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David Wolpe: Judaism | Lex Fridman Podcast #270


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The following is a conversation with Rabbi David Wolpe, someone who I have been a fan
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of for many years, for the kindness in his heart, the strength of his character, and
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the kind of friends he keeps and talks with, many of whom disagree with him but love him
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nevertheless, including the late Christopher Hitchens.
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I will have many conversations like these in the future about religion, about Islam,
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Christianity, Judaism, Hinduism, Buddhism, and others, looking to understand and celebrate
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the culture, the tradition, and the beauty of the people who practice these religions.
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I will of course not shy away from the difficult topics.
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I will talk both about hate and love, about war and peace.
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This conversation was recorded more than three weeks ago.
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Please allow me this time to speak on what has been on my mind.
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If this is not interesting to you, please skip, I totally understand.
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Some people asked me to say a few words on the war in Ukraine.
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I think my words are worth little, but perhaps let me try.
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I considered doing a long solo episode on this war.
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I tried several times, but it is too personal for now.
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To give you context, I've been talking to refugees, friends, loved ones, in Ukraine,
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in Russia, in Poland, Slovakia, Moldova, Romania, even UK, Germany, Canada, India, China, and
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of course the United States.
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Some of them crying, or angry, or confused, or scared.
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I'm helping as best as I can privately, and I'm hoping to help in the future by traveling
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to Ukraine and Russia and celebrating the humanity and the beauty of the people in this
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region.
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This was all set up both for Ukraine and Russia trips before 2022, including conversations
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with scientists, artists, athletes, leaders, and just, quote, regular folks, who are equally
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if not more fascinating to me.
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For now, it has become much more difficult, but I'll keep trying to find a way.
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I was born in the Soviet Union.
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My roots are both Ukrainian and Russian.
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From today and until the day I die, I am an American.
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I'm proud of all of this.
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I hope to keep celebrating the culture and the incredible human beings that make up these
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nations and humanity as a whole.
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We're all one people.
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We're in this together.
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That's how I feel about the people of these nations.
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Now let me speak about those in the seats of power.
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I condemn all actions of leaders who play geopolitical games on the world stage disregarding
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the costs paid in human suffering on the scale of millions.
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For this reason, I condemn Vladimir Putin's invasion of Ukraine.
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And I condemn many of the military interventions by the superpowers of the world, including
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by my country, the country I love, the United States, that after World War II has intervened
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in over 40 nations with many studies finding that the United States is culpable for an
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unfathomable number of civilian deaths.
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I condemn all heads of state who needlessly wage wars, watching young men and women burn
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in the fires they started.
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I don't understand how humans can be so cruel to each other, or rather I understand, but
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I believe in a future world where this is no longer true.
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Let me also say a few words of what I hope to do with this podcast.
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I want to explore the full complexity and beauty of human nature.
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I believe each of us are capable of good and evil, and I want to understand how the mind
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and the circumstance lead one to choose the former path or the latter.
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And I believe conversation is one of the best ways to work toward this understanding.
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For that, I think I have to not only talk to the most inspiring humans in the world,
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but also to the most controversial.
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I will speak with many people who I disagree with, politicians, activists, CEOs, heads
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of state, with very different opinions on the world.
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I will try hard to challenge their ideas without closing my mind to the depth and complexity
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of their perspective and their humanity.
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My presence in the same room with wildly different people will make it easy for the media and
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the internet to pick and choose clips and snapshots attacking me for being a shill for
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one side or the other.
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I can't defend this point, except to say that I'm a shill for no one, and that I
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hope you see the strength of my integrity, that I won't be influenced by any of them
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no matter how rich, powerful, or charismatic they are.
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Like the poem If by Roger Kipling says, if you can talk with crowds and keep your virtue,
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or walk with kings, nor lose the common touch, if neither foes nor loving friends can hurt
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you, if all men count with you, but none too much.
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This is a really, really important thing to me that I try to live by, that all human beings
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count with me the same.
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People have criticized me for wanting to have some of these conversations, like with Vladimir
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Putin and Vladimir Zelensky, and for times in the past speaking about them without the
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seriousness the topic deserves.
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For this, I would sincerely like to apologize.
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I'm disappointed, even ashamed, of my frequent ineloquence on these topics.
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I will work hard to do better.
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When I'm joking, it should be clear that it's a joke, and hopefully actually funny.
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When I'm being serious, I should speak with care and rigor.
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I've now done many hundreds of hours of podcast conversation.
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Despite my frequent failures in speaking, I hope you know where my heart is.
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Unfortunately, I think people will take clips of me and use them to attack me.
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This will happen more and more.
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I guess there's nothing I can do but send them my love, and in the meantime, try to
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be a better person and a better interviewer.
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Let me also say that I like humor, especially dark humor.
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I like being silly and not taking myself seriously.
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I will keep taking risks with that, all with the goal of having fun and celebrating humanity
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at its most absurd and most beautiful.
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I will occasionally dress up in strange and weird outfits to celebrate the absurdity of
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life.
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I will hang out, break bread, and joke with all kinds of people.
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I don't have to agree with them to laugh with them, in order to escape for a brief
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moment the tension, the conflict, the hatred in the world.
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Humor just might save this little chaotic little civilization of ours.
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I love the Ukrainian people.
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I love the Russian people.
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And of course, I love my fellow Americans, Californians and Midwesterners, New Yorkers
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and Texans.
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I love humans.
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I love life.
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And I want to share that love with others.
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With you.
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If I mess it up, I'm really, really sorry.
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I'm trying my best.
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I have no agenda and no one telling me what to do.
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I feel like the luckiest guy in the world to have all these opportunities, and I'm
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deeply grateful to be alive and to share that joy with other amazing people around me.
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Thank you for your support.
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For all the love you've sent my way, I will work my ass off to not disappoint you.
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I love you all.
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And now, here's my conversation with David Welby.
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Let's start with a big question.
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According to Judaism, who is God?
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It's difficult because Judaism, like any tradition that is thousands of years old and encompasses
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so many different lands and languages and thinkers, it doesn't give a single answer
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to even simple questions.
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And to large questions, it certainly doesn't give a single answer.
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Although Judaism was responsible for introducing the monotheistic idea to the world, it doesn't
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mean that it's one idea.
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So if you take Maimonides, the greatest sage in the Jewish tradition, a medieval philosopher,
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he would say that God is an omnipotent, benevolent, intangible, unimaginable God.
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In fact, he said, you can't say what God is, only what God is not, because you have
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to emphasize, could talk more about that, but basically you have to emphasize the unknowability
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of God.
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You have a modern philosopher like Heschel, who says that God is a God of pathos, a God
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of deep feeling, which probably would make Maimonides shiver if he heard such a description.
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And if you look in the Bible, God is always regretting or having human emotions.
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So there are so many different kinds of depictions and ideas, and there is this tremendous tension
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between transcendence and imminence.
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That is, in the Jewish tradition, God is exquisitely close, God is imminent.
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In the Talmud's words, God is as close as your mouth is to your ear.
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In other words, whatever you say, God hears it.
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And yet at the same time, God is unfathomably distant.
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Sometimes when I speak to high schoolers, I will say, in the Jewish tradition, think
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of it this way.
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When you were two years old, you had no idea what it was to be a 15 year old.
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Not only did you not know, but you didn't know what you didn't know.
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We conceive of God as being more, the distance between God and human beings is far greater
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than the distance between a two year old and a 15 year old.
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So when we speak about God, we have to acknowledge how limited we really are.
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So okay, you laid out a lot of fascinating things on the table.
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So one, the nobility of God, then this idea of deep feeling, which again, can God operate
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in the space of feelings too, so not just the mouth and the ear of the senses, can God
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be known?
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Can God be felt by this three year old in the analogy versus the teenager?
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So I will take refuge in a beautiful phrase from Martin Buber, another Jewish theologian.
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He said, God cannot be expressed, God can only be addressed.
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In other words, you can speak to God, you can feel a sense of God, but can you begin
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to comprehend or know God?
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No.
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Yosef Kaspi, I'm pulling in a couple of early Jewish philosophers, he said, to know God,
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I would have to be God.
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But can we get close?
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Is it useful or is it a distraction to visualize things, to embody, to create, to attach to
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the stories some kind of visualizations in our mind?
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For example, gender, he versus she, things like this, or old man in the sky kind of feeling.
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So it's almost inevitable, but I think ultimately you try to transcend it.
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This was the great, we just read this actually in synagogue, the story of the golden calf.
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And the story is that human beings found it impossible to not have a visualization because
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they had just come from Egypt and in the world of pagan worship, everything is...
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It's not that pagans thought that idol was actually God, but it represented visually
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what God was.
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And along comes this idea that God is actually not capable of being visualized, which is
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very difficult and it stretches the bounds of human comprehension, maybe even breaks
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them.
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So would you say that the proper way to operate as a human in relation to God is humility
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in that you're screwed, you're not able to basically know anything, almost anything?
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Well, the reason that the salvation of this is that you can't, I was going to say the
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reason you're not screwed, but then I thought somebody might be upset at a rabbi saying
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that.
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So I didn't say it and have not said it.
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But the reason you're not is that you don't have to have a comprehension of God.
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You have to have a relationship to God and those are not the same.
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I mean, to draw an analogy that is not far from perfect as most analogies are, but this
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one especially, you have relationships with people who are mysteries to you.
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You're a mystery to yourself.
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You can live and love somebody for 50 years and they can say something that surprises
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you because ultimately we are trapped in here.
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And when a child first says I, we call that individuation.
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But what that really means is I now know that I am cut off from the minds of all other children
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and all other people.
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And so you have with God a more intimate relationship because you can believe that God is, you are
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known by God and you have a relationship to God despite the fact that you can't know
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God just as you can't know others.
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And some would say to have a good relationship, you want to be constantly surprised.
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Right.
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You don't want to know the thing.
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Well, the world, yes, the world that God created is constantly surprising.
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And by the way, the caveat to this, you know, when I had all these debates with Christopher
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Hitchens and he would always say that God is a greater tyrant than North Korea because
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it continues after your death.
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And the idea of being known by God is after all frightening if you think God knows what
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I think and so on, if your image of God is unloving.
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Can we jump to this?
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You had friendships and conversations with a lot of the fascinating figures of the past
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20, 30 years of the great intellectuals, one of which perhaps one of the greats is Christopher
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Hitchens.
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What have you learned from your conversation, your friendship?
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So there are a lot of views he held that I really did not agree with, but he was a remarkable
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person.
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That was a good line about North Korea.
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He was full of incredibly good lines.
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Well, one of the things I learned was you can't win a debate with Christopher Hitchens.
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One of the reasons you can't win is because he has this British baritone and this ready
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wit that you can't triumph over laughter.
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It doesn't matter if your argument is better, if your quip is better, you win.
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And so I remember once we were arguing about free will and he said, well, I choose to believe
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in it.
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And everybody laughed and that was despite the fact that that's not really an argument.
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Or like I have free will because I don't have a choice or whatever.
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Exactly.
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And people should watch your conversation with him.
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It's great.
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I mean, it's a kind of David versus Goliath situation and you're quite masterful at using
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charisma and sweet talking Christopher Hitchens.
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I also genuinely liked him.
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I mean, I spent a three hour limousine ride with him from one debate to another, from
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LA to San Diego.
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And the entire time he said, we just can't talk about religion.
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So we talked about literature and he gave me a long lecture about scotch.
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He was inexhaustible.
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I mean, not only did he, I began, I wrote a couple of obituaries about him and one I
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began with the historian Keith Thomas said, there are two ways of achieving immortality
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by doing things worth remembering or saying things worth remembering.
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And by that standard, he did both.
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I mean, he went all around the world to all sorts of danger zones.
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He knew like the best bars everywhere from Kuala Lumpur, you know, to Beirut, to LA.
