, really helping people get recognized.
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But I'd like to take it a step further, right?
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A friend of mine runs this foundation
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for young folks suffering mental illness and in crisis.
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It's for someone that we love dearly.
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And he's on a mission now to get therapy dogs
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for really, really mentally wounded warriors, right?
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A lot of these young soldiers are having a really hard time.
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And now they could be out a while.
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They may have come back in country two, three years ago.
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Now it's just starting to set in.
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And there's a waiting list for thousands of therapy dogs.
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And he said that they can't get enough of them quick enough.
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But he said, when you see the response,
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the way these veterans just light up
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when they get these dogs,
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it just changes their life radically, immediately.
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And I said, that's it.
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God, I don't know how I'm going to do it,
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but I want to be a gazillionaire.
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And I don't want any picture, photo ops, this, that.
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I just want to go, there's a dog, there's a dog,
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there's a dog, there's a dog.
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And then I want to build veterans land
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for these vets who just need a nice clean place to live.
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So why don't we take these old army bases
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and Marine bases and Navy bases that have been shut down.
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They're just sitting there rotting away.
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I was in the army in Alabama.
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My old Fort McClellan is three quarters vacant.
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It's sitting there.
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They just did a documentary on it.
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It just looks like zombie land going back to zombies.
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So why don't we take that and renovate it
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and say to vets who are struggling,
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hey guys, you're going to live here.
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And they take the old army,
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the places where they had all the supplies,
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there's massive buildings where you could just retrofit it
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and make light manufacturing within two weeks.
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Give these guys jobs.
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There they live, there they work.
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They'll take care of it.
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Military guys, they teach you how to take care of stuff.
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How the hell in this country should any vet
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come back home and be homeless?
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Because now they have to dedicate their lives
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for six, seven, 10, 12 years,
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five, six deployments making $7.50 an hour.
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And then they spend seven years
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or they get a whopping $16 an hour.
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They walk out making 35 grand.
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And now no one gives them a job.
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No one gives them a chance.
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So very quickly they end up homeless
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by no fault of their own.
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And I don't know how that's even possible.
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The people in this country who've given the very most
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and they're struggling, they're hurting.
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And my whole thing is if I can have this dream
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of succeeding, so to speak, I want to try to change it.
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So that's why I'm praying to be a billionaire.
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My Irish mother probably wouldn't agree either
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because you're not supposed to, right?
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Well, I'm the same with you.
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The more money you have, the more you're able to help.
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Yeah, you can put smiles on people's faces.
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I have to ask you, the US invaded Afghanistan
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in October, 2001 in response to terror attacks.
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Now 20 years later, we still had a presence
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and abruptly withdrew all troops.
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What do you think about this war across the world
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that was sparked by this tragedy?
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Whenever you do something quickly without thinking it out,
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thinking it through and planning, it doesn't succeed.
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I understand that we needed to exit.
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I mean, how long were you gonna stay over there?
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And we've lost over 7,000 of our young souls over there.
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For sometimes people, I don't know if they're grateful
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for it or not, right?
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I mean, I don't know.
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So there's the other element, and sorry to interrupt.
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One is the financial of $6 trillion
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and that money is not just money, it's education,
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it's everything, it's money that could have gone towards,
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first of all, the first responders,
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but all the servicemen and women of all kinds
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throughout this country.
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And then there's the other side,
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which is the over 800,000 people who died
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in direct result of this conflict.
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So not just the American side of the troops,
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but just people who died, those humans.
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And those humans, many of them civilians,
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that's spreading hate, especially if you have leaders
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on the other side who frame the death of those civilians
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in certain ways that just spreads hate throughout the world.
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And so you think about this kind of 20 year saga
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and think, what are the ways that money could be spent better
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and what was the way that we could have spread more love
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in the world versus hate?
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And you wonder, but then the other side, what is it?
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I'm not sure who says this line,
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but it's something like we sleep at night
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because there's a rough men out there
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ready to fight for you.
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There is some sense in which we have to make sure
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that there's strength coupled with the love, right?
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Otherwise evil men will do evil onto the world.
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So it's a very difficult decision,
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but then you look at the final picture
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and it's like, what have we gotten for this $6 trillion?