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And he could drink all night and write a 2000 word essay on the poetry of Yates and go to
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sleep.
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I remember before one of our debates in Boston, he was at the bar and he said, come have a
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drink.
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And I said, I'm not going to have a drink before I go to debate with you.
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What are you crazy?
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And he said, just have a beer, it's water.
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So he was, he really was a constant, inexhaustible fountain of intrigue and interest.
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What kind of things, if you can remember, if you can mention, if you can admit, to have
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him enlightening you or helping you change your mind about something in this world.
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So I think, unrelated to Scotch, yeah, unrelated to Scotch.
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He convinced me that the idea, I mean, I had my doubts about it and have my doubts about
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it, but he convinced me through many debates and not only he, that the idea that religion
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makes people better is not, it's not ipso facto wrong, but it's a much, much more complicated
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argument than I wished it to be.
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So he is, however you conceive of the term beauty, he's one of those, one of the more
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beautiful humans, this weird little earth produced.
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So how do you explain the atheism combined with such a beautiful mind?
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So from your perspective of a man of faith, how do you think about that?
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So of the atheists that I have debated, I think about all of them somewhat differently.
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So I think that in some deep way, for example, Sam Harris is a religious personality.
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I don't even think that he would, he wouldn't like the word religious, but I don't even
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think that he would take issue with that.
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I think that he would say his is a purely material based spirituality.
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But I mean, his orientation towards meditation and appreciation of Buddhism, there's something
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deeply seeking spiritual about him.
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With Hitchens, I honestly, and I know that some of his fans will really not like this.
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It's not that he was any kind of closet believer, certainly not at all, but I almost feel as
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though he was less a passionate arguer against religion than he was, first of all, extremely
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upset by the forms that religion took in this world.
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And then once he trained his intellectual howitzers on a target, he had so much fun
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inventing new arguments and attacking it that I really believe he gets carried away sometimes
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by his own eloquence and intellectual range.
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So for example, the idea that you would call a book that religion poisons everything, I
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think he did that deliberately provocatively so that he could defend a proposition that
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obviously is indefensible, that it poisons everything.
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So I don't know, I think he had tremendous joie de vivre.
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That's really what, that's what sums him up.
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This guy loved life in all of its manifestations and arguing against something that someone
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else believed was one of his greatest joys.
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Yeah, and of course the practical aspect of that, he just saw the powerful and he challenged
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them with humor and so on.
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Absolutely.
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And you know, you could argue perhaps that humor is the highest form of what humanity
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can achieve.
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Like sometimes maybe us little humans take things a little too seriously, then sometimes
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we need to just laugh at it all, laugh at ourselves, and that's probably the purest
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form of wisdom.
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You know, Auden, the poet, said, among the people that I like or admire, I can find no
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common quality, but among those I love, I can.
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All of them make me laugh.
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There you have it.
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Yeah.
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Speaking of people that make you laugh, Sam Harris, because he actually has a really great
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sense of humor.
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He does.
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With a very cold and monotone delivery.
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He's another one that you had, you're friends with, you have good conversations with.
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What's your fundamental disagreements and agreements with Sam?
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Sam believes that religion is intellectually indefensible.
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He really believes it, like deep in his soul.
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And he gets angry at the idea that a proposition should be unchallenged if it offends his sense
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of logic.
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So he cannot move on until this is dealt with.
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Nope.
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In fact, I did a podcast with Eric Weinstein, and then Sam did one.
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And Sam said, when I heard your podcast with David Wolpe, I learned stuff about what he
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thinks that I never learned in my conversations with him because I can never let him make
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those unfounded assertions without challenging them, and you just let them go.
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And I think that there was something to that was like, he finds it hard to have a conversation
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about religion that doesn't arouse his real ire about the harm that he thinks religion
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does in the world.
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So it's more about the implementation of religion in the world as it is versus the
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really fundamental...
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I think he also thinks it's fundamentally intellectually shoddy and disreputable.
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Faith.
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Yeah, faith.
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I don't know how to put this.
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I mean, they're both capable of separating their contempt for religion from the people
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that they have sitting in front of them.
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You mean Christopher Hitchens and Sam Harris?
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Yes.
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Both of them.
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Okay.
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So let me...
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You mentioned Eric Weinstein.
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People should listen to your conversation with Eric.
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It's a fascinating one.
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It's great.
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It's nonstandard.
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It just goes all over the place in this humor and wit.
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It's great.
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There's one interesting aspect that I also learned, perhaps not about you but about Eric,
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about both.
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But Eric has a similar thing as with Jordan Peterson, which is if you ask them, do they
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believe in God, I think the answer...
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They're not comfortable answering that question, or they might say no, but they're usually
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just not comfortable answering that question.
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But there's a kind of sense that they would like to live life, a religious life, as if
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God exists.
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I think that's exactly right.
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I think, first of all, Eric has a really deep appreciation of the Jewish tradition.
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I don't know Peterson.
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I've read his stuff and I've reviewed his stuff and so on.
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But I think that Jungians are in their very approach.
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They believe that myth is the way the world works.
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And so it's not that big a leap to God, but there's still a distance there.
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Is it possible to have your cake and eat it too?
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Is it possible to have the depth of a religious life without believing in God?
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How do you make sense of Eric Weinstein's devout life within the tradition?
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I honestly think he believes in God, but doesn't believe in God and it's oscillating like it's
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a quantum mechanical system of some sort.
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Schrodinger's God.
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So I think that he would probably agree with what Elie Wiesel said, that a Jew can be angry
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at God or be disbelieving of God, but is not allowed to be indifferent to God.
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And I think Eric's not indifferent to God.
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And it's different than Christianity.
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I've had this conversation many times because you can be very Jewish and have deep doubts
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about theological questions because Judaism isn't a religion, it's a religious family.
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And so you're born Jewish.
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Like if I said to you tomorrow, if I was Christian and I said, oh, I believe in Jesus today and
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then tomorrow I didn't, I'm not Christian anymore.
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But if tomorrow I said, oh, I don't believe all this stuff, I'm still Jewish.
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So it's a more complicated system.
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Having said that though, I think it's very hard to sustain over generations without some
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belief that the source of it is beyond ourselves.
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And in that sense, as in many others, Eric is unique.
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Well, he was actually making that claim that we need faith to propagate this tradition
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through the generations.
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So without that, the traditions crumble.
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It's a very interesting idea and very interesting argument for devout faith, which is it's a
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thing, it's a glue that holds a tradition together.
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Otherwise like traditions fall apart because you can't have the intensity of that tradition.
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I mean, on the other hand, you do see tradition, I mean, Thanksgiving, one of my favorite.
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So I would say traditions that are demanding fall apart, traditions that require Turkey
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might not fall apart, but traditions that make demands of you that are countercultural
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or are hard, they fall apart.
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I think I need to introduce you to some Thanksgiving dinners that are quite demanding, getting
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the family together.
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You know, there's a, first of all, I'm a vegetarian, so I'm tough to have at Thanksgiving dinner,
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but there's a comedian, Cathy Landsman, who one year I heard this on the radio and it
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stuck with me.
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She said that holidays are a chance to renew your resentments afresh, you know, and that's
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basically what people do with their families.
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It's like, I'm going to go home and fight with the uncle again this year.
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I apologize to take a dark turn, but you mentioned Elie Wiesel.
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I recently saw a picture of Elie Wiesel when he was in the camp, when he was liberated.
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For some reason that hit hard, like, you know, I've seen pictures in concentration camps
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of people I don't know or whose words I haven't really felt and gone through, but for some
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reason like here's just a normal person, like a normal body laying there, that just, that
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was him.
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I've seen it.
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It's a, and, and you see, you can see his face, but at the same time you see that this
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is an amazing, and I think what's so disturbing about it is exactly what you were saying is
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I've seen a thousand people like this and I know this one and I know what he became.
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So what about all those other people who look exactly like him who didn't make it out of
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the camp?
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I don't see his projection, but it seemed like this perhaps is also just combining with
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man's search for meaning is it seemed like it was a regular day for them in the picture.
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It didn't seem like, I mean, I'm not sure what I expect to see what suffering looks like,
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but it's almost like there's no celebration.
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I've never seen a picture of actually liberation be celebratory.
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It's true.
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It's really true.
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So what do you make sense, and I apologize to take a step into that moment in history.
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How does, how do you make sense of the Holocaust that, of Nazi Germany that such things could
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be committed by human beings to each other?
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Is it religion?
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Is it the thirst for power?
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Is it the madness of crowds somehow carrying us forward?
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I mean, for me it's multi causal.
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I don't think there's one reason.
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So one of the things especially there has to do with the special nature of antisemitism,
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which is let's put that to one side for the moment.
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The second is I think human beings are fundamentally split.
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They are mostly good except when put under certain pressures.
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My first explanation for hatreds is as follows, go to a playground.
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What happens when a new kid comes on the playground?
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Do the other kids say, oh, let's go share our toys with the new kid?
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No.
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They say, oh, who's that stranger and let's go get them because otherness is built into
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our genetic, I mean, we're tribal by nature and we see people form tribes all the time
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of different kinds.
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I asked you before if you were a chess player and when I was a kid and playing in tournaments
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and I didn't do it for that long and I didn't do it that well, but when I was, it was like
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the whole world was divided into people who could play chess and people who couldn't play
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chess, which is ridiculous if you think about it as though that's the way you divide the
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world.
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But we tend to do that and the Jews were always the identifiable other.
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There were Frenchmen and Jews, there were Russians and Jews, there were Germans and
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Jews and the great blessing of America is that there's no identifiable other quite that
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way is that there's all these minorities and no, there's not an American and a something.
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But once you have that identifiable other and you have a long history of blaming that
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identifiable other for all the ills that befall you.
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Of course, people still do try to form, you said America, they still try to form other,
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I mean, immigrant versus been here for a generation.
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There's so many ways to slice it.
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We still try to find ways.
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It's just more difficult in America because there's so many sub tribes, hierarchies of
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tribes and upon tribes.
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You're absolutely right.
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And I was moving fast because I didn't want to get bogged down in all the very difficult.
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It's true.
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I tried.
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You're hoping I wouldn't mention that tribalism happens in America.
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Skating, you know, when you're on thin ice, your safety is in your speed.
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So I was trying to move fast.
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But for most of history in Eastern Western Europe, not obviously in the, in Asia, but
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in Eastern Western Europe, Jews were the ones who like, they're not like us.
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They're clearly not like us.
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And so, and in addition, there was, there's a peculiar quality and I don't know, I wonder
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what you'll think of this explanation.
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There's a peculiar quality to antisemitism that is unlike any other hatred that I know
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of, which is Jews are both superhuman and subhuman.
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They're vermin.
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The Nazis thought of them as vermin and yet they control the world.
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And there was an English scholar named Hyman Maccabee who said the reason that that's
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so is the myth that Jews killed God.
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They killed Jesus and to kill a God, you have to be superhumanly evil.
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You can't just be bad, otherwise you can't kill a God.
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So there is some like supercharged evil sense that people got from that about Jews that
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still in here.
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Yeah, that's true.
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A lot of the way we formulate the other in terms of tribes is often they're subhuman
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and they're here to steal our resources, like on the playground.
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But to be both is a fascinating construction.
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Do you agree with Solzhenitsyn that all of us have the capacity for evil?
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A hundred percent runs through every human heart.
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I have no doubt about it.
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And I know as you probably do, but I probably know more both because of what I do and because
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I have lived a lot longer than you.
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I know a lot of religious leaders who people thought or think are above the human and they
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are emphatically not.
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They're not.
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Some of them have done horrible things and they've used their position to do horrible
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things.
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And it's because there is no perfect saint.
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There's no, you know, I mean, all through history you discover all these saintly characters
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that we worship, the people who actually knew them around them, some liked them and some
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didn't.
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People are complicated, all of us.
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And the tough thing is, the thing that's the toughest for me is it's not very always clear
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what is good and what is evil.
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Because certainly if you just look at history and it's not always propaganda, I, you know,
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I really believe that some part of Stalin thought he was doing good, legitimately.
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And it makes you ask a question of yourself.
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For those of us who want to do good in the world, am I actually doing good?
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And that's a really difficult question, like in the technology sphere, for example, in
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this dream of creating technology that will do some good, am I actually doing good?
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So I have a question about that myself.
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Not about Stalin.
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I'm sure that Stalin thought so.
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Stalin does not strike me from what I know of him as somebody given to a lot of self
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doubt.
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But the question with AI to me is actually, it goes back to the God question, which is,
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if we have an appreciation of the limitations of our own intelligence, that we know that
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just like we can only hear certain things and see certain colors, how much of the world
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is inaccessible to us because of the way our brains are constructed, how can we possibly
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have any confidence that we can create things that in certain ways are far more intelligent
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than we are and control them the way we think is best, seems to me a hubris that might end
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up being destructive.
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Definitely.
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Well, any sentence with the word hubris in it is going to end badly when implemented
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at scale.
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But there is also beauty.
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So if you approach it with humility, there is a sense, I don't want to over romanticize
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it, but there is a legged robot right behind you, which is hilarious.
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So there's a magic, I don't have kids, I would love to have kids.
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But there's a magic to bringing robots to life that it feels like you are a mini God,
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because you just breathe life into an entity that operates in this world, especially when
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they have legs and they move in this way, that's in the case of the four legged robots,
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like a dog that I think, I don't think I'm over romanticizing it.
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The feeling is like you would with a child.
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You just gave birth like, holy crap, this is a living thing.
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I wonder what he or she are thinking about.
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By the way, I'm not at all insensible to how remarkable it must feel to create that.
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I'm actually worried in part about how remarkable it feels to create that because to maintain
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humility and perspective when it's such a fantastic thing is what's difficult.
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And I think also because creativity is both part of what it is to be human and it's very
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much part of the legacy of Western civilization and the legacy of having a creator God.
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If you have a tradition where God is known primarily through what God creates, so the
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first debate I ever had since we talked about humor and God and creating, let me give you
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my one God creating joke.
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Because the first debate I ever had on religion and science was with Stephen Jay Gould and
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it was wonderful because he had a deep interest in religion and his interest was actually
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not to say religion is terrible.
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But I started with this joke and I think it made the debate go a little bit easier.
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So the time has come when human beings can do everything that God can do and a scientist
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looks up at heaven and says, God, look, you were great in your day and we thank you for
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everything you did, but now we don't need you.
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And God says, really, you don't need me?
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He says, no, we can do everything you did.
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God says, everything?
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And the human being says, yeah, we can do everything.
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God says, okay, can you create a human being?
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And the scientist goes, yeah.
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God says, from dirt?
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And the scientist goes, yeah.
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He says, okay, let me see.
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The scientist reaches down, scoops up some dirt and God says, uh, uh, uh, get your own
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dirt.
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But the idea is that a creator God impels us to create too.
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But let me bring up Nietzsche, who proclaimed that God is dead.
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Is belief in God slowly disappearing from our world, do you think?
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And what kind of impact does that have on society?
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You wrote that religion is not our enemy.
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Before the Western faiths captured the heart of our world, there was cruelty, carnage,
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and destruction.
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In the 20th century, when religion ceased to be a force of international politics, the
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scale of human slaughter was far beyond anything human beings have ever known.
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What is the world like when we take religion out of it?
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I mean, I think Nietzsche was largely right.
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You know, it wasn't a statement about God.
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It was a statement about God's presence in the world.
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And I think that that's largely true, that God is not a force in a lot of Western society.
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And I believe that if the force of nihilism has no clear counter without an idea that
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we're all here for a purpose and that our lives are inherently meaningful and that there's
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a God who wishes us to be better.
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So I worry a lot about it, and I think that the sort of optimism that things are just
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going to get better and better is what one philosopher called cut flower ethics.
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That is, we're still living off the morals that religion gave us, but now that they're
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separate from the soil that gave birth to them, I see them wilting.
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So this kind of optimism for the future of human civilization, you think, is in part
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grounded in a religious society.
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I really do believe that.
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I mean, it was religion that the Greeks look back at the golden age of the past.
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It was the Jews who said, no, the golden age is in the future, right?
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It's the Messiah.
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And I think that that idea that we're moving towards something better, which I really believe
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humanity can do and absent destroying ourselves will do, you know, I mean, I'm very excited
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about the technology that I won't live to see.
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I think it's fantastic.
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And that excitement is a kind of religious excitement because there's a reason to preserve
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this whole thing.
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Absolutely.
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Because I really think, I know this sounds absurdly anthropomorphic, but I really think
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God is cheering us on.
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I feel like this is why we're here.
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We're here to grow in soul and to grow each other in soul.
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Yeah.
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So what do you think the world, so if you just think of this force of nihilism that's
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contending with the force of faith based optimism, what do you make of the atrocities in the
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20th century?
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Do you think at its core, it's part of human nature and has nothing to do with religion
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or not religion?
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Or do you think you can assign this kind of nihilistic view of the world?
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I think it has to do with a religion that doesn't make ethical demands.
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That is, for Stalin and for Hitler, they both had religions, in a sense, but they were religions
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that didn't make ethical demands for the other.
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I mean, 36 times the Torah talks about the stranger.
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The point is, it's trying to educate people away from their natural inclination towards
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distrusting and disliking the other.
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And it's a lot of work that's really difficult to do.
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But if you have a tribal passion and not a universal ethic, then you're in trouble.
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Well, the Jewish tribe is a very strong tribe.
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So how do you make sense of this mention of the stranger versus the power of the tribe,
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which is the whole point, not the point, but the mechanism of tradition propagates the
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tribe.
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So it's both.
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I mean, the Torah does not start with Jews.
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It starts with Adam and Eve.
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That's a way of saying, yeah, this is going to be a story about a people, but understand
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that prior to a kind of people, there are people.
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I'm a human being before I'm a Jew.
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And in fact, the Jewish New Year, the Muslim New Year starts with Muhammad's journey.
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And the Christian New Year starts with Jesus's birth.
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The Jewish New Year starts with the creation of the world because the idea is, yes, this
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is a particularist tradition, but it makes a universal statement, which is all of humanity
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is a child, are in the image of God, are children of God.
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I think that the idea of Judaism was to try to exemplify a certain way of making that
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statement over and over again.
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And I want to say one other thing about chosenness that's very name droppy, but when I tell
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you how I got there, it won't be as name droppy.
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So my brother is a professor at Emory.
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And so is the Dalai Lama actually teaches at Emory, although he no longer does because
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he's too old to go to Emory, but for many years taught at Emory.
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And so my brother brought us, he's the head of the bio of the ethics center at Emory.
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He's a bioethicist.
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So he brought a bunch of students to Dharamsala to meet with the Dalai Lama.
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So I went to India, I was on sabbatical then anyway, I met my brother there and we had
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a chance to meet with the Dalai Lama.
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Okay.
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That was the name drop.
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So we're sitting in the, before he speaks to the students, he was speaking to us, but
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not because I just wanted to make it clear, not because he said, oh, I got to talk to
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that rabbi.
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We just happened to be, I happened to glom along with my brother.
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We sit down.
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The first thing he says is he points at me and says, what's this about the chosen people
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anyway?
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So, and he had, by the way, he had asked that I give a lecture, which I did later to, to
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them, to his monks about how Jews survived in the diaspora.
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So it's not like he doesn't know about Judaism.
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He knows a lot about it, but he says to me right away with, so I said, yes, Jews believe
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that they were chosen for a certain mission in this world, but that doesn't mean other
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people weren't chosen for other sorts of things.
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They certainly, I mean, it seems to me that other people believe they're chosen for things
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too.
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They burst out laughing and said, yeah, we also think we're chosen.
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So I think it's universal.
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The idea is that no tribe is better than, from a Jewish perspective, you're chosen for
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a thing, but that doesn't make you better.
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No.
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The only place where the betters came in, honestly, if I'm going to, historically, if
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I'm going to be honest, was not with the idea that you, but it was when Jews were small
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persecuted.
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The way that you take this sort of psychic revenge is by saying, no, we're better than
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our persecutors even.
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But the idea is, yeah, different people have different missions, which is, I mean, like
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there was a Jewish philosopher, Franz Rosenzweig, who used to say, he didn't know very much
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about Islam.
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He used to say, Judaism is the sun and Christianity was the rays of the sun.
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Like Judaism introduced the idea of God and Christianity brought it to the world.
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Can you speak to this difference?
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What is the difference and similarities between Judaism, Christianity, and Islam?
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The religious family part is different.
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And the greatest difference, which I talked about in the Eric Weinstein podcast, is that
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Islam and Judaism are more similar in a lot of ways than Judaism and Christianity.
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And the reason that that is so is Christianity in its core is not a religion of law.
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The reason it's not a religion of law is because it grew up in the Roman Empire, so law was
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taken care of.
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I mean, Jesus didn't have to create civil law because you had Roman law.
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Muhammad and Moses created a religion in the desert where there was no law.
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So you have to create a religion of law, otherwise you have anarchy.
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And that's why in a lot of ways, there was never a separation of church and state in
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Islam or Judaism.
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That was a gift that Christianity gave the world.
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And it could do it because of render unto Caesar what is Caesar's.
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But when Moses came along, there was no Caesar.
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When Muhammad came along, there was no Caesar.
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So historically, the traditions shaped differently.
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But all three of them have this core, I think, the single most important statement and insight
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in all of human history, which is that every human being is in the image of God.
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And if you really believe that, that's a transformative belief.
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So that means you should love thy neighbor as yourself.
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Which comes from Leviticus, comes straight from the Torah.
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So I don't know if you know, I've been chatting with Omar Suleiman, I don't know if you know
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who that is.
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He's an imam in Dallas, a great guy.
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I enjoy his interfaith dialogues that he engages in.
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And do you ever do that kind of talk with Christians, with Muslims?
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Yes, often.
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Often.
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I mean, I do whenever I at least listen to them in the context of these kinds of conversations.
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There's so much love and humor and empathy and appreciation, and also ability to make
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fun of the quirks of the little...
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Of one's own.
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Of one's own communities.
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So it's not necessarily the depths or the details of the traditions, but these are communities
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and they're full of people and they're full of weird people, because we're all weird.
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And so there is very particular flavors of weirdness that emerge and they can make fun
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of them.
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And in that way, they can talk about some beautiful ideas.
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So I mean, I don't know, do you engage in these kinds of things?
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What do you learn from them?
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So one of the things I learned is exactly what you said, that personalities that you
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think are unique to your own community, in fact, they exist in all sorts of communities.
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And religious communities in particular draw, I think, some interesting personalities.
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And also that the, especially as clergy, some of the pressures that you feel are shared.
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And it's weird, again, it has to do with that tribal association.
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There's almost like there's an understanding among clergy because they have similar...
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And it's a strange role in the following way.
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It's one that you never escape.
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That is, you're not my lawyer at the supermarket, but you are my rabbi at the supermarket.
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I mean, it doesn't matter why you're there, that's not an escapable role.
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And every religious leader is aware of that strange assumption of stepping into something
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that you can never step out of.
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But you're also the source where people go to think about the deepest question of our
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lives and our universe.
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And so that's some heavy, when people are suffering, they look to you for answers.
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I mean, every privilege comes with a cost of one kind or another.
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The reason you get to be in that role is exactly because you get the privilege of being there
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at crucial moments in people's lives.
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I mean, the fact that I get to marry people and get to give eulogies for people and come
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to the hospital, it's inexpressible.
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I have this joke with people that I know that like when I'm sitting on the couch and it's
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Saturday night, I don't wanna get up and go to a wedding.
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I really don't.
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I wanna sit there and watch Netflix like everybody else.
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But when I'm actually doing the wedding, I always love it, always, always, always.
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And the reason is that I don't think, I mean, yes, people go to you for answers in calmer
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conversations.
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Like if you asked me now, like what's my theory of why God allows evil, I could give
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you a conversation about it.
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But they really go for presence and comfort, not really for answers.
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When someone's suffering, an answer doesn't make them unsuffer.
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It's just they wanna know they're not alone.
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Yeah.
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To be heard and just to feel things in silence together.
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In terms of weddings and marriage, what's the role of that whole, I need to take some
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notes here.
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What's...
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The role of a rabbi?
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The role of marriage in human existence.
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It is first of all to teach you how to care for someone unlike you, which could be anyone
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you marry.
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And I think it's to create a home and a family.
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So there's a commitment to it, so care for a long time.
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Right.
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Exactly.
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And also when couples come to me and they say, we don't need to be married because it
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really won't change how we think about ourselves and our relationship.
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I say to them, that's true, it might not, but it will change how everyone else looks
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at you.
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And because it changes how everyone else looks at you, it changes you.
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Because it's one thing to say, this is my partner, it's another thing to say, this is
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my husband.
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You say this is my husband, that means we've made a real commitment to this.
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Yeah.
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What do you, do you worry that there's a dissolution of that as well in terms of how, you know,
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as religion dissipates, like it loosens its hold on society, loosens its impact on society.
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Do you worry about that?
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I worry about it.
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I do think that it is possible that we're going, rather than a dissolution, we're going
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through a transition.
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That is different kinds of families and different configurations of families.
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That is, I see some of that, but I also do see a, it's less a dissolution of marriage
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than it is of the idea of commitment.
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And I'll give you like a simple example.
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When I was growing up, a player on a sports team was always on that team.
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And you rooted for the team because you knew the players for 20 years.
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Now there are very good reasons, starting with Curt Flood, why people got free agency
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and they can move around and it's better for the players.
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I understand all that.
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And I am not, I'm not saying, oh, they should continue.
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But just like people move jobs and they move sports teams and they change careers, they
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change partners.
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And there is a, there is a diminishment of the commitment to commitment that I actually
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think has serious societal consequences and that I am worried about.
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Yeah.
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There's a cost to that.
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I don't know what it is about commitment that's beautiful.
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Like through, because like some of the deepest friendships I have is when we've gone through
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some shit together.
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Yeah.
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And so like the hard times, going through hard times together, especially when the hard
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times are between the two of you, that, that if, I mean, that's always a risk, but if it,
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if you can find a way through that can bond you stronger, that's the fascinating thing
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about human relations.
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There's no question.
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And even if it doesn't keep you forever, you still have a connection that doesn't, that
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exists that.
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So I can give you one where you said, what is it about commitment?
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I'll give you one, I think beautiful answer.
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Someone once asked Rabbi Soloveitchik, who was a great thinker and leader in the Orthodox
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community in the 20th century.
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They said, you know, I go from religion to religion.
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I just take what I think is beautiful in it.
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And his answer was that you're treating religion like a nomad.
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He said, nomads go from place to place and they eat what they want and they move on.
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He says, farmers stay in one place.
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The difference is farmers make things grow.
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And I think that that's true also, when you think about the relationships you have, things
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have grown out of the relationships that you've invested in, that you farmed basically, that
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can't exist in fly by night relationships.
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Can you talk about, can we talk about the Torah?
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Yes.
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What is it?
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And is it the literal word of God?
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Easy questions.
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Yeah.
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Well, the Torah is the five books of Moses written in Hebrew.
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I like most, I think modern rabbis, non Orthodox or non literalist rabbis will tell you that
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it's a product of human beings.
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And I believe that they are inspired by God, but it's clear to me that it's a human product.
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And I think that people who study modern biblical criticism, it's really hard to study modern
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criticism, it gives a wrong impression.
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I would say modern scholarship on the Bible and not appreciate the fact that it even has
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levels of language.
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I mean, it's just like if you read today, somebody writing like Shakespeare, you would
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say this isn't, it's like English has developed.
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It's different.
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It's not the English we speak today.
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And if you study the Bible and you know Hebrew well enough, you even see that this was written
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over hundreds and hundreds and hundreds of years.
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It is a holy book.
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And I like the idea that it is, what you say in Hebrew is Torah is from heaven, but it's
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not from Sinai.
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So it has its origin beyond us, but it has things in it that I think, and this is one
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of the things that was a huge controversy at my congregation when I started to do same
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sex marriages.
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There are some people who try to argue that the Torah does not forbid them.
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Whether it does or not, it seems to me, we understand things that were not understood
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in the ancient world about gender and sexuality.
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And so you think that in the scripture, in the words, you can find the kind of spirit
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that supports the idea of gay marriage.
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Well, that's yes.
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That's my argument is that you criticize the Torah by the Torah.
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That is, it gives you the understanding that you use to evaluate its own claims.
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And I think that Judaism, by the way, has always done that because it's clear that there
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are things in the Torah that the rabbis changed, altered, grew, expanded, diminished.
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I think that's what it is to be part of a living tradition.
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Yeah.
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You wrote in your book, Why Faith Matters, quote, Walt Whitman wrote that in order for
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there to be a great books, there must be great readers.
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For a book to remain powerful throughout generations, it cannot have a single meaning.
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Scripture like great poetry is not reducible to other words.
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That is, one cannot paraphrase it and capture the totality of its meaning.
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So how the heck do you capture the meaning of the words in scripture?
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Is it an ongoing process through the centuries?
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Yes.
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Is that essentially what it is?
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Exactly so.
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It's a continual conversation of sages, scholars, readers, strugglers, seekers, mystics, visionaries,
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all of them making a contribution.
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I mean, I write a weekly Torah column for the Jerusalem Post.
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Now what is there left to say?
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But every week what I do is I start opening books and seeing what people say and it starts
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to percolate and you realize that you're entering this conversation that's been going on for
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thousands of years with remarkable minds and it's constantly fertile in new insights.
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So yes, that's what it is to be part of a tradition.
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Why do people keep writing love poems?
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We should have figured out love by this point already.
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I use the analogy sometimes of diet books.
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If any diet worked, there would be one book, there'd be one book and you'd be done.
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You mentioned this fascinating story that you were a part of.
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You were a part of several controversies in your life.
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I've had a few.
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For someone who walks with grace through the fire, you sure have found yourself in a lot
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of fires.
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One of them, can you tell me the story of your views on gay marriage, the underlying
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principles that led you to fight this battle of defending gay marriage in the Jewish community?
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So I'm part of a congregation that is really politically split and split not only politically
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but split in terms of origin.
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We have a lot of Jews from the Middle East, from Iran, a lot of Persian Jews, a lot of
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Jews from Israel, some from Mexico, from other places and many that grew up in LA.
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Do you have any Russian Jews, the best kind?
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I have a few Russian Jews, not as many as I should, but we'll work on that.
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What happened was increasingly I became uncomfortable with people who would come to me and say,
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this is the only kind of person I can love.
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It's not the same question as an intermarriage, as a Jew marrying a non Jew, because you could
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find a Jew to love.
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You may not have found, but you could.
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That's a whole separate question.
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But I would have men in my office primarily, a couple of women, they would say, this is
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the only kind of person that I can enter into an intimate relationship with.
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How can it be that my religion has no room for me?
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And that was very persuasive to me.
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But I knew that it was going to be explosive in my community.
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Then by the way, it finally happened, it was literally on the front page of the New York
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and the LA Times.
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It was that explosive.
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So it was not a small controversy.
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And so what I did was I started to teach classes.
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Not that many people came about homosexuality and Jewish tradition and so on.
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It's funny, much, much less about lesbianism, I'm talking about in terms of the sources
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and so on.
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It's almost always about homosexuality.
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So and then I got ready to send out a letter.
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And I said to my daughter, who at the time was maybe 10 or 11, now in her mid 20s.
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I said, look, honey, when you go to school tomorrow or whatever it was, I said, people
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might be saying bad things about your dad and I just want you to be prepared for that.
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She said, why?
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And I said, because I'm going to start marrying, I'm going to start doing same sex marriages.
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And she looked at me quizzically and said, what took you so long?
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And I thought, really her face was like I said to her, I'm going to start marrying blonde
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haired people to brown haired people.
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It's like she really did not understand why there was an issue.
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And I thought that's exactly why.
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Because I know that this is, it's generational, people are raised with it, they have a deep
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in there, but it's not really right.
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It's just not right.
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But if you could just look back to that journey, how difficult is it to make these decisions
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a principle?
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So because you have to think about that in order to think about such decisions you yet
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might still have to make in the future.
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And I will tell you one thing I did wrong with that and one thing I did right.
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The thing I did right was I waited until in the communities where people objected to it,
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I had enough people whose kids had come out so that I had parents of kids who'd come out
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to refer later on other parents to so that they wouldn't feel like they were the only
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ones.
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Because once I announced it, as I thought would happen, a bunch of kids came out and
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said, now that the rabbi said this, mom, dad, I want you to know I'm gay.
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And when the parents came to me, I could say, well, listen, you're not alone, this person
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also you can go to.
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That I did right.
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What I did wrong was I don't think the classes were enough and I don't think enough people
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were prepared.
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And I think part of the explosion was shock and I should have prepared even more.
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The words you used to talk about it, the way you thought about it, was it more scholarly
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in the Jewish tradition or did you go to the feeling thing?
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No, I went to the feeling.
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I said, which means respect or honor for God's creations and caring for other human beings
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and understanding.
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It wasn't scholarly because I knew that the objections were not scholarly objections.
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And I had many beautiful and also painful stories as a result, some of which can be
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told and some of which really can't.
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But what I tried to impress also on people was how painful it is to not be able to tell
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the world, even your own parents, who you are.
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And your sexuality is not a trivial part of who you are.
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I mean, it's core to people.
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So it's one of the reasons why I'd evoke such reactions.
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But I would say to them, the same reason that you're reacting so strongly tells you how
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strongly...
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Anyway, it was a very powerful experience and for that I feel good about it.
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Afterwards, the other thing that I, again, said to my daughter afterwards, after it all
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died down and after all the bad things were said, I told her the Churchill one said that
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it's exhilarating to be shot at without result.
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If you go into a battle and you make it through and you're still okay, that's good.
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The problem is when you're in the battle, you don't know.
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No, you don't know.
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So how did it feel like, I mean, looking back, you've been, to use the word, canceled a couple
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of times.
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But I guess when you're dealing with the most difficult of questions, just as a human being,
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for a community that you really deeply care about, some part of it saying that you have
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failed.
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I wasn't canceled the way...
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I didn't lose my job, didn't lose my home, but I hurt people that I cared about.
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And that was the hard...
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I went into this to be someone who brings people together and then I would sit there
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and do even now, as you're well aware with stuff that's going on now, I sit there and
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people are really upset at me who I either am or used to be close to.
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Do those people in time come around?
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When you look now, because those are real feelings in the moment and we can learn that
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about social media, people, especially during COVID, there's this intensity of feeling about
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stuff.
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And have you learned something about the passing of feeling that turns into wisdom?
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No question about it.
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The sermon I gave this Saturday was about how Moses came down the mountain, he saw the
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golden calf and he broke the tablets.
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If he'd sat with it for a little while, he probably wouldn't have broken the tablets.
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But the instant reaction is always anger.
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And in our age, unfortunately, the instant reaction gets put on social media forever
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and ever and ever.
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And by the way, once you've actually said that, it becomes harder to back down.
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If you keep quiet for a day or two, then you can back down because you haven't put yourself
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out there.
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But once you said, this is terrible what you did, it's harder to write and say, I'm sorry,
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I shouldn't have said that.
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Yeah, so it almost becomes, I mean, I actually, it's a really powerful statement that the
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downside of saying something on the internet is that it actually pulls you into this current.
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You both create the current and it pulls you into it, to where it's actually very hard
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to escape.
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So when two days later you feel different, there's a momentum, there's now a tribe of
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people that feel this way and there's a momentum with it.
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There's a momentum and also you don't want to betray your own tribe because then people
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will get upset at you.
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I really think that a lot of the antagonism is not so much that you don't want to give
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ground to the people who oppose you, it's that you don't want to break with the people
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who are behind you.
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And that's really hard.
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Can you tell the story of this recent controversy, the sermon you just gave?
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You went to the Super Bowl.
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I think a lot of people would relate to this because to me personally, I apologize to anybody
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who was hurt by this.
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The absurdity of it is deeply intense.
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So here's the story.
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The LA County mandates masking children in school and all of the kids in our school are
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masked and many of the parents are extremely upset about that.
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I will just leave that at that.
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I went to the Super Bowl, there were 70,000 people.
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Frank Luntz, whom we know was a wonderful guy, gave me a ticket.
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And so I was at the Super Bowl and I maybe saw two masks among the 70,000 people.
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I didn't even think about it, which was foolish on my part, no question.
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I took a picture of myself unmasked at the Super Bowl.
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And many, many people thought, oh, great, wonderful, glad you're having a good time,
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so on and so forth.
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I didn't diminish at all the many people who said that.
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A lot of people were livid.
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They were livid.
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And they weren't, what was instructive about it was they didn't say, nobody wrote me a
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private note and said, I think that this was a bad idea, you should have thought about
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this.
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No.
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They were, you're a hypocrite, you're a clown, you're an idiot, how could you do this?
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This is a disgrace.
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This is that kind of thing.
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They say that publicly.
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Oh, yeah.
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And on my Instagram, you can still see I left the remarks up because I really thought it
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was important.
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If I started, I only deleted the really vile comments because I thought that shouldn't
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stay up.
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But I left them up because I thought like people should see and I should remind myself
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what I did.
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And I didn't want to just delete the picture as though it didn't happen because it did
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happen and I did do it.
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And I felt terrible about that.
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And I felt terrible that I had, not about, I mean, the comments, believe me, weren't
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pleasant.
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I didn't like it.
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Nobody likes it.
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But I felt worse that I had hurt all these people that I'm close to.
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And I defended all these people who were really upset that their kids were wearing masks and
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now their kid says, why doesn't a rabbi have to wear a mask?
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Well, first of all, it is tough to be a rabbi.
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I mean, the masks to me symbolize these kinds of discussions, symbolize not necessarily
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the issues at hand, but the intensity of feeling and people are really struggling.
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People are in pain, they're lonely, the uncertainty of it, you don't know who to trust.
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Everything is under question.
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The institutions, even the scientific institutions, and there's all these conspiracy theories
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flying around.
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You don't know who to believe.
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And there's people just yelling at each other and politics is weaved into this whole thing
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in some messy way.
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And you're just getting, I mean, honestly, it's just like legit, simple, just frustration,
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going back to marriage of just hanging out with the kids and your wife, husband, just
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distressed, just building up over time, no release.
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And just people want to tell you when the rabbi is not wearing a mask, even though it's
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at the damn Super Bowl, maybe you want to comment on the Super Bowl part, which is awesome.
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But it released clearly a dam of all the kinds of feelings that you're talking about.
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So how do you then write a sermon?
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So what I did was I didn't answer on social media because I knew that I wouldn't be able
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to formulate it the way I wanted, and I was going to wait, and I was going to be able
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to give a longer, I mean, the sermon is 15 minutes, not that long.
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But I wanted to be able to give a longer answer as opposed to a tweet.
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And so I was really, I mean, I tried to make two points during the sermon, and also I published
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the text of it, which I never do because I never speak from a text.
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I always speak from either notes or not even from notes.
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But this time I thought it was really important that I have a text out there too so that people
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could actually look over it.
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And I just wanted to make two points, one of which was that I really feel terrible.
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And I did, that all these people were hurt and that there is this contradiction between
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the way I acted and the way they want me to act.
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And I also think, by the way, I didn't speak about this, but I also think that there are
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some people who just don't like the idea of a rabbi being at the Super Bowl.
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It's like you're supposed to be doing rabbi stuff.
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So I understand that too.
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But then...
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Yeah.
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But rabbi at the Super Bowl, I mean, you are also, I hate to say it, but there's a rock
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star nature to you talking to Christopher Hitchens, contending with ideas, inspiring
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so many other minds.
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I mean, there's an educational aspect to this.
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I appreciate that.
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It's making ideas cool.
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I mean, that's a very powerful...
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I mean, that is also the job of a rabbi.
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You're not just supposed to do rabbi stuff, it's to educate the spot.
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Yeah, but I didn't do so much of that at the game.
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So nonetheless.
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But the second part of it was I said that we have to be able to express our anger and
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disappointment better than this.
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You just have to.
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In part because it doesn't get you the result that you want.
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I mean, when you scream at someone, that's not gonna get them to realize what they did.
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And the most painful moment of it was this letter that I got from a Christian pastor
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who said, you know, I always admired the Jews so much, I can't believe they could be so
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cruel and especially to a rabbi.
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And I thought that's not how I want my congregation to be perceived in the world.
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And by the way, some of them were from my congregation, some many were not from my congregation.
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And I spoke about what you talked about, which is that I mentioned before that Moses broke
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those tablets coming down the mountain.
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And the Torah doesn't say what happened to the tablets, but the rabbis do.
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They say that they were carried together in the ark with the second set that was intact.
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And that we all have brokenness, communities and individuals.
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We have brokenness and especially now, and we have to learn how to give each other space
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to be mistaken and broken and hurt and all of that.
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And the cool thing when you give people that space, you feel better.
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I mean, you for caring for the community, it feels better when you show empathy and
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compassion and kindness on the internet.
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You'll actually feel better a week from now.
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You'll feel much worse if you make some kind of a negative statement of principle on the
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internet.
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It's almost just exclusively true.
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So if you care about feeling good, just be kind first, be empathetic first.
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Almost always the case.
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Exactly so.
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So it's, I mean, it settled down a lot.
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The most, really the single best reaction, there are people and you can, again, you can
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go on social media, you can see all the criticisms and so on and so forth.
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But the single best reaction I got was from a man who came up to me right after the sermon
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and said, I have four words for you.
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And I thought, oh no, I got to confess, I said, I said what?
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He said, you changed my mind.
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And I thought, wow.
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And I, I said to him, you know, that's so, it's like to take so much courage to come
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up to somebody and say that in front of them.
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And I was so grateful.
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And the other thing that it tells me is, look, I've been the rabbi of that congregation for
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25 years and I taught 10 years before that, I've been a rabbi for a long time.
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I still, I still have a lot to learn.
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We talked a little bit about the difference between Judaism, Christianity and Islam, cause
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you maybe talk about the difference between the Torah, the Bible and the Koran.
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So there's the Hebrew Bible is actually what's called a step canon.
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That is there are the five books of the Torah.
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Then there are books of history and the prophets.
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So books like Samuel, Kings, Judges, and then the prophets, Isaiah, Jeremiah, Amos, Ezekiel,
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and so on.
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And then there are what are called the writings.
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The writings are books like Psalms, Proverbs, Job, the Migilot, which are Esther, Daniel,
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all of those, all of those books, Ecclesiastes.
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So in Hebrew, it's called the Tanakh, Torah, Neviim, Ketuvim, the Torah, the prophets and
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the writings.
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And that is the Hebrew Bible.
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Sometimes that's also called the Torah, just to be confusing, but really the Torah generally
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refers to the five books.
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Then there is the New Testament, which the Jews don't recognize as a sacred book.
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They recognize it as the book of another religion.
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And I sometimes say to Christians, in order for them to really grasp this, Jesus has as
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much religious significance to Judaism as Muhammad has to Christianity.
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That is Jesus, although Jewish, became the founder of another religion.
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And for Judaism, that's not only in as much as Christians and Jews have had a lot of interactions,
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but religiously, Jesus has no significance.
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Said many beautiful things, said some things I don't like so much.
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Like what?
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Like what?
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Leave your father and mother and follow me.
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I don't like that as a religious model.
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Now Christians will say that I don't understand that, but that's because Christians like Jews
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interpret their texts different ways at different times.
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So anyway, the Koran, which I know less well.
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I have read it, but I know it less well than I know the New Testament and certainly less
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well obviously than I know the Hebrew Bible, is in some ways a, parts of it are, I don't
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say this word, I say this word because I can't find a better descriptive word, but Muslims
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will not accept this, okay, is a takeoff on the Torah in some things.
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That is, it's the same stories as the Torah, but they're different.
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Now Jews will say, and I being a Jew will say this, that that's because Muhammad heard
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those stories from Jews and also heard Midrashim, which are rabbinic interpretations of those
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stories and he wrote those down.
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Muslims will say, no, the Jews got it wrong and Muhammad came along to correct the record
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and tell the real story.
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But they're all telling the story of the same thing.
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The Hebrew Bible part, the Abrahamic part, they all tell the story of the same characters,
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but tell them, obviously Christians accept the Hebrew Bible as sacred scripture.
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The Muslims retell many of the stories in the Bible.
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What is common to all of them is that all of them are monotheistic faiths.
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Now in Christianity, that's more complicated because of the Trinity, but as Christianity
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has developed over time, it clearly presents itself and thinks of itself and is a monotheistic
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faith as well.
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What's the role of the word in each of these religions, in the scriptures?
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So in terms of, so first of all, the role of oral traditions, the power of the exactness
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of the words in the scripture, does it differ or is it really within the communities it
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differs?
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Just because in Christianity, the words are not all the words of Jesus.
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They're the words of Jesus's disciples.
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None of the books of the New Testament were written by people who met Jesus in person.
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So they're different and therefore, and also we don't even know sometimes the original
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language of some of the things in the New Testament.
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In the Bible, and I understand in the Koran, but I'll speak for the Hebrew Bible, the
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idea is that that's Lashon HaKodesh, that's sacred language, and Hebrew, that's the language
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according to the tradition that God actually spoke to Moses, and therefore the exact words
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are infinitely interpretable and meaningful.
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But the words are spoken by, written by Moses, and the same with Muhammad, but from memory
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or no?
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There are different theories.
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I won't speak for Muhammad, you should ask.
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I don't want to get another religious tradition wrong.
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In Judaism, the words are written by Moses at God's dictation, basically.
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That's the traditional view.
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There are other views that I'm happy to go into if you want to, but basically that's
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the traditional view.
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So it's pretty close to the words of God.
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What makes Judaism and Christianity different is Christianity has an ideal life.
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Judaism doesn't have an ideal life.
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Judaism has an ideal book.
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So the holidays of Christianity are events in the life of God, God's birth, God's death
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and resurrection.
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In Judaism, the holidays are all events in the life of the people, like the liberation
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from slavery, or in the people's relationship to God, like Yom Kippur, which is a day of
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atonement.
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But there are no holidays in Judaism that are events in the life of God because in Judaism
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God doesn't have a biography.
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God is eternal, and God never came to earth.
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And those events carry with them traditions and rules that you're to follow.
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Yes.
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And you mention on one such event in Scripture, yet another time you walked through the fire,
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which is with Exodus.
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That was the first.
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And you never forget the first.
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One of several controversies.
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You spoke 20 years ago, 21 years ago now at Passover and said that, quote, the way the
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Bible describes the Exodus is not the way it happened, if it happened at all.
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So first of all, what is Exodus, and what really happened?
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Exodus is the liberation of the Jews from Egypt, and it is the central story of the
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Jewish tradition.
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And as I've said numerous times in various places, I believe that it's based on a historical
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kernel.
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I think Richard Eliot Friedman may have gotten this right in his book Exodus.
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It may have been the Levites who left Israel.
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But the Bible is not a book of history.
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I don't believe that there were 10 plagues and a split sea and 600,000 men, which makes
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about 2 million people, who actually, if there were 2 million people, would stretch all the
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way from Israel to Egypt alone, were liberated from Egypt.
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And my point in that sermon was not actually to convince people that it didn't happen.
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My point in that sermon was to convince people that the historicity of the Exodus is not
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the basis of the faith of the Jewish people.
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Well, what does the word historicity mean?
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In other words, the factuality of it.
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It can be true without being factual.
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So you're not supposed to read it as fact?
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Well, I don't read it as fact.
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I don't read it as a history book.
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I said, look, I was talking, again, to a congregation that had many Iranians.
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I said, you experienced the truth of the Exodus in your own life.
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There was a regime that wanted to destroy you.
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And you miraculously escaped before it did.
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And so a myth is something that may not have happened, but is always happening.
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And that's what I would say about the Exodus story.
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It's not about whether, in fact, there was a killing of the firstborn.
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It's about, does God deliver?
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Did God deliver the Jews in ancient times?
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Does God deliver people in modern times?
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And that's what the issue is.
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And to me, the issue of faith is much deeper than the issue of fact.
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I wouldn't look to the Torah for my science either.
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What are the limits of science in terms of, what can science not tell us that the Torah
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can in terms of wisdom?
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So the historicity, the facts of things, okay.
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If the Torah is much more than that, like you said, myth is not something that happened,
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but something that is always happening.
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And so presumably it's interacting with the environment of the day to generate wisdom.
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So you can live a life by Torah.
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I don't think you can live a life by biology.
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You can live a life that is informed by the values of the tradition of Judaism.
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And those values, by the way, what science does is it contributes factuality to the conversation
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and also changes the reality around us.
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So when you study Talmud on your iPhone, you're still, I mean, it changes the atmosphere in
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which you do it, but the wisdom and the life guidance and the connection to transcendence
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is something that science doesn't give.
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So if we now step into returning to our friend Sam Harris and step into this weird place
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of science, and you talked about this, where the kind of the current assumption of science
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is it's a materialistic one.
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So for me, obviously AI person, this whole mind thing is fascinating, like what the heck
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is going on up there?
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So how do you explain consciousness?
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How do you explain free will?
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Do you think, first of all, do you think we have a free will and if so, what is it?
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This is where we had the debate earlier that I mentioned with Hitchens where I think actually
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neither he nor the moderator understood what I was saying, which is I'm sure my inability
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to express it.
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But he was very focused and delivered on the humor and the wit.
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Yes.
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But what I was trying to say is if we're entirely biological creatures, if we didn't choose
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our genetics and we didn't choose our environment, then there is no space for free choice.
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I don't understand where it comes in.
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And I kept asking them that question but didn't get an answer because I don't think there
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is an answer.
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I think if you're a thoroughgoing materialist, free will is impossible.
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There could be randomness, but randomness is not free will, it's randomness.
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I think you need a spiritual nonmaterial belief in order to get free will and that's why I
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believe in free will.
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Yeah, you were talking about sort of, yeah, and actually the moderator totally missed
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your point about the glass of water and basically how, what's the difference.
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So do you, free will, because you could also, if it fits into the materialistic picture,
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it could be just a convenient, useful quirk.
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You would understand this better than I would.
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I don't understand how it could be a convenient quirk materialistic, I don't understand how
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to explain it.
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Well, no, there's, you know, if you study perception, there's all these kinds of illusions.
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We are, our mind plays tricks on us to make our life easier, more efficient and survive
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better and all those kinds of things.
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And so free, the feeling like we have a choice.
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Oh, that could be an illusion.
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Could be an illusion.
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That I understand.
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Right.
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But, but actual free choice, free will.
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I don't see where you get it if you're a materialist.
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I think you have to have a spiritual component.
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By the way, this, I think this is also, I think Sam would agree with this.
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I think he wrote about not having, not having free will.
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And I think if you don't have a God and you don't have a soul, that free will is a logical
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impossibility.
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But Sam, which is fascinating, it's not just that free will is an illusion, but the illusion
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of free will is an illusion, meaning there's not, we don't even experience anything like
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it.
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There's no illusion.
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We're like, it's not even honest to be talking about it.
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We're just, we are like the, the, the, the, the currents in the river or something that
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you were comparing it to the glass.
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We are just like that glass.
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Right.
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So I don't know what we're going on about with this whole free will thing.
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I mean, to you is the free will, the I that the young person is born with, is that somehow
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fundamental to religion?
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I think it's fundamental to Judaism.
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I think that the, the idea is that you are the custodian of your soul.
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And even though I grant that there's a certain over emphasis in modern society on the individuality
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of the soul, that is we are more interconnected than I think we're, we believe, still, yeah,
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the I, the idea that every human being is an image of God, that, I mean, that the human
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being in the Torah is, is created singly.
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And again, do I really believe there was an Adam and an Eve and a garden of Eden?
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No, not literally, but I think that it's, it expresses a deep truth about human life.
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And tied into this is the subject of experience of things, which we call consciousness.
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I mean, this is the most fascinating and inexplicable discussion.
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And again, this is a discussion I've had, I privileged to have with Daniel Dennett and
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could not make any, as you can imagine, any headway on my, but he was delightful and brilliant
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to talk to.
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I, for me, consciousness is a real thing.
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I don't know if it is, I mean, I kind of like the pan psych, psychists view that there's
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an element of consciousness in everything that that's constitutive of reality.
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But I don't, I'm not wedded to it, but I think that it's, it exists in different degrees
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in all sentient creatures.
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I think that anybody who has a pet knows that they have some kind of consciousness.
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Except cats.
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I'm not going to, I, since I don't have cats or dogs, I'm not going to.
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This is another reason people would be outraged.
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I said it.
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Well, I happen to be allergic to both, but I'm very fond of animals.
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The thing that so perplexes me about this and, and is the denial of the reality of consciousness
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from people who are fully aware that they're conscious.
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I don't know how you divest yourself of the most present quality of being a person in
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your discussions about what it is to be a person.
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We just don't really have a good sense of the alternative.
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And so you can kind of divest yourself in that way.
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Well, maybe everything is like this.
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Maybe we're trying, we're overdramatizing this whole thing and we're like every, everybody,
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every, it seems like every living thing, perhaps everything period thinks that it's the center
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of the universe.
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Right.
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And so here we are telling ourselves these dramatic, big stories about us being special
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and so on.
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And maybe we need to have a little bit more humility, both about the uncertainty and about
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our place in the whole.
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Any statement you make about something like consciousness has, I think, a sort of equal
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level of humility.
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Your saying that, you know, we don't have it is as not you Lex, but you person saying
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we don't have it is as intellectually arrogant as my saying we do.
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So I think for me, humility comes in, in admitting that we really, really have just the tiniest
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part of the puzzle and, and, and as you get older, at least my experience has been not
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that you get more answers, but that you just see a bigger puzzle.
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So to me, there's less, so the questions are fascinating, but there's also an engineering
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practical question.
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And perhaps I'll ask you a religious one too on this point to return back to robots.
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So how to engineer consciousness, or I'll just even ask you a very simple question,
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which is when you have robots that exhibit the capacity to suffer, I found in myself
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as a human, when I see that, I, I feel something.
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Exhibit the capacity to suffer, or they exhibit behaviors that evoke in you a sense that they
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are suffering.
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Those aren't the same things.
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For my, from an observation perspective, they sure as heck seem similar.
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You think they're feeling pain?
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I don't know what the, I'm observing pain.
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Okay.
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It's like when I watch a movie and there's people on screen, some, some of them are dressed
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like Batman.
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But I, but you can make the distinction.
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Like if I have a doll and I bend the doll over and it makes a sad face, I know that
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that doll is not actually in pain, even though I am observing pain.
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So the question, what's that?
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What the question is when the doll becomes able to remember things about you, David,
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about the experiences you shared, it is able to speak and make you feel like there's an
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actual relationship.
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So that's what I'm asking is at what point do you believe that the, and I know that this
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is an impossible question, but at what point do you believe that there is a consciousness
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in there as opposed to just an extraordinary, I mean, like when I play chess against a computer
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and it beats me, I'm embarrassed even though the computer doesn't, I don't think the computer
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is going out, you idiot, but it feels that way.
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But there is some part of me that says, okay, I know that this computer doesn't actually
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know who I am or care who I am.
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It just knows how to move the pieces.
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So at what point do you, I mean, you're giving me instances, it speaks, it does this, it
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does this, but at what point does that for you cross the threshold into it's actually
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a sentient being?
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I think the question is whether there is a threshold that could be crossed.
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Right.
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That's one question.
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And I can answer this because I think it's different from person to person, but the chess
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engine is not at all trying to cross that threshold.
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Let's just start there.
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And to me, the personalization, which is what's the difference, like a friend that you meet,
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you've shared all these memories and the way they look at you will convey in the things
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they say will convey that they've shared those memories with you.
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They'll be able to speak in a shared humor and the language, but really the memories
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is the big one of having gone through things together.
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I think I would have more and more trouble, for example, turning off a system that I've
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been through things with, like, and by turning off, I mean, delete all of its memory.
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If me and the toaster have gone through a bunch of dramatic events and that toaster
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remembers, there's a certain level to where like, it's just me and the toaster in this
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together at this point.
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And just to talk about sentience, I don't know, but you know.
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I don't know.
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It's according to the scripture, can't live by bread alone.
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But I would, I mean, I know that there's no way to determine this, but it's still about
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what you feel.
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Yes.
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But isn't that what human relations are also though?
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Yes, but.
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But we make each other feel.
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But it's true that I have the assumption that you feel somewhat like I do.
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I mean, obviously I don't, you know, and that could be illusion and I don't know.
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And I know that you don't feel exactly as I do.
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But I think we have a long, at least to me, we have a long way to go before the detached
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part of our brains.
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That is the objective evaluating part, as opposed to the emotive, it feels this way
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part, believe that that machine has consciousness.
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I think it's at least without arriving conclusions, it's at least possible that one day we will
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look back and realize that we have yet once again formed another tribe and that scripture
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all along had in it the ability for humans and robots to have a deep, meaningful connection.
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And that through the robot, the life that enters the body of another robot, what's the
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difference between a biological body and a mechanical one.
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And then we will see that the fundamental thing is about the, whatever you want to call
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it sentience or whatever can permeate an object.
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That was the thing all along.
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So I mean.
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And then you'll get canceled one more time because you will.
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Because I denied it.
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I was going to say.
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No, the opposite.
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You'll eventually.
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Oh, I see.
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Because I'll preach to the robots.
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I'm hoping.
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I'm hoping.
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All right.
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First of all, depends how quickly you do it and how much longer I have to live.
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I resist it tremendously, but I am also enough of a student of history to know that my instinctive
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resistance has nothing to do with whether it will come about.
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I have a hard time believing it.
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We'll see.
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Can I ask you about this?
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Maybe you can educate me.
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I tend to believe that you mentioned suffering, that there is a connection between consciousness
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and suffering.
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That suffering is a fundamental part.
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The capacity to suffer is the fundamental part of being human.
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I mean, I would look at when you're not conscious, you don't suffer.
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You know, we've had operations where we've been put under anesthetic.
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We're not conscious and we don't suffer during the operation.
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If we were conscious, we would.
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But there's also, I mean, there's a nonphysical suffering that is very much tied to consciousness.
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I can think of things right now that will cause me suffering, like pain that I've caused
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or pain that other people I care about have felt or so on.
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So I don't see how I think that way.
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I think it's equally true of joy.
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Joy is also a product of consciousness.
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All tied in in some beautiful, messy way with memory and so on that we can reexperience
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it when we recall the memories.
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But why is there suffering?
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You mentioned evil.
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Why is there evil in the world?
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You can tell stories about this.
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Why is there suffering?
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Why is there evil in the world if there's a God that cares for us?
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Let's assume for a minute that everything was a primitive robot.
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There would be no suffering, but there would also be no growth.
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And that implies choices.
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One of the things that I've said that I know why it hurts people, and I don't mean it quite
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the way, but I will say it nonetheless, is the Holocaust presents the exact same theological
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question as somebody who gets shot on the streets of a city in Los Angeles, which is,
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God, why do you allow some people to do bad things to other people?
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It's on an unimaginable scale, but it's the same question.
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And the answer has to be you either allow people to have free will or you don't.
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You can't say as God, I'm going to let everybody have free will, but not Nazis.
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Nazis don't get free will because Cambodians, they can kill each other.
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Fondans kill each other, but the Nazis don't get to do that.
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So that's one piece of the puzzle.
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And what makes it unfathomable is when you're actually faced with suffering, these kinds
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of explanations are obscene.
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They just are.
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I mean, when somebody is actually suffering, oh, the rabbi said God gave people free will,
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that's just awful.
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But there is a second piece to this also, which is that there is natural suffering,
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like children born with diseases or earthquakes or volcanoes or whatever.
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And here my argument is that in some ways, suffering has to be random in the world because
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when people say, why do bad things happen to good people, well, if only good things
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happen to good people, everybody would be good, but it would have no moral content.
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The only way you can be good and it have moral content is say, I know that I can live a really
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good life and have really terrible things happen to me nonetheless.
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So it feels to me like it has to be a randomly.
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Now that means, by the way, that I've been incredibly lucky.
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I don't have a good life because I was good.
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I have a good life because I was lucky.
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And that implies not that I should feel guilty about it, but that I have a tremendous responsibility
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as a result to other people who aren't so lucky.
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Tremendous responsibility to study the lessons of history, to tell the stories of those who
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are less lucky and to draw enough wisdom from them so that we have less cruelty and suffering
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in the world or have new kinds that get us to improve even more.
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That's right.
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Exactly.
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That we suffer better.
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For a lot of people, mortality is one of the very unfortunate versions of suffering, which
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is that the ride ends in this realm, whatever it is.
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What do you think of mortality?
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Is it something you think about?
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Is it something you fear?
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What do you think happens after we die?
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I don't fear it.
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First of all, I would say when I was in high school, I think my father actually encouraged
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me to read this book.
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I read Ernest Becker's Denial of Death, which I found and still find to be one of the most
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profound works I've ever come across.
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And he convinced me that a lot of what our society is about are ways that we avoid encountering
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our own mortality.
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Our physicality – I mean, among the points he makes – and I'm not quoting him at
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all directly – it's like, why does everything about our physical body make us so uncomfortable?
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Everything that comes out of you, other than tears, is either mildly or very disgusting.
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Why?
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Why does that have to be?
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Why are sex and eating and all the things that are physical surrounded with so much
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symbolism?
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I mean, what are table manners, really?
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They're like, we're not eating like animals because we're not eating like animals.
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And sex, obviously, has more symbolism around it than anything.
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And his answer is, anything that reminds you that you're a physical body because that's
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what dies.
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Your body dies.
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It decays.
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It dies.
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It gets eaten by worms.
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That you don't want to think about, so you deny it.
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I think that part of religion is a confrontation with your own mortality, but also a certain
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transcendence of it because the idea is something about you is eternal.
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What exactly I don't know.
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And you asked, what do I think happens after we die?
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So I don't know any better than anyone else does, but I'll say two things about it.
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One is that every image of what it's like is foolish.
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Mark Twain has, I think, in Letters from Earth, he says, we're going to lie on green fields
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and listen to harp music, which you wouldn't want to do for five minutes while you're alive,
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but you think you'll be happy for the rest of eternity doing it after you die.
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So I don't know.
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This world was a surprise.
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So why shouldn't the next world be a surprise?
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I have no idea.
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But I really like this parable that's told by a guy in a book on death and mourning by
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a rabbi in a book on death and mourning about twins in a womb.
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He says, one of them believes that there's a life outside and the other one doesn't.
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He says, the one who doesn't says, look, this is the only world we've ever seen, the only
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world we've ever known.
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Why do you think there's something out there?
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He says, now imagine the one who believes is born.
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Back in the womb, his brother is mourning a death, but outside, everybody's celebrating
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a birth.
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He said, and that's what it's like when you die.
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And I love that image.
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Yeah, the grass is always greener.
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It's the new step, but the eternity thing is an interesting one.
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It's yet another concept that I feel humans are fully inequipped to comprehend.
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Is eternity fundamental somehow to all of these discussions?
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I think it is, well, partly because God is supposed to be eternal and therefore it moves
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the mind in that direction, even though it is completely unfathomable, you know?
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Because sometimes I would say eternity, you said on a green field, sometimes a moment,
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like a truly joyful moment, feels like an eternity, the intensity of it.
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Maybe eternity is more about stopping time versus extending time indefinitely, and it's
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something that we just totally can't comprehend, us silly humans.
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All I would say is the older you get, the more you're struck by the fact that time does
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not freeze.
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People will sometimes say to me, you haven't aged a day.
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And then I'll look at an old picture of myself and I'll say, that was very kind of you, but
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that's not true.
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It's not true.
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So, yeah, I mean, I love the idea of seeing eternity in a grain of sand, was how Blake
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put it.
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I love that notion.
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But when you talk about life after death, I think that in some ways, my fundamental
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faith is in human beings, that this doesn't all disappear, that there's something about
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people that transcends this world.
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You mentioned Ernest Becker in high school and denial of death.
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Maybe you can mention if you still see truth and wisdom in some of this idea.
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But in general, can you go all the way back and tell some of the fascinating story of
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how you found faith?
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When I was in high school, I was a really pretty ardent atheist.
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And I loved Bertrand Russell, who was, for my money, with all due respect to all the
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very, very capable people that we've talked about earlier, he's the best atheist pound
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for pound that there was, and a remarkably witty and lucid writer.
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And I was totally in his thrall.
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And I would read every book by Russell I could get my hands on.
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And the reason that I did, I have this theory that why do adolescent boys like Mr. Spock
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and like Sherlock Holmes?
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I think it's because when you hit puberty, for a lot of us, there's so much discomfort
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with our bodies that we like the idea that we're just brains.
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I really think so.
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I had that experience.
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It's like, I want to just be a thinking machine.
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I don't want to be a body because my body was making me so uncomfortable.
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I had all these urges and inclinations that I couldn't control.
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So Russell was perfect.
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And my father, who was a rabbi, did the very wise thing of buying me some of Bertrand Russell's
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books, which was his way of saying, I'm not afraid of him.
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And actually, there was another rabbi.
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I was at summer camp, and I was sitting on the porch of the, I remember exactly, and
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I was reading Bertrand Russell, and this guy came up to me and said, what are you reading?
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I was maybe 16 or 17, and I said, Bertrand Russell, I was spoiling for a fight.
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And he said, I'm glad you're reading him.
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I said, really?
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Why?
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He goes, how old are you, David?
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And I said, whatever I was, 16, 17.
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He said, well, I'd rather you grow out of him than grow into him.
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And you know what?
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He was actually right because when I started to read about Russell's life, I realized
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that all of that rationality didn't shield him.
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He had an incredibly messy life, multiple marriages, endless infidelities, family members
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he didn't speak to who didn't speak to him, by the way, was raised by his grandparents
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because his parents had died, and really not a happy or, I mean, a remarkable life, but
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not a happy one.
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And so I started to believe that maybe it was possible that people who had faith were
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not just stupid and needed crutches, but saw something deeper than Russell did.
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And the more people that I met that were like that, it's funny because I always thought,
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okay, my father is a rabbi, that's great, but nobody else.
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And I think what happened to me was it was not a logical decision to come to faith.
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It was a sort of opening of my heart.
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It's like this world is way much more than my mind can capture, and I've kind of felt
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my way to God.
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And in the moments, my faith, you know, there was a rabbi named Rabbi Nachman of Bratslav,
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he said he was a moon man, his faith waxed and waned.
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So sometimes I have more, sometimes less.
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But in my feelinger moments is when I have more.
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So with your heart open, what would you say in your feelinger moments is the most beautiful
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part about Judaism and your faith?
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I think the most beautiful part about Judaism is that even though it is filled with humor
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and wit, it takes life and it takes the soul seriously.
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Everybody really believes that this matters, and that we matter, and what we do matters.
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And I think that that's incredibly important, and especially in a world in which young people
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feel so much like they don't matter, that's an unbelievably powerful message.
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I mean, you know, I want to say like almost to every young woman under 30 on TikTok, you
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don't matter because you're beautiful.
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That's not why you matter.
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I hope you know that.
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You matter because you have a soul.
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And to every young man who's like nihilistic and doesn't think and just thinks that if
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they make enough money, their life will be fine, I want to say the same thing, which
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is really that's not ultimately you matter because you're in the image of God.
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And Judaism really deeply, deeply believes and preaches that.
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And I think that that's a message that has so much to say to the world.
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It's like you have to take people's souls seriously.
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And for all of the difficulty in figuring out all these social questions and what they
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mean, I just don't want to dismiss people because I disagree with them politically or
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socially or culturally, because I think they matter.
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So ultimately Judaism has a wealth of meaning for a human mind.
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I really believe that it does.
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I really do.
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And its meaning, and I want to emphasize this, is not political.
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The deepest meaning of Judaism is not political.
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Well there is, we put politics on top of everything.
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Exactly.
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But that's why I want to emphasize it.
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The deepest meaning is on a soul level.
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It's not on a voting level.
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Well that combined with the humor, it's clear to me that Christopher Hitchens should have
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been a Jew.
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He was.
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He actually was.
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He discovered that in his 30s, that his mother was Jewish.
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That's fascinating.
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Yep.
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He actually, he has a beautiful essay about it, discovering in his 30s that his mother
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was Jewish, yep.
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So remarkably enough, he actually was Jewish.
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His autobiography, Hitch 22, is a great read.
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And I just want to say, what you discover there, I don't know if I'm giving too much
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away by telling the story of his life.
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Spoiler alert.
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What you discover there is that his mother ran away with a minister or a priest and they
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died in what seemed like was a suicide pact.
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And so I read it, unfortunately, after he passed away, but I would have wanted to ask
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him, do you think that has anything to do maybe with the hostility towards religion?
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We are only human.
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My father, I mean, both my parents, but my father, who was a rabbi, was such a wonderful,
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warm, and loving man.
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So I associate a religious figure with real goodness.
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And I'm sorry to return to a darker topic, but I really wanted to ask you this.
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For the current events, for a recent event, I mentioned Dallas.
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What lessons do you draw from the Dallas Synagogue hostage incident?
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Well, the week after that, we had active shooter training in my synagogues.
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And one of the things I drew was that security for synagogues is important.
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And the second is that the reality of antisemitism, which I had thought had waned when I first
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began my rabbinate, I thought it's not going to be such a big issue, it is like an evergreen
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issue.
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And Jews and all people of goodwill have to take this really seriously, because it has
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devastating consequences.
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And if the world doesn't know that, then it just hasn't been paying attention.
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So there's antisemitism at a scale of human to human, but there's also, like you mentioned,
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politics get mixed up into things, nations get mixed into things, impossible to answer.
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But I have to ask, what do you think about the long running saga of Israel and Palestine?
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Will we ever see peace in that part of the Middle East?
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01:54:00.200
Well, since I'm an optimist about human, look, I mean, I have many, many thoughts about it.
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I'm a very, very strong supporter of Israel.
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And I also feel really for the plight of the Palestinians.
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I think that this is a clash of legitimate narratives that is impossible to exactly split
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the difference of.
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However, I know that Israel has made peace with Egypt, has made peace with Jordan, has
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made peace now with other Arab nations.
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I don't believe that Israel is unwilling to make peace.
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And so I think that as difficult as it will be for the Palestinians to come to grips with
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the fact that the Jewish state is not leaving and is legitimately here, as opposed to we
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can't get rid of it now, but we will get rid of it one day.
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If that comes to be, and I believe that it will, I think not only that there would be
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peace, but I think that those two peoples together could probably do remarkable things
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in the world.
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Do you think the source of it is politics?
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Is it religious ideas?
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And to flip it, what is the way out?
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Is it geopolitics?
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Is it interfaith discourse and collaboration, or is it simply the human love?
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So I'm not sure that I could give one answer to that, but I will give a piece of an answer.
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Why did the Abraham Accords happen?
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The main reason that they happened was because economics overrode ideology.
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And I actually am hopeful that that's in the end what will happen, that people will
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say, you know what?
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If we have such a better life, if we put aside the ideological animosities and just created
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this different kind of Middle East together.
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01:56:11.460
I went to Dubai to watch the World Chess Championship, because I really wanted to see Magnus Carlsen
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play.
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I thought, you're alive when you have such a remarkable world champion.
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Go see him play.
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So I actually took myself to Dubai for the last couple of games, and I watched.
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It's not that I'm uninterested in Dubai, but I went there for the chess thing.
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The Expo was also on at the same time, and I saw, here's this amazing place.
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I came back.
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This guy I know who lived in Dubai for several years and works in the Middle East said to
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me, what did you think of it?
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And I said, it was nice, it was Dubai.
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It was very polished, very sophisticated, very clean, no crime and so on.
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But it was kind of like Las Vegas in the Middle East without the gambling or something like
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that.
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And he totally changed my perspective in a couple sentences.
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He said, I know it seems like that when you come from Los Angeles.
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He said, but fly there from Yemen or from Riyadh, and it is a miracle.
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And I thought, oh my God, you're right.
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It's like what human beings can do if they just put aside their ideological shackles
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is remarkable, and I'm hopeful that one day that'll happen.
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Economics allows for higher quality of life.
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You no longer, it's the playground analogy you said earlier.
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If there's more resources to play with, unfortunately, us humans are more willing to play with others.
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And maybe that is the solution.
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And maybe, I mean, for me, from a technology perspective, innovation, engineering helps
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make everybody's life better.
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And over that, once people's lives become better, they start to have more time to be
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empathetic and hear people out.
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And they have more to lose.
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When you have more to lose, it actually makes you, I think, countries are less willing to
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go to war when they have more to lose.
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And families want peace when it's good at home.
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So I think there's an element of that as well.
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And some of it, again, taking us back to the other aspect of our conversation is how we're
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conducting ourselves in conversation online and so on.
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Because I think, actually, I'm a big fan of the idea of social media that is a way for
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us to connect together.
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I think there's a lot of really strong ideas how to do that well.
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And clearly, the initial attempts that kind of just open it up wide, some of the lesser
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aspects of human nature can take over when combined with different forces like advertisements
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and virology and all those kinds of things.
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But overall, I love the honesty of the mess of it being presented before us on social
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media.
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Part of me, maybe because I don't participate it, like if somebody is being mean to me or
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being aggressive and these kinds of things, I enjoy it because it's human nature.
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But I enjoy it because I don't respond.
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I think if I responded, I would get pulled into this human nature and then it's not fun.
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But I love the, like I'll talk to people.
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In fact, I still visit Clubhouse.
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I don't know if you know what that is.
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Sure.
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Oh, right.
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That's right.
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Actually, when I...
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I think that's how we first met.
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Well, yeah.
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Well, I was such a fan boy.
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Actually, when I first heard you, I was like, I can't believe I get to talk to David.
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But the Israel Palestine topic was something that was very deeply in a heated way discussed
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on Clubhouse.
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Race relations is the thing that was really heatedly discussed.
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And I now go to Clubhouse to practice Russian.
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And there in Russian, the heated discussion is on basically any topic as meaningless or
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meaningful as you want in the heat of it.
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Just people just screaming and then calming down and going through the full process.
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That too is beautiful because that emotion is there.
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And if it is allowed to have a voice, I think ultimately it leads to healing.
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So that felt really healthy if you learn how to do that at scale.
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Social media, I wish that it were not as algorithmically biased towards conflict.
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I don't think that that's healthy.
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But I think it brings a lot of blessings into people's lives if they use it wisely.
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Like anything else, it can be awful.
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But I've connected to all sorts of people that I never would have known.
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And that's been wonderful.
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So let me ask you the big question of advice.
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What advice would you give to young people today that are maybe high school, college,
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thinking about career, thinking about life, they can be proud of.
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So the first thing that I would say is that life is longer than you think it is.
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Even though I understand the impulse to be in a rush, you will have many unfoldings.
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More even than people of my generation did.
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Unfoldings, that's such a funny word.
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But it feels that way.
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It's like different aspects of your life will come, will show you different possibilities
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that you don't imagine at the moment.
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And I think the second thing that I would say is, I know that this is a very old fashioned,
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but I would say to the extent that you can read, don't just, and not just on social media,
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read books.
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Learn things that will give you a broader context for your life than just today or yesterday
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or the day before.
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And I suppose the other thing that I would say is that to the extent that you can try
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to develop your own internal metric of both what matters and what is good, because you
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will be exposed to more voices than any generation in history telling you that that's good or
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this is good.
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They're called influences, influencers, but what they are is voices telling you what you
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should think and what you should believe.
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And so have some internal space where you'll be able to say, for example, I know this person
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is doing that and it looks great, but that's not me.
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You have a community of people that speak to you with a lot of passion.
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Do you still have that voice in your own, in the privacy of your own mind that you're
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able to ignore, like for a moment, just be with yourself, think what is right?
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Absolutely.
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And I think it's partly because I grew up without that.
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I mean, I grew up with a lot of space in my life, and so I had a chance to develop that
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voice.
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That's why I think it's harder for kids today than it was for me.
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I mean, I grew up when there were three channels, there was three, six and 10.
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There was ABC, CBS and NBC, and that was it.
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And you spent your evening playing board games or reading or whatever, and there was a lot
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of space.
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And we played football on the street and you went on your bike in the morning and nobody
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worried about you and you came home at night and everybody assumed you were fine.
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And so I really feel, and also I went into a religious tradition where I feel like I
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have the opportunity to judge myself by bigger metrics.
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And it's still hard.
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I don't want to, it's not like, oh, I wear impenetrable armor.
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It's still hard.
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So how much harder for kids today when they don't have that?
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You mentioned books.
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Is there Bertrand Russell and Denial of Death by Ernest Becker, is there books that pop
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into mind that had an impact on you?
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My favorite novel is Middlemarch.
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Middlemarch?
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Middlemarch.
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I was listening to a podcast, I was listening to one of your podcasts where your guest said
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the two greatest novels of the 19th century were Brothers Karamazov and, what was the
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other one he mentioned?
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I don't remember.
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Dostoevsky as well or no?
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I think.
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Was it both Dostoevsky?
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It might have been.
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I don't remember.
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But anyway, but I would say Middlemarch is up there.
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Middlemarch presents an entire world and it's written by a woman, Marianne Evans, who took
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the pen name George Eliot, who you feel, Virginia Woolf said it's the only English novel written
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for grownups.
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You feel the genius in her sentences, like the pressure of her intellect in her sentences.
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It's a wonderful, wonderful book.
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I love it.
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Pressure of her intellect.
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Yeah, you really do.
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I also love Saul Bellow, especially Herzog, but it's a very different kind of thinking
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person's novel.
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I read a lot of mysteries and a lot of other kinds of fiction and literature.
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But in terms of the books that most, you mentioned one of them, which is Viktor Frankl's Man's
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Search for Meaning.
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And I also really, really love Heschel's The Sabbath.
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I think it's a beautiful book.
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It's a very short book, just as Frankl's book is.
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What do you take from The Man's Search for Meaning?
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What do you take of a human being in the worst conditions, being able to non dramatically
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find little joys, find beauty?
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It's what I said before about Judaism's advice to younger people, is that it mattered.
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If you believe that something matters, you have enormous resilience.
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It's meaninglessness that is the greatest threat to a decent life.
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When people are deeply depressed, whether it is chemical depression or what they feel
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like is this is all meaningless.
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And meaning, now obviously chemical depression calls in part for chemical means, but meaning
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is the great antidote.
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We can talk about what kind of meaning.
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There are kinds of meanings that are awful, but meaning is the great antidote to a sense
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that life is just nihilistic and purposeless and to that destructiveness that I think is
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too common.
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Yeah, so maybe the heroic action in Nazi Germany, in the Holocaust, in the camps is the, even
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not the action, but just the realization that every life matters.
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So here's this really wonderful story that Hugo Grin, who was a rabbi in England, died,
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I don't know, like 15, 20 years ago, he used to tell, he grew up in Auschwitz.
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He was a child there and he was with his father and it was Hanukkah and you're supposed to
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light the candles.
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And his father took the margarine ration and used it as the oil to light the Hanukkah candles.
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And Hugo was scandalized and he said, that's our food.
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And his father said, what we have learned, my son, is you can live for three weeks without
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food.
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You can live for three days without water, but you can't live for three minutes without
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hope.
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Well, hope, let me ask you, you said meaning.
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What's the meaning of this whole thing?
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What's the meaning of life?
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You're the perfect person to ask this question, Rabbi David Wolff.
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I believe the meaning of life is for human beings to grow in soul.
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That's why we're here.
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And you can do that in infinite numbers of ways.
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But if you're supposed to return your soul like more burnished and beautiful, then you
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got it.
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I mean, it's going to have some nicks and cuts, but that's what it means to deepen and
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grow it.
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And you do that more than anything else.
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You do that by learning how to love.
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I mean, that's the principle way, I think, that you do it.
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You know, it's interesting because for a human, the relationship, if you're a man of faith,
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is with God.
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But it feels like love is so richly part of human society that it's not just love of God,
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it's love of each other.
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Right.
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Yep.
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There's no question about the idea.
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I mean, in Judaism, that was actually the great innovation of the monotheistic idea.
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In pagan societies, it was all about how you treated the gods.
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Monotheism said, no, God cares how you treat each other.
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So it's, in fact, the mystics use the same kind of word in Hebrew, davekut, which means
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clinging, that is used about Adam and Eve.
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It says, therefore, a man will leave his father and mother and davak with his wife.
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And davak means cling.
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So there is an analogy there, absolutely.
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Yeah, I kind of think of human civilization as that movie, March of the Penguins, and
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they're all huddling together in the cold.
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This is fundamentally human, this darkness all around us of uncertainty, of cruelty.
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It seems like everything is so fragile, and we're just kind of all huddling together for
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warmth.
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Yes.
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And that's all we got is each other.
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So we started with the big question of what is God, ended with what is meaning.
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Rabbi Wolpe, I've been a huge, as I've told you, huge, huge fan of yours for a long time.
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It's such an honor that you talked to me today.
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Thank you so much.
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I am really so happy to be here, and thank you so much for the conversation.
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Thanks for listening to this conversation with David Wolpe.
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And now, let me leave you with some words from David himself.
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The only whole heart is a broken one, because it lets the light in.
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Thank you for listening, and hope to see you next time